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Question

I will invite her but I am just confused because we went to her high school graduation and she never said hi to me at all. Her mom says that she is not allowed to come here alone. I am not selfish I just wanted some advice thank you

Answer 1

My best advice is to invite her (the daughter). It sounds to me as if she's being extremely childish, and in my personal experience, the best way to handle childish people is to act like an adult.

Be the bigger person...Invite her, and treat her as if there were never any problems between the two of you.

For the record, if she is 18 years old, her mother has no legal rights to say where she goes, or with whom. There is no reason why she couldn't safely take a train or a plane to wherever you are, in particular, if you & your husband agree to meet her when she arrives.

There is no reason to invite the ex. She is simply sticking her nose into someone else's business. That said, if it's the only way to include your husband's daughter, then invite her along anyway...Your husband and his ex still need to be parents to their daughter, so it will be best for everyone concerned if you can all find a way to get along.

Answer 2

Sweetie,

It's natural that she feels hurt and confused. At eighteen, this is too much to take in at once.

I undesrtand that yuo are trying to be nice to everyyone, but honestly, I think that they are trying their best to put some sour in the wedding. You kno w that they are not happy about it and they are both showing up to put the sour face.

Unfortunatly, you have no choice but to oblige, so you don't upset your husband to be.

Good lcuk

Answer 3

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