Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

right i like this boy .i hv like him for about 8 months llthogether lol well in between i stopped fancing him ..well wen i first fancied him eeryone came to know about it yh and after like 2 moths later we had an argument because sum1 said sumhing to him that i said but like in wrong way yh ...so now i likehim again my friends know about it and we have code name for him lemon lmao! strange i know but dw about it so one day we were talking about it and he heard e saying i love lemon yh he thought it is him and asked me if it was true as his name starts with L yh and i said nooo and all like lemon is not in anyof my lessons and all so know after that lemon thing (3 weeksl8a) he talks to me loads & today he was looking at me from other endof theroom and when i looked at him &looked awayhecalled me and said i(L)u & i said ly2den hesmiledand my friend caught him staring at me when i was talking to him he has got a gf and he is popular u know wt i mean& iamnot

2007-06-27 08:56:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey pple... me n my gal r gonna do it... but she has heard from here n ther tht its painful n stuff n not easy.... she is ready for it nw...but she wudnt make love to me completely if she finds it painful... help needed frm exprienced pple !

2007-06-27 08:54:05 · 12 answers · asked by fresh_dev 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will invite her but I am just confused because we went to her high school graduation and she never said hi to me at all. Her mom says that she is not allowed to come here alone. I am not selfish I just wanted some advice thank you

2007-06-27 08:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa m 1 in Weddings

Would that person (you) at 4 years old, understand where you are now?

2007-06-27 08:50:55 · 35 answers · asked by wonkyfella 5 in Family

2007-06-27 08:49:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend got me a very beautiful promise ring for christmas the link below is where you can go to view my ring..

http://www.zales.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2427504&cp=2109134&categoryId=2109134&parentPage=search&searchId=20947714394

my boyfriend got the ring on sale for approx 600 dollars. Being the kind of girl i am (no at all greedy) i feel the ring was good enough to be an engagement ring. His only reason for not proposing with it was that he felt i would think it was not expencive enough...COme on now a SIX HUNDRED DOLLAR PROMISE RING !! who needs a promise ring that expensive.

Ok well any way the reason i am on her is b/c i told him there is no need to spend alot of money on an engagement ring when i love my promise ring...he feels a little funny about just proposing to me with a ring he gave to me as a promise ring (even though he would have proposed if he had felt like it was good enough) What shoud he do that doesnt envolve alot of money??

2007-06-27 08:42:52 · 23 answers · asked by jrh 1 in Weddings

Ok, guys...what attracts you to wanting to go out with a girl??? What can they do to get you and what shouldnt they do?

2007-06-27 08:40:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was making up with this girl whom I happen to fancy and she does fancy me too but we both have agreed that we can not get together for reasons that both of us agree. Then I ejaculated on her pubic area on top of her panties. she is now telling me that i made her pregnant. Is it really possible to get a girl pregnant without entering her or spilling the juices on top of her panties. Help am confused. Need answers ike yesterday before i do something wrong

2007-06-27 08:36:47 · 59 answers · asked by pet 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to get a present for my husband that is very,very special and very meaningful. Something that he will treasure forever. The thing is, is that he is really hard to buy for and nothing I get he ever seems to like. Do you have any ideas?

2007-06-27 08:35:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and the rest of his friends all realise that shes not right in the head, she attention seeks, shes a complusive liar and fakes panic attacks, and has cheated on him. what should we do? he just likes to please her and keep her happy, but we are worried that she will hurt him and i dont want him to loose friends over her.

2007-06-27 08:35:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I have finally set a date for our wedding. It's not until 2008 (we're waiting until after our little one is born), but I want to start planning now...haha, and that's just it. I'm clueless! I have to idea where to start .. if anyone could offer any suggestions that would be great. I don't really have a theme, but I want it to be elegant, but modern. I'm already on theknot.com and I don't want to hire a consultant...just because of the budget. Im kind of looking for color schemes, and just ideas. I did see these colors, creams, ivorys and very very light orange, but I don't know. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks -Emily.

2007-06-27 08:29:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what are other ideas to show us becoming one, ive seeing the unity candle and the combing of sand but i want somthing unique and different any ideas?

2007-06-27 08:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Weddings

His mom doesn't like me. All we do is hang out with his family every day and all weekend! Now he son is starting to live more on his own and she doesn't like that at all! She is rude to me and frankly I'm rude back. I don't like her at all!

2007-06-27 08:26:52 · 31 answers · asked by ang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are needing ideas of different places to get married. I am not a religious person so I think it is wrong for me to get married in a church (seeing as though I dont have their beliefs) but I dont want a registry office wedding either. I have thought about a hotel but they are usually not very good and its not a very good idea to do it outside as you cant guarantee that the weather is going to be nice. We are totally lost for ideas so can anyone help and think of different places or venues to get married that would be nice and special too.

2007-06-27 08:23:58 · 19 answers · asked by angelcakes 5 in Weddings

If your spouse doesn't like you watching porn shouldn't they be the one to go get therapy to get over their issue with porn and let you watch whatever you want?

I'm talking about view legal porn, not the illegal sick stuff.

Don't we have freedom in this country to try and do what we want to do and doesn't that include viewing porn?

Its seems to me that the person with the issue should be the one to fix themselves instead of trying force the other to do what they want. Am I wrong?

2007-06-27 08:21:40 · 27 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 years old. I have been going out with by boyfriend for about a week. Today his friend came up to me and said that my boyfriend told him to tell me that he doesnt want to go out with me because he wants us to be more of a mature close couple which he says we arent. I then went to talk to my boyfriend (to explain to him that relationships take time) but he said that he never told his friend to tell me what he did. I dont understand because im sure his friend (his best friend) wouldnt say this completely out of the blue. Why did his friend say this to me? whats going on?? any advice please??

2007-06-27 08:19:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do I do. My future husband has a 18 year old daughter.We are getting married in 2 months. She pretty much demanded that she be invited to the wedding. Well her and I dont get along because she blames me for her moving with her mom. His ex wants to come to our wedding with the daughter what do I do?

2007-06-27 08:19:41 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa m 1 in Weddings

I have been married for 5 years and have fallen out of love with him. I care about him but do not want to be married anymore. I am in love with my dance partner and dont know what to do.

2007-06-27 08:19:23 · 20 answers · asked by lia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 08:17:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi,
I'm getting married at the end of July.
We are having a wedding with just 2 witnesses to save hassle and money.
Do you have to say vows in order for it to be legal or can you just sign the register?

2007-06-27 08:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Can someone please try to explain why my ex is doing this? I broke up with him 6 months ago, he changed...his best friend became single and he then changed, always out and hardly seeing me. I felt so unwanted and couldnt cope. He told me lies before about getting a house together etc. However, after xmas we met up now and again, he was so full on with me and got jealous when men looked at me and was all over me, but when i wasnt around, he didnt really contact me much. He cried several times in public when i mentioned us being ex's and he tried to commit suicide twice, or so he says. Didnt go to work etc. However, i had enough of not knowing where i stood, i changed my number, he didnt know. I got an e-mail couple of weeks ago saying 'Hi. How are you? What are you upto? How are your family?' I replied, being polite. He never replied. (CONTINUED BELOW...)

2007-06-27 08:15:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its just a picture on a screen or in a magazine, and if you can't compete with that you can't be much of a woman. You have to be incurably insecure, it would seem to me.

2007-06-27 08:12:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy @ my friend's job always comes to harrass her while she's on her lunch break @ work. & she said she can't enjoy her lunch break without him bothering her.

Yesterday, he wrestled her for her purse & tore off the handles & straps & today, he deliberately spilled her soda on the floor & it got all over my book bag & she only got to eat 2 bites of her hamburger & he threw the rest of her food away. Her meal costed $8 for a burger, fries, beans, & soda & some sun chips for a snack for later. She beat the crap out of him.

But why do all this mean stuff to a chick you got a crush on?

2007-06-27 08:11:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This maybe an age-old question, if a parent is just opposed to the daughter's boyfriend for whatever reason (most commonly that she can do better), how would you talk to her about it.

2007-06-27 08:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by ckaadev 2 in Family

I mean right when things start to get good?

2007-06-27 08:02:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee works full time as a nursing asst. I am a stay at home "fiancee" I clean and cook and take care of our 4 cats all day.

As soon as I wake up my fiancee wants me to make him food and make lunch for him for work and get salt water to soak his sore feet in. I dont even walk out the bedroom door without a list of commands from him. He gets mad at me when I say I have something else to do first (like go to the bathroom or take my pills)

He also expects me to whip up dinner with 5 mintues notice. He never says thank you and just expects everything to be done. He makes a huge mess all the time and never even tries to clean up after himself. Then he gets mad when I clean up and he cant find something that I put in its rightful place! No matter what its my fault.

I feel like he doesnt understand what I do, I know he cant do what I do because his mother always did everything for him so he doesnt know how to clean or organize. Am I being stupid about this?

2007-06-27 08:01:17 · 75 answers · asked by Heidi Anne 5 in Singles & Dating

...sexually that is without actual penetration?

Would you still consider it sex, without the penetration?

2007-06-27 08:01:14 · 1 answers · asked by Serengetti 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are no longer technically engaged although he still plans on marrying me in the next one and a half to two years. I told him I didn't want to be engaged until I felt he was ready to be more responsible and called off the wedding. I refuse to wear my ring or even look at wedding stuff. I've stopped planning, which presents a problem if I do want to marry him in a year or two. I know that it takes about a year to properly plan and pay for a wedding, so my question is this, do I go ahead and buy the gown that I love and continue to pick up wedding odds and ends along the way, or do I just forget about it and wait until he asks me again? I don't want to seem like I'm being sneaky or changeable, but I already had this entire thing planned in my head. I'd already bought somethings for invitations such as stickers, do I finish paying for the invitations materials and just store them? Most of my friends say go ahead and buy the things I know I want, like the gown.

2007-06-27 07:59:43 · 31 answers · asked by Linda J 1 in Weddings

In order to keep costs down, my fiancé and I are planning a small wedding with only close friends and close family members. The weddings we have been invited to recently are that of friends we aren't very close to and could almost be classified as acquaintances. Is it tacky to not return the invite? Thanks in advance.

2007-06-27 07:59:15 · 20 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Weddings

My sister bf and I are not getting along, it's so bad that even my sister has turned against me. I took up for my sister last week bc her her bf said she isn't worth a ****. The house was messy but she is pregnant. I saw the way he talked to her and I got upset so I cussed him out. The next day after that I texted him to tell him how much of a lowlife he is so he told me he'll make sure I never see his child and told me to **** off dyke.

My sister told me he was just joking and he's sorry for joking when he was talking down to her. I don't take jokes like that lightly...you just don't joke like that. Yesterday my sister called me stupid and petty for caring about her and she thinks I am taking this too far. I have bent over backwards for my sister. She said to me why do you even care you're never there for me. I reminded her about $400 I lend to her and never got back...I know she's broke so I let it go. Then I told her I always give her rides to work and I drive more than 30 min.

2007-06-27 07:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating