im 15 years old. I have been going out with by boyfriend for about a week. Today his friend came up to me and said that my boyfriend told him to tell me that he doesnt want to go out with me because he wants us to be more of a mature close couple which he says we arent. I then went to talk to my boyfriend (to explain to him that relationships take time) but he said that he never told his friend to tell me what he did. I dont understand because im sure his friend (his best friend) wouldnt say this completely out of the blue. Why did his friend say this to me? whats going on?? any advice please??
2007-06-27 08:19:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just not that into you. Move on.
2007-06-27 08:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to tell you he should tell you himself. Don't believe what other people say. There is a lot of drama when you're 15 and i've been there. If he starts to act different then you know something is up, just give it time and see where things go. You don't have strong feelings for him yet since it's only been one week. Wait it out and keep your mind off of it. Everything will be fine.
2007-06-27 15:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by swim2win 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friend said it to you because your boyfriend probably really did say it... and your boyfriend said that he didn't say it so that he wouldn't get busted for saying something that could get him in trouble with you.....
OR........
His friend could have a thing for you and your boyfriend is really telling the truth..... your boyfriend's best friend my act in public and say that he is your boyfriend's best friend but that may all be for show...... my advice to you is to watch them closely when they are around each other, then you will for szure see the answer to all your question's...
2007-06-27 15:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by Country gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe. Boys are idiots. I'm dating a 29 year old and they are still stupid. He may have said this to his best friend but he didn't want it to get back at you, it could have just been a thought. Trust your man, don't worry.
2007-06-27 15:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by darkm00nch1ld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. "Do you want to be my boyfriend?" If he says no, then dump him and move on. Don't look back. If he says yes, then ask him why his friend said otherwise. Then that is between him and his friend.
2007-06-27 15:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think yo bf friend does like u but why would a friend say tht to u and he noes tht u and your bf are going out so ask yo bf friend why did he say tht your bf was trying to break up w/ u when he wasnt then if he kind of blush then tht means he is nervous or he likes you
or
you can ask your bf friend if he likes u but don't mak eit seem tht u broke up with your bf
2007-06-27 15:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his friend was jealous of you and your b/f. Or, then again, he could be just messing with your b/f as a practical joke.
Hope this helps.
2007-06-27 15:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a tuff one.........i think that your bf did say it but then when you ask him he says no. i've had this happen but different but anyways its hard to tell but you just have to trust either your bf or his friend? so it all depends on how well you trust your bf.??
2007-06-27 15:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that maybe his friend doesnt like you or want you going out with your boyffriend... or myabe he is jeleous... but it all really depends
2007-06-27 15:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kenzii 1 2 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face to face ..the three of you should talk and then the mystery is gone ..coz somebody is lying ..
2007-06-27 15:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋