Ok so theres this boy ive like for 3 years now. He texts me quite alot and sometimes would ask who i like when he knew it was him. Sometimes when i reverse the question he tells me he still has feelings for me but nothing ever becomes of it. A month before we left school he told me this again. He said he loved me and never wanted to lose me and we were going out. this was over half term, so we'd been texting every day for a week. But when we got to school he acted as though he never knew me and we havent spoken since. We left school a week ago and i never even got to say goodbye and next year we are at different colleges. my friend bumped into him the other day and he said i never talk to him anymore..i think its the other way round because i tried but he just blanked me. he said he was glad hes ignoring me. he told her i should text him but im not sure.i love him so much nd want to sort it out. shall i text him? text him what do i say? or should i just leave it? please help =(
2007-06-27 11:45:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be a stalker. You shouldn't chase after a guy. If he is interested he will chase you.
2007-07-05 01:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
live in the present. you are about to start college--sooo many new things to learn, interests to cultivate, friends to make. you are going to miss out if you are constantly looking back and saying maybe? if you could work things out when you went to school together and were texting everyday--how much time out of your life be when you get busy and don't see each other. and personally, pretending he never knew you after telling you he loves you suggests to me that he is very immature or that he was only keeping you as a standby if nothing better came along. time for you to set aside childish things--and think of your future. good luck.
2007-06-27 18:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by quiet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be difficult sometimes, figuring boys out.
In this case, it's clear that he has some interest in you, but it's a little tricky, almost as if he doesn't want to go public with it.
Without whipping out the psychology textbooks, I'd say you'd do well to stear clear. You can talk to him about it if you want, address your issues and ask him to explain himself, but he's not a good candidate for a healthy relationship.
2007-06-27 18:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bellicosa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should CALL him and talk to him and find out what is going on. Texting only gives someone time to think of things to say. If you are in real conversation , you can pick up on certain things in their voice. Let him know you still love him and really want to continue your relationship. See how he reacts to that.
2007-06-27 18:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by thinkbig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him and tell him i want to see you... and when you see him tell him what you honestly feel about him and try to sense his reaction to that... if he was interested then ... (you got it)
give this relationship a try but if you felt for a second that he's not a good person or he just don't care about you then there's only one thing to do which is to get out of this whole thing and forget all about him....
there's a rule ....
*if love there's no love from the beginning then it will never be!!!!
2007-06-27 18:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by SAM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him, see where he stands. What's on his mind? When you find out, you will feel better, because you will know what to do! Life can be so hard sometimes, expecially if there is feelings involved. Get it out in the open or you will never know. Good Luck!!!
2007-06-27 18:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
waiting to do it is the worst bit once you send a casual hey how are you text youll get chatting and soon forget whats gone on, the worst thing that can happen is he doesnt text back and if you never see him you cant be embarrassed by that
2007-06-27 18:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Laura M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should text him because you obviously still have feelings for him and he does for you. Boys are just weird when they randomly stop talking to a girl, I hate it when that happens. I bet something bad happened to him in which he just fell speechless. Hmm, just tell him that you want to talk somewhere and like take him to a coffee place like starbucks and work things out.
2007-06-27 18:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by .dani-nicole♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no honey don't u ever do that he know that u love him and crazy about him so he's wating u don't let him use u or play with u or ur feeling as a toy in his hands
im sure there's many other guys out there who's better than him, so don't text him ..
2007-06-27 18:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK good question well lets see..???the way I'm lookin at this is that ....he likes you and he is tryin to keep it on The d-L ...personally i think if some one love some else they wouldn't be embarrassed to show there princess around
2007-07-05 16:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
text him in detiles on how you feel about him sense he as not really talk to you a lot there is books that can help you wuth this problem and if he says something you don't like hearing then just speak to yourself on pros and cons about why you like him and why so far you don't like him!then you may have an answer on moving on or stand strong and get him back to you ( YOU GO GIRL!!!!)
2007-06-27 18:52:37 · answer #11 · answered by ken p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋