I'm 22 he's 15..may sound funny but we get along great...i'm surprised too but he's really mtured ...

Question

I mean the way he thinks and acts and he doesn't even look like a 15 years old boy...u can't imaginge he's 15 if u meet him and talk to him...I don't think about sex but i really do love him... he says we can get married in 5 years...i reallly adore him ...what do u think

Answer 1

He's still legally a child and you're an adult. At least wait until he has grown-up.

Answer 2

7 years isn't a big deal, except for the fact that you can be locked up for a long time at your current ages. And think about it, a 15-yr-old "kid" falls in love really easy and quick, especially if he's getting sex from an older girl. Stick with guys closer to your age and look this kid up when he's 21 and you're 28. Then he'll have a better idea of what being an adult is more about.

Answer 3

No matter how mature you think he may be, he's still a MINOR and you are an adult. He will change enormously in the next five years and for the time being, you need to stop the romantic talk. And sex...you don't think about it?? Oh sure you don't. It's just about all a 15 year old boy is thinking of. I think you need to let him grow up without you putting ridiculous ideas in his head. Meanwhile, find someone who's got puberty out of the way.

Answer 4

I believe that age is just a number. Though as far as I'm concerned, that only applies once both people are of legal age. He may be very mature but he's still a child. I would strongly suggest that you do not go any further with this relationship. What could you possibly have in common with this child? He's not even old enough to drive. Start hanging out with people your own age and let him be a kid. Once you're both of legal age you can see where you both are in life and maybe something can work out then, but for now move on.

Answer 5

I think that you can definitely fall in love with someone significantly younger/older than you are. The only problem you face is the age you are each at now. Seven years will mean nothing when you are 29 and he is 22. So, if you do date him be careful. Even if he consents if you have a bad break-up or his parents find out you could still be prosecuted. Good luck and just think everything out before you make any decisions!

Answer 6

As sex is out the question anyway, put him in a 'friend' category. Nothing wrong with having him as a friend, but when it comes to relationships you're either going to have to be prepared to wait or keep your eyes open.

Both of you haven't really had much life experience. You're 22. You need someone within a legal age or you'll regret it. Would cause you and him no end of problems in both legal and psychological areas. He's got exams to consider for starters and even if you and him didn't have sex (because you legally can't) he doesn't need for emotion to get in the way.

You don't want to find yourself on a sex offenders register.

Answer 7

You are treading on dangerous ground. Remember Mary-Kay LeTourneau*??

This youngster may 'act' mature, but he lacks the basic life experience in which REAL maturity is based upon.

In five years, he may feel differently about you, what he wants in life, and many other factors that play into growing up.

Seven years is quite a difference in age when he is so young.

Are you willing to wait until he is of legal age to have sex with him? How is this young man supposed to support a wife?

The brain chemicals that make us feel like we are "in love" are mostly oxytocin and endorphines. They are designed to make humans want to have sex (and therefore procreate the species) without thinking too much about the consequences.
After a while, the intensity of these hormones wears off and many passionate love relationships are left wondering what happened to their passionate love...
If you have a solid relationship foundation in place before the chemicals wear off, the relationship has a better chance of surviving.

*Mary-Kay LeTourneau spent several years in jail and when she was released, she and her young lover Vili Fualaau married. Looks like it turned out alright for them.
(By the way... I saw Vili Fualaau at the grocery store last summer).

Answer 8

He cannot be matured he is only 15 wait a few more years do your own thing and see where he will be then ,no 22 year old would want to be dating a 15 year old .

Answer 9

I think you get along great because you are both on the same level of maturity. He is more mature for his age and you are more immature for your age.

You can get in serious legal trouble if you keep this relationship. I think you should stop this relationship and experiment with guys your age and older. See what really makes a mature man, mature. When this boy becomes a man (21 - 25) and you are 28-32, look him up and see how it goes.

Answer 10

you are going to be considered a paedophile. I strongly advise that you do not have sex with a minor. I am not one to disagree with older females and younger males but you HAVE to wait!!! He hasn't had much time to mature yet and maybe he needs a taste of life in his own age group before he can really be fully mature. I have a 14 year old who is extremely mature and knows words we have problems understanding but emotionally he is not mature and still needs a mum around him. You are heading for a court case if you get too attached to him...even if you don't have sex you will inspire all sorts of accusations and be treated like a leper if you are seen in a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' way with a minor.

Answer 11

It seems way too young to me. Consider where you were and what your life experiences were at 15. They're just out of adolescence, doesn't matter what they look like!
I'd bet the farm that in 5 years (he'll still only be 20), he'll have changed and won't be the same person he is now.