ok guys theres a girl that i like and i have a girlfriend that i also like and i realy dont think me and her will last cuz shes one garde under me and we wont see each other much and she doesnt have myspace and cant get on the computer all she can do is talk on the phone and shes not even aloud to talk to guys on the phone.... but this girl i like always chooses boys who i know will end up hurting her and i try to tellher but shes all caught up in the love with them and her present bf is like a man whore and she should know this and my best friends cousin dated this boy and he says that he got her pregnant or some **** but thats beside the point
Does anyone know what i should do?
2007-06-27 14:14:44 · 11 answers · asked by waterskill22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should concentrate on learning how to write and leave dating for when you're older.
2007-06-27 14:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy, be with the other girl if you think you'll last with her. Yet, don't jump from one relationshipto the next.
Let me tell you a personal story-
I dated a boy for 5 months, we didn't have the most amazing relationship, but it actually wasn't that bad either. One day, 2 weeks after I pretty much give him my virginity, he dumps me. The same day, he begins dating another girl. Then, he cuts off all contact with me, and excludes me from his life. That was a stab in every part of my body. I do not keep in contact with him, but I do believe is happy with his new girlfriend, and I am glad. As for me, I am happy being single. However, I wish he would of guided me to the curb rather than kick me to it.
Moral of the story? If you choose the other girl, don't date her right away, if she does want to date you. You need to keep in mind the feelings of your current girlfriend, your crush, and yourself.. and somehow, comprise to make things work.
2007-06-27 21:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sky. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I don't mean to laugh man. But your already stuck in that rut. Get use to it. That's how it is.
your stuck in the friend MODE. Your threw. Once you get there. There's no hope. Your just a friend now. And as for her liking the guys that's gonna hurt her. That's normal too. Women like the bad boys. The ones that'll hurt them. It's almost like a challenge to them. So good luck. I would wash my hands of her now and leave it be. don't waste your time. It's not worth it.
2007-06-27 21:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the girl you have now. the other chick sounds too complicated to me....
at least you know your gf has good morals and hasnt been falling "in love" with guys. sounds like your a pretty young guy. dont stress over these kind of issues now, there's more important things to focus on then puppy love....
2007-06-27 21:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not serious with your girlfriend then break up with her. this other girl can choose who she wants to date or be with. So you make a choice. if you like your girlfriend stay with her. If you don't break up with her. and the other girl let her decide what she needs to do. don't get in the middle of her mess.
2007-06-27 21:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from both of them; the first because you don't like her enough to continue, and the second because she will end up breaking your heart if she prefers bad guys and you are a nice guy.
2007-06-27 21:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by Smiley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense she has a boyfriend already you have nothing to lose by telling her everything you know about this guy she likes .Don't hold back anything except the part where you like her.If you have told her you like her then forget about telling her about this guy she like because she won't believe a single word you tell her.
2007-06-27 21:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with her and ask her out on a date..dump your current girlfriend cus obviously youre not too thrilled with her..so go for the other girl and stop wasting time before another guy goes and hurts her or that guy she is with gets her pregnant..tgake a chance..but dont dump the other girl til you know the other girl likes you back..lol..good luck
2007-06-27 21:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should break up with your current gf and go with this girl and then you could get evidence that the girl u like man is a whore and then shell like u
2007-06-27 21:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by latosha h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and follow your heart.
Deep down, your heart says drop this whole situation.
2007-06-27 21:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋