been seeing this guy for past few months, since we met he has persued me & wanted to move fast into a commitment & I held off saying I'd like to be friends for a while...recently, I started reciprocating to him & we went on a couple of dates & got quite cozy & all..i ve met his friends & they think we are going out.....now, i went on vacation for 2 weeks & came back, since then, i met him a couple of times & he's been really wierd, not like his usual self, then yesterday we met & in the middle of a convo he said he's been thinking about us & where we are going & we should be friends! i was surprised, it was like he s saying i m the one behind him than vice versa! i didn t want to make a big deal so i said yes we are friends only but i want to know Y the sudden change of heart? i met his friends a few days ago maybe someone said something to him? should i talk to him about it? I don t want to lose this now that i m also feeling some attraction, can i get him back without sounding needy?
2007-06-27 07:42:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In this situation, the best thing to do is to play it cool! Go along with being friends and see how he acts in the next couple of weeks. Sounds like he may not be ready to have a girlfriend yet and it could be for many different reasons. Wait for him to call you and play it cool and he will be more interested than ever. Guys like him enjoy the chase.
2007-06-27 07:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes not into you like that then leave him alone. There are more fish in the sea. Be friends with him, and be kinda flirty. . make sure you always look cute. . If he still feels the attraction he'll let you know. But dont talk to him about it. . you may infact sound needy and scare him off.
2007-06-27 14:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋