Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

I have been married to husband #2 for a year and a half. I have a three year old with him. I have 2 older boys with Hubby #1. I haven't seen Hubby #1 in 10 years, due to drugs. Well Hubby 1 is clean for the past 4 years and is back in his kids live. Well hubby 2 who has little or nothing to do with my other 2 kids does not like this at all. I am not allowed to have any contact with hubby 1 at all. Not even if it's about the kids. God forbid he finds out that I had any contact with him my life isn't worth living. What do I do?

2007-06-27 14:22:32 · 5 answers · asked by Buffy39 1 in Marriage & Divorce

*I KNOW THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIPS,BUT PLS HELP*
Okay,so I'm in summer school because I didn't passed the Math CRCT(Final Exams-In Georgia)And I'm very worried because I ALWAYS get nervous before tests(ESPECIALLY THE CRCT)This test tells if you get promoted for the next grade(I need to get promoted for 9th grade in my situation)Well,I payed attention in summer school and in fact,I learned and understood some things better.My problem is that I always get nervous when it comes to this test and I need ANY TIPS that will help me calm down,feel certain,and comtable during the test.*EVERY SINGLE TIP WILL BE USEFUL,THANX*

2007-06-27 14:21:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend Kate sent a message to my friend/crush Cody telling him that he makes me feel like a tasty blue baby.

It's sort of an inside joke with me and her.... a special one lol, and we were sort of crazy 'cause we had two cases of red bull.

He replied back today, and he said, "WTF?! What's that supposed to mean?!"

Listen, I didn't send it. I was in the bathroom and I was logged into myspace and she sent it. Idk what I'm going to do!!

We're going into highschool next year, so I'm really freaked out about seeing him next year. What if he thinks I'm a freak?! 0_0

2007-06-27 14:18:30 · 4 answers · asked by Millie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 14:15:24 · 30 answers · asked by Zeus 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna ask this boy whos in 7th grade out(im in 8th) we are really good friend but i dont know if he likes me or is too young

2007-06-27 14:14:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok guys theres a girl that i like and i have a girlfriend that i also like and i realy dont think me and her will last cuz shes one garde under me and we wont see each other much and she doesnt have myspace and cant get on the computer all she can do is talk on the phone and shes not even aloud to talk to guys on the phone.... but this girl i like always chooses boys who i know will end up hurting her and i try to tellher but shes all caught up in the love with them and her present bf is like a man whore and she should know this and my best friends cousin dated this boy and he says that he got her pregnant or some **** but thats beside the point
Does anyone know what i should do?

2007-06-27 14:14:44 · 11 answers · asked by waterskill22 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about a three way marriage. For example, one man and two woman. The man marries Woman A and Woman B, and Woman A and B marry as well(meaning the women are bisexual). I don't know if there is an exact term, but if anyone does or knows about any cases of this type of marriage it would be interesting.

2007-06-27 14:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1.) Your boyfriend/girlfriend called you over the phone and explained how a girl/boy that you don't care too much for (disliked) was flirting with them

or

2.) You caught someone flirting with him/her, and they weren't doing anything to pull away or leave.

Would you get mad at the person flirting, or your partner?
(the person flirting is someone who knows you go out with them)

2007-06-27 14:10:16 · 22 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok i met this grl online and she sounds lik my dream grl and she said tht she likes me 2. We talked for 2hrs straight and i am convinced tht she is "the one" but she lives in FL and i live in NJ. What do ya think i should do? Please Help!

2007-06-27 14:09:22 · 2 answers · asked by NevrAgain93 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of three years is currently stationed in Ft. Lewis, WA for LDAC training. He'll be gone for a while, and I'm just looking for suggestions to keep me occupied... I'm working two jobs and writing him letters, yet still missing him in between all this. Any experiences to share?? Thanks!

2007-06-27 14:07:25 · 8 answers · asked by colormecolorado 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay.

Let me give you some background on my family. My parents have been divorced ever since I was three, but have lived in the same house until i was twelve. It made my two siblings and I walk on eggshells constantly. My father moved out about three years ago and all three of us kids went with him. That's when we came out of denial of my mother being an alcoholic. About six months (maybe eight) she went into rehab. I resent her more than my siblings because she disliked me for not being the first born gilr or boy andleaned on me when i was growing up. I missed out on my child hood because of her. Now that she is out of rehab my father has her over to take care of us, some times (most of the time) she sleeps over and he retreats to his girlfriend (of about 14 years). Recently I have wanted nothing but to leave. I feel as if my territory has been invaded. I told my father this but he told me "to chill out". I am at my ends wit, and now so are my siblings.

Advice?

2007-06-27 14:04:13 · 2 answers · asked by Liar. 3 in Family

2007-06-27 13:59:14 · 14 answers · asked by Tracy L 1 in Singles & Dating

I just don't understand. I did not know I was bi untill I started having sex..

2007-06-27 13:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by mallenfield 1 in Singles & Dating

The 1st question would suggest not making fun of her on the count of her(self) being fat.

The second suggests maybe she (or fat people in general)may not take kindly to being made fun of (but not nessecarily because of thier weight.

Do you see the difference?

Any thoughts on this?

2007-06-27 13:57:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What is the law in California, that considers you common law to someone.

2007-06-27 13:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by CHRISTIAN G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want the dress in the best possible shape.

2007-06-27 13:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So after summer school, I was waiting for my mom to come pick me up. I was standing there w/ a a group of my friends..

and this guy came up to me and he was like "Do you remember me?" And I was like "noo..." -and he kept going on- and he was like "Just kidding! Give me a hug! Everytime you see me you should give me a hug"

And i dont even know him. and dont say that he wasnt joking about me not remembering him, he really was.

wut does this mean? was he attracted? or, ya.

2007-06-27 13:51:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay me and this guy met on a cruise. we had a thing, and weve been in contact for 10 months now. in 2 months..i happen to be going to college near where he lives, and he knows this. about two months ago we were on the phone with eachother and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..meaning lets keep in touch and i thought he meant then when i get there to college hed want a relationship with me.


im just really paranoid, and i get scared, what happens if he gets a gf..do you think he would? what would it mean if he does?

2007-06-27 13:51:12 · 4 answers · asked by ashley r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 13:50:26 · 6 answers · asked by vashankanya 2 in Singles & Dating

opinion on gals who smoke?

2007-06-27 13:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by mambo 1 in Singles & Dating

i have joint custody with my ex and live a few miles from her and my son.because of this i have almost daily contact with my ex(text msg/email/phone) regarding my son.The problem is my ex hates my new wife(jealous) and goes out of her way to torment her and makes her feel unwelcome around our son.This pisses off my wife and she will "feed the fire" so to say meaning she will do things that she knows will piss my ex off and i'm cought in the middle.Some will say i need to stand up for my new wife but i need to think of my young son too.Yes my exwife is to blame for this(mostly) but i'm taking the high road for my son by staying out of it.Is this the best way to handle this?

2007-06-27 13:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-27 13:45:37 · 18 answers · asked by Liplicious 3 in Singles & Dating

I have send women messages on Myspace and True.com but no one will take me seriously. What am I doing wrong if anything? Could you people help me out.

2007-06-27 13:41:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is 36, from latinamerica, professional, single without children but love them, she has latinamerican values, like family oriented, only a man in her life, no games, I know her for many years, and she is a really nice person, and I would like she meet soon her perfect match, please if you know a honest man that is looking for a honest latinamerican woman tell me maybe we can do something for them.

2007-06-27 13:32:40 · 1 answers · asked by yourfriend_ss 1 in Friends

i let my sister, her husband, and their 3 kids move in with me and my family, until they could get on their feet. after about a month, her husband up and leaves her and the kids for a drug binge, and some girl, too.did i mention that he is very physically and mentally abusive? anyway, after a week, he finally calls, and she decides to go back with him. they get a motel for a week, and within that time, he takes all her money, and leaves her and the kids with no food, and no car, he got away with 460 dollars, so you can imagine what hes going to do.. after she decided to go back with him, i told her she couldnt come back, but being the nice sister i am, am letting her, mostly because of the kids. is there any help here for single mothers, like for shelter, or housing?

2007-06-27 13:31:05 · 3 answers · asked by sweetwhitegirl28 1 in Family

i like this girl and she knows and we sometimes hang out not like were going out but just watch a movie or something as friends but i cant tell if she likes me or not. So plz tell me the signs.

2007-06-27 13:29:13 · 9 answers · asked by lil bobby 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been having a fling w/ my neighbor since he moved in at the beginning of may. he lives w/ his much older girlfriend who he is using for money. he and i spend our days together and nights after she's asleep. she seems to be oblivious as to what's going on. he and i have had a few disagreements over the last few weeks. i recently found out he is moving to miami in about 4 weeks and she is not going. he asked me to come visit him when he moves before i start school again. sometimes i am real tempted to tell her whats going on bc i hate the way she tries to look down at me and act like she too good when she's around me. its not in my nature to kiss and tell but im itching to say something whenever she turns her nose up at me. what would ya'll do. also at this point he and i are getting along fine. we reconciled earlier this week but i still feel this urge to let her know whats up. telling wont mean losing him, even though if i do, i wouldnt really care.

2007-06-27 13:28:00 · 5 answers · asked by the_kid_doesnt_care 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to tell him I like him if he doesn't like me (that would be mortifying) so how can I get the message across that i like him back, and not make it too obvious??

2007-06-27 13:18:00 · 21 answers · asked by It's a secret 2 in Singles & Dating

and even though, not too many people know each other here on YA, I felt really sad, I feel like I lost a friend!..I know it cant be a joke, or a way to change names, or hide something... it is not possible that they would just tell me something like that. I wish her Piece!! Your comments or thoughts please.???
Your thoughts please!

2007-06-27 13:13:09 · 5 answers · asked by Dragon'sFire 6 in Friends

recently my bf started to stop smoking as hes trying to quit and started working out at the gym (buffen up since hes slender). he had wanted to do the gym thing after i told him i went to a lingerie party with a bunch of my fellow college athletes and teammates. he mentioned how he never was able to do it before as he had tried. does he mean that im helping him do it or like hes trying to change to be healthy as well as for me?

2007-06-27 13:11:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating