Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

okay.. i got a problem.. i have a myspace account and its on private.. the only people who can see my profile are my friends on myspace.. well this "person" is not my friend but this person seen my profile and she started to print out pictures of my baby.. so is it possible to go into someones private page and your not that person's friend?? also.. does anyone know how to get into people's account? i want to know all this because this girl won't stop! help!

2007-06-27 11:59:05 · 13 answers · asked by chat wit me 1 in Friends

me and this guy r really good friends and i like him. sometimes it seems like he likes me and other times it seems like he doesnt. im so confused and idk how to tell if he really likes me.

2007-06-27 11:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by autumn♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you think is better to have waiters carry around appetizers and drinks or have it all on one table with plates and people can just get what they want and an open bar?

2007-06-27 11:57:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My Hubsband and I have been together for 3 years, and we have a good open relationship, recently, we had some problems with a few of his friends, what started as a small argument turned in to the biggest fight we've ever had.
He turned into a different person, he said things that hurt me more than I thought possible.
We've made up now but that side of him scared me, and I feel like couseling would be a good idea.

My husband says he is willing to go but he seems so .. reluctant.

and the more I think about it, maybe .. it might cause more problems than it would solve.
not to mention, we don't have a ton of money.

what has been your experience with couseling?
We don't normally have fights like this, should we just move on?

I feel confused...

2007-06-27 11:53:32 · 16 answers · asked by Vanilla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the following is my 1st draft of my moh speeh for my sisters wedding. im trying to keep it short, sweet, and not too corney. any feedback/suggestions would be very helpful.
(please no rude comments, im not the best writer. thanks!)




I have never been very good at talking in front of people,
But I figured for my big sisters wedding, I could give it a try
First of all, the ceremony was just wonderful. I hope that it went as you both hoped.
There is a saying that goes ‘the first kiss is always the most important in a love story’
Although there have been many kisses before today, its only been a couple hours since you took your first kiss as man and wife
now marriage has no guarantees. You guys are gonna have many hard times as well as good times. But I think that as long as you both work together, then theres no reason you shouldn’t be happy.
So finally, congratulations to Stephanie, my wonderful big sister… and a family welcome to brandon.
i wish you both the best of love

2007-06-27 11:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by xsaraxbethx 2 in Weddings

Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings,poking me in the ribs and cackling! telling me "you'll be next!"
They soon stopped when i started doing it to them at funerals!!
LOL ;o)

2007-06-27 11:50:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Wait...I DO want him to propose, but hear me out:

My boyfriend and I planned a trip to Paris and we're leaving soon.A month ago, my boyfriend told me he is proposing to me some time this summer.

Well we've talked a lot about the proposal and ring and everything and I don't know for sure but it's starting to sound like the proposal will take place in Paris. Sounds wonderful, I know...so why do I not want that to happen? Read on....

My family is very religious. My parents are against me going on this trip in the first place since my boyfriend and I aren't married...but I'm 28 years old and there's nothing they can do...so they pretend to be happy but I know they're not. SO my parents have refused to tell the rest of the family (grandparents, cousins) that I'm going on this trip w/ a man who I'm not married to...and I'm afraid if he proposes over there, how will I tell my grandparents?

I love him so much and I want to get engaged, but how do I ask him not to propose in Paris?

2007-06-27 11:50:47 · 17 answers · asked by rrrsssrrr 1 in Weddings

i have been living with my fiance for ten years but i am still legally married, some peaple tell me by law im legally divorced is this true?

2007-06-27 11:49:59 · 9 answers · asked by Ruby M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so theres this boy ive like for 3 years now. He texts me quite alot and sometimes would ask who i like when he knew it was him. Sometimes when i reverse the question he tells me he still has feelings for me but nothing ever becomes of it. A month before we left school he told me this again. He said he loved me and never wanted to lose me and we were going out. this was over half term, so we'd been texting every day for a week. But when we got to school he acted as though he never knew me and we havent spoken since. We left school a week ago and i never even got to say goodbye and next year we are at different colleges. my friend bumped into him the other day and he said i never talk to him anymore..i think its the other way round because i tried but he just blanked me. he said he was glad hes ignoring me. he told her i should text him but im not sure.i love him so much nd want to sort it out. shall i text him? text him what do i say? or should i just leave it? please help =(

2007-06-27 11:45:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man is a fisherman and his days and early evenings are spent doing what he needs to for fishing. He makes every attempt of seeing me when he can (usually every other night if he's not out on his boat) and he calls before he goes to bed or when he's on his way home from a trip. Needless to say he does the majority of the calling in the relationship. It's not that I don't want to call I just don't feel a need to call just to say hi and see how he is when I know he's busy. I will call however if I do have something to tell him that can not wait until I see or hear from him which has only happened a couple of times.

Last night he mentioned how he's unable to see me during the day because of his schedule which I understand but that I can call him. Was he hinting that he wants me to call just to say hi or was he giving me confirmation that I can call when I need to? I try and show him that even though I don't call I still care about him. I just don't feel the need to call for nothing

2007-06-27 11:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by Ersabette 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a very sad mom my daughter wants me to pay for her wedding, she is 24 and has been living with the guy for 4 years and they already have 3 children. Her wedding is over 15K which I think is crazy. I volunteered that she use the money for a down payment instead and she said absolutely NO. Now she doesn't speak to me because I will not pay for it. I don't want to lose her or my grandkids. What should I do.

2007-06-27 11:41:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We are travelling to US for my Boyfriends brothers wedding at the end of August and although they have a wedding list there's nothing on it which is really a suitable gift ( most of it's crap to be honest). We would like to get them something personal and as we probably wont see them for a while as they are going to be living in the US, felt that the kettle etc they've asked for wasn't appropriate. It needs to be something which is easily packed, wont tip us over our luggage allowance and will survive the flight. Any ideas?

2007-06-27 11:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what i have being reading on this forum for the past week. most of you have horrible miserable depressing lives with issues upon issues upon issues with your significant others. *goes on knees and thanks GOD for my blessings*

2007-06-27 11:38:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 11:37:25 · 4 answers · asked by sarasmile 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister inlaw has been through alot in her life when she were 9yrs old her step father touched her and done bad things to her (not sexual intercourse) she told her mother when she was 15 and her mother through him out but took him back into the house that same night,my sis inlaw then left at 15 to live with a friend shereported him to the police but because no one would stand by her she dropped it and he was cautioned,she is 28 now and still hasent got over this,the police say she carnt reopen the case because he were cautioned!but he could be abusing a innocent child again ,but untill he does he carnt be arrested and taken to court for what he did to her when she was little,shes been in a mental hospital at 19 is on medication ,its ruined her life,she feels that she has us to back her up this time and because she wants to protect someone else from this monster she carnt do anythin,why? what else can she do ?it will help her move on and stop this monster from hurting another child!

2007-06-27 11:35:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay i have head if you have the same dream 3 time in a roll it going to come true .. my b/f has had this same dream 4 time in a roll ... do you think a it might cuz i dont want it to ... help

the dream was i broke up with him.... no more details tho ... there alot going on ... but anyways help

2007-06-27 11:35:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months and we are very happy and a perfect fit, but we're only 18 how long should we wait till we get married. I don't think he's going to want to wait till after college, any help?

2007-06-27 11:34:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so far ive tried local sports centres but nothing, so yahoo ur my last hope of making my 7yr old son happy please make him happy again thank u a father

2007-06-27 11:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by longintheshower 1 in Family

Okay, so how does this work? Whose family sits on what side? Is there a particular order to which family members get seated first? Obviously the parents of the bride & groom get front row seats, but what do we do with aunts & uncles? Do we need to assign seats and tell the ushers where each person goes, or do we let them use their best judgment (what if they're only 16?). How will the ushers know who is family and who are friends, if not everyone in the family will be wearing corsages or boutonnières?

Help!

2007-06-27 11:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by abfabmom1 7 in Weddings

When you see a parent spank or yell at a kid in public?

2007-06-27 11:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

iF YoU COuLd cHooSE YouR OWn NaMe WhaT WOuld It bE?

2007-06-27 11:32:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My in-laws hinted yesterday that they have not seen one of their grandchildren being born, due to the other kids living far away.
I am 26 weeks along and am due in Oct.
I have a old fashion sense and do NOT wish for anyone to be in the delivery room but my hubby who helped to create this little baby.
They however want to come in and take pictures or record it, I am opposed to my in-laws being in there because it is quite truthfully DISGUSTING AND REPULSIVE!
I do not want them looking at my nether regions, that is private, between man and wife! I am appauled that they would even suggest that both of them be in the room looking at my >ss! Also, they have never taken an interest in our older child! When we left him in their care as a small child they never once changed his diapers (We were gone 12 hours!) and when he was 5 and diagnosed with asthma....they NEVER gave him his medicine!
What do you think and what would you tell them

2007-06-27 11:27:06 · 26 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Family

My daughter just came in front door because my husband left the gate to our fenced yard unlocked for about the 5th time.He also left ladder to pool down last week.last year he did this 3-4 times.He has left utility knifes in her reach.other ladders doen near pool,chairs,and table around pool.I have talked to him several times and it does no good!How and why is he being so careless? on weekends when hes home I have to tell him its her lunch time and dinner time or he will not feed her! I don't understand why or how he can just say he forgot and act like its nothing? I check every night for the ladder should I have to check gate,every thing else all the time?How can I get him to care?

2007-06-27 11:24:22 · 21 answers · asked by monica s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel so bad.. im soo disappointed with myself..the 1st time i took it i failed by one point i got 16 wrong outta 15. and this last time i got 21 out of 15.. so i donno how i did worse.. the drivin instructor was lookin at every single thing i did wrong.. she was really strict.. i was soo nervous but i feel like crapp.. have any of u gone thru this or know someone? i feel like im the only person that cant pass this darn test.

2007-06-27 11:23:00 · 40 answers · asked by cookeez55 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 11:17:30 · 21 answers · asked by Foolintherain 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

hy im 19 and I have been trying on girls cloths since I was 7 and I like it I never go out in public with girls cloths on
I do it at home when no one is home but me

2007-06-27 11:16:36 · 7 answers · asked by * 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been married 9yrs now and we have 2children,my husband works but has days off in the week etc.. but he is sooo moody ,i carnt chat to him about how i feel about things ,he just gets snappy with me!,im a housewife and i dont work ,but i keep our house lovely and clean,the kids are happy and well looked after,i do everything i can to keep the family happy but he doesnt seem happy,i feel so unloved sometimes all i want and need is a cuddle (not sex)but he carnt seem to seperate a cuddle witch doesnt lead to sex ,sometimes i think to myself what is the point of being together?we dont do family outings etc .parks,zoo ...he doesnt seem interressted at all,i dont go out nor does he so were together every night we hardly chat ,im very outgoing and chatty n bubbly i love to talk lol,but hes the opposite,im only 32 hes 34 but i feel like a 60yr old ,im scared to leave because the kids would be heart brocken plus im just so used to my life it would feel strange to go at it alone !

2007-06-27 11:15:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok... so I havent evr seen my biological dad and he lives somewhere in Idaho and I want to see him, but when my mom was dating him he was really abusive and now he does drugs, and i dont mean just po or cigs, i mean heroine,crack,pot,meth, coke, every drug u can think of he does, I also have a sister from the same dad shes the same age as me but my mom and ehr mom dont get along but i want to meet her. How do I tell my mom I want to meet my dad and sis?

2007-06-27 11:15:11 · 5 answers · asked by iluvu 1 in Family

She said that the guy said he likes her, and that they are planning on meeting this Friday. I kinda freaked out, but at the same time, if they both like each other, I don't believe there is nothing wrong with that.

2007-06-27 11:12:15 · 87 answers · asked by Lil One! 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I see this all the time,I will go on msn, and someones name will be normal then the next minute it would be I love you ....... " Then I ask them when did you start going out and they would respond, like 5 minutes ago.. I mean, you canot fall in love that fast.. I know about love at first sight, but come on ? No way that can happen without even getting to know eachother first.. I just don't understand....

2007-06-27 11:01:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating