I have send women messages on Myspace and True.com but no one will take me seriously. What am I doing wrong if anything? Could you people help me out.
2007-06-27 13:41:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here - send me a message. ill respond and take u seriously! rachiebachie841@yahoo.com :)
2007-06-27 13:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are using those sites in the first place. No one takes those seriously. If you want women to respond, get out and be sociable. Go to parties, clubs, events... The more you see people and get to know them, the broader your range and potential to meet a great person of your liking.
The problem with anything on-line, is it gives anonymity to both users, and to break the boundaries of that security is scary and dangerous. So no matter how nice you are in reality, you are still a "myspace guy" or whatever when on-line.
If by chance someone does respond to an on-line posting/page, talk on-line A LOT before you push to meet them. It will give you the chance to feel out their honesty, and make it more comfortable if you do finally meet.
Good Luck~
-The Music Man-
2007-06-27 20:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Musicman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Leo,
You come across as being under-confident, and needy. Women can pick up on this very easily and it is a turn off.
Please tell me you are comfortable approaching live women in public. Do not use the internet/dating as your only method of meeting or communicating with women. You are truly limiting yourself and missing out on the euphoric feeling of eye contact, physical contact, stimulating conversation, hearing a woman's laughter. Don't cheat yourself from this.
Read a woman's profile. What is she interested in, searching for, does she have children, does she live in the same area? Find some common ground and ask her a question about it. Listen and retain her response. Woman enjoy a man who pays attention and listens and engages them in conversation.
I challenge you to approach a woman you find attractive, in a restaurant or a mall or a park or in the grocery store. Be comfortable asking her questions in person. Let her speak.
Be confident, be comfortable with who you are, and strike a balance between live conversation and internet dating sites. You will develop experience in talking with women and keeping their interest.
Good luck ~
2007-07-05 11:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, myspace.com is not a dating website. I always got creeped out by guys who sent me weird messages on there... I even took down my profile because of it! I was just on there to keep in touch with friends...not to get hit on. That could be what's happening for that site.
Firstly, you don't want to sound desperate in your profile or in the way you contact people. Be nice, comfortable, casual... be yourself! You have to seem approachable in the way you present yourself. Make sure your profile is well-written. Nothing is more of a turn-off than poor spelling and horrible grammar.
Do you have a picture up on your profile? Most people I know ignore profiles with no picture. Fact is, us humans have a physical attraction to others :) Make sure it's a decent photo... not saying you have to look like Brad Pitt, but look presentable and nice! Smile! It's not a mug shot.
Good luck with everything!! :) You may also want to try other dating websites. Yahoo and Match.com I hear are pretty good!
2007-06-27 20:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Cochy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know any "secrets" but I know what I dont like. I hate when guys write me with a reallllly cheesy line, or come on way to fast, its like "ick, get a life" but I always like to hold a conversation with someone who comes on cool. Like maybe just start off with "hey, how ya doin, Im ____. What are you up to today?" Little questions to start nothin to personal... But thats just me.. Good luck!
2007-07-05 20:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should approach women in restaurants or public places...not on the Internet. You will get a response then
2007-07-05 18:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Purple~Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple. There 10,000 males for every 1 female out there.
2007-06-27 20:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Michael C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most women are reluctant to date someone they see on the internet, try meeting them face to face somewhere else
2007-07-05 17:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and mingle. Online dating...is that what its come too? Of course I met my hubby on line...years ago but its getting to be out of style. Try mate1.com.....best of luck
2007-06-27 20:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by koooolbabe_20000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe online dating just isn't your thing. My advice to you is to join a good church and meet a nice good old fashioned church girl. Peace and God bless.
2007-06-27 20:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by cave man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋