Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

there's this girl i love with all my heart and i finally got the balls to ask her out and she said something about how she didn't wanna ruin our friendship and that killed me. then like 4 days later she went out with this other guy who was her friend also. it just shattered my all ready broken heart into dust and it's werid i often feel like crying and i get so mad i just feel so alone and hopeless like theres no reason to go on.
i'm so pathetic she's the only thing i want and i feel like without her i just disappear.
but i no there no use to keep wishing and i just wanna get on with my life and be happy agin

what can i do to help me get over my broke heart.

2007-06-27 15:38:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a way I can legally divorce one of my parents? I have been wanting to do this for most of my adult life. I need to do this for my sanity. What steps do I need to take to divorce this parent? And lastly, how much does it cost to have this done? Thanks everone....

2007-06-27 15:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by redcapgirl 1 in Family

ok here it goes im a single white guy 32 and heres my question ladys im a guy i cant drive do to bad nerves but i am trying to find a good women how should i go about it and please do not say church i tried that the women just wanted me to buy them things and mess with my mind i dont mind buying the women im with things but the head games i can do with out. im honest and faithful to the woman im with or are going to be with heck i dont even mind going down stairs and eating me some pu--y for an hour or two or what ever it takes to get her off but i guess that does not matter. so ladys am i doomed to spend a life alone or can you tell me what i am doing wrong

2007-06-27 15:29:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Aunt was secretively married in South carolina.She lives in N.C. Her late husband passed and she re-married this other man.She never reported her new marriage to the S.S.Administration.She was getting Social Security from her late husband,while married to this new one[who died 6 months ago].Now she has passed.But her Appointed Attorney[not a real attorney] knew about this but did nothing.The Appointed Attorney over her estate has taken everything from her children without their knowledge.My Aunt could not read,so her children are looking for proof that their mother did re-marry and if so,can they get this APO for fraud? Also is there a web site for that she can get free records of the marriage? They were married in York,S.C.

2007-06-27 15:28:25 · 4 answers · asked by ladybug 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this girl that we went out for a little bit but then we broke up for reasons that i totally understand even though we still had like a huge attraction to each other. well time passed and we were just good friends but lately she's becoming more than a friend to me again but i dont think she feels the same way. two of my good friends told me that they think she's just taking advantage of me. idk what to do about it. i have this want for her so bad but i'm pretty sure it wont happen. what do i do?

2007-06-27 15:26:38 · 12 answers · asked by grazin08 1 in Singles & Dating

She is sending my son out to visit me and she doesnt know my girlfriend has moved in with me. she has already made divorce a living hell for the past 2 years. And if my son tells her this she will go off the deep end.

2007-06-27 15:26:32 · 12 answers · asked by crank 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex broke up a month ago. She threw me out of her parents house. A few days ago her parents lost there house; thus, she moved out with her daughter and is renting a room with her and her friend. I'm friends with her friend. She says that she needs wants me back again. I called the next day and asked her. She was ifi about, but i'm not sure if its for money or feelings?

2007-06-27 15:22:43 · 8 answers · asked by alexstone1st 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 15:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by gam 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

deal with a very controlling, dominating man who flips out if you even mention certain things and wants to argue to the death until you give in and let him have his way. How do you help teach him to communicate properly and compromise??? Please help. And no, I won't leave him! I love him.

2007-06-27 15:16:10 · 25 answers · asked by Renesme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I believe my husband has lied to me and not really sure. I wear size medium....however, I found a white pair of No Boundaries panties...Is this the color of underwear that the military females are supposed to wear....and where did the brown stains come from? Should I accuse my husband of cheating and how did the panties get into my apartment?

2007-06-27 15:16:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been getting on that unbtil tonite. and it wont let me in the room

2007-06-27 15:13:41 · 1 answers · asked by sharon n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy usually gets off but do the girls like it. I know every woman is different some are easy to please others not so but generally what do you think? Do you do it just to please your man or are you enjoying it also.

2007-06-27 15:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by Dai 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 15:05:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I shrunk myself down to an inch tall and you find running across your bedroom floor. What would you do?

2007-06-27 15:02:18 · 34 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3 in Singles & Dating

I work 4 a very small firm where I've been a key player (w/ a solid track record). At first, my boss appeared 2 B thrilled w/ my performance, but her true self "came out" very early on. I have overheard her snide comments and when I ask her directly if there's a problem, she flatly denies it. I have had others come to me with comments she has made. She has also "bad mouthed" me to our superiors. She omits me from important meetings, reassigns choice projects to others, has stolen credit for my work and has even cut my budget w/o warning. Direct (but civil) confrontations only lead to "passive aggressive" payback and more acts of sabotage. I have tried to play it as professional/proactive as I know how. Now I'm just fed up. Her comments are beginning to mar people's opinion of me. I know not to waste sleep trying to change her and a career change is already in the works, but I need to have some strategies to put a stop to this nonsense NOW.
Any solid suggestions???

2007-06-27 15:00:20 · 1 answers · asked by Top Pro 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've never wanted an engagement ring. I don't wear rings and think they're a waste of money (for me). Back in my 20s, I got engaged with no ring, which upset my mother. Now I'm in my 40s and will soon be engaged. I told my partner about my previous engagement sans ring.

He says he needs to get me a ring for two reasons: A. He want to be on good terms with my mother who is dealing with cancer and doesn't want to upset her. B. He's in his 50s and doesn't want to appear cheap to my family.

So, I'm going along with the ring to please my mother and partner. But I wanted to get some opinions on this.

2007-06-27 14:57:44 · 29 answers · asked by Ms. X 6 in Weddings

Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex (or whatever it is... oral, using his hands, anything at all) it doesnt feel like anything really. It doesnt hurt, but it doesnt feel good either. We havent had sex in a while, because for me, its stupid; i can make him feel good other ways, sex doesnt feel good for me, and i dont want to risk pregnancy if im not getting anything out of it. Does anyone have any idea of whats wrong? Even if I am aroused, once he starts actually doing stuff it doesnt feel like anything! We've been dating for over a year now and we're completely comfortable with eachother/ourselves blah blah. One theroy I have is maybe because I'm afraid of being walked-in on by someone else in the house, but that gets canceled out because sometimes we do things without anyone else home... Its really frustrating. Does anyone know what the problem is?

2007-06-27 14:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by Hmm 1 in Singles & Dating

I do not understand some ppl. They say they want a good marriage but many don't do what needs to be done to keep it. If you don't want to be married anymore, don't you think the RESPONSIBLE way to handle it is to deal with it??? Avoidance and denial hurts both people. What also gets me is, the person doing all the avoiding, has the nerve to EXPECT to not be avoided when the shoe is on the other foot. If you treat situations/circumstances that way throughout your marriage, be prepared to be be avoided and denied the same way you did that person.
I feel this way b/c I was avoided, denied, lied to and manipulated by my spouse. Now he wants to move on with his life. But I am not ready to deal with him yet for I am so angry at the unresolved issues we had. Now I am being harrassed b/c now he wants to get through with things. Am I wrong for not wanting to deal with situations? Now I need time to think, I'm being rushed. Anyone else feel this way besides me??

2007-06-27 14:53:39 · 1 answers · asked by new life abundant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I originally agreed that there will be no private strippers for my bachelor party and she was ok with that. Now that its getting closer she has now said no strip club either and no strippers at all. i keep telling her that i have no desire to go to a strip club but if thats what the other 20 guys that are at the bars with me want to do then i am fine with going. i will not be the one making the suggestion but if someone else does im not going to stop it either. all i care about is that everyone has a good time and if having a good time to them is going to a strip club then no big deal to me. am i being crazy or is she??? and what should i do? tell my best man that me and my fiance have decided absolutely no strip club or do i just go with the flow that night and suffer the consequences later?

2007-06-27 14:53:07 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just wondering.

2007-06-27 14:51:05 · 3 answers · asked by alxndr 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...i really like this guy that's in my skool. his name is matthew. he's a white boy...and im a puerto rican. he hangs out with, what me and my friends consider, the popular kids. he's really cute and every now and then we have little conversations...but nothing more. everybody who knows him thinks he's a bit of an ******. but when he talks 2 me...he's very nice and polite and he acts very sweet. i noe he's a really nice guy...but he puts on an act 2 fit in. i can almost kind of sense it. like he's hiding his true personality.

like i said before...i really like him...but i think he's a bit shallow. since im hispanic...i'm not the skinniest thing around. i am pretty thick. like i have thick legs and my stomach isn't that flat...so...idk what he thinks of me. and in all honesty...i'm trying 2 lose weight this summer just to impress him. i don't wanna tell him that i like him just yet...but then again...i do want to tell him b4 it's too late. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-27 14:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by baby15julie 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it weird to like someone that u like but he is 2 years older and he is ur brothers friend? i met this guy at the beach..and it turns out he's my brothers friend. i would like to know how to make him be mine or how to flirt with this type of guy.

2007-06-27 14:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by bLAh?_mickey<3 2 in Singles & Dating

luckily so far i dont have the problem, but one of my friends. but men easliy forget about themselfs putting weight out especially the big beer bellys

2007-06-27 14:45:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy likes you FORSURE?

2007-06-27 14:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been that way all my life, and when I got a bit of confidence, mom was right there to destroy it(she thought it wasn't humble). I'm a shy, laid back person, so any contact I get from peers, is appreciated. I never really thought I was likable to the opposite sex either. Especially Indian guys(I'm not a typical Indian girl). I married an Indian guy recently. Things are going better than I imagined between us. But in my mind, I think he can do better. I know not to let him know because after so much reassurance, one gets tired, so I must fix it on my own. But I don't know how. I know the whole "in love" phase will fade, and "love" will remain, and my security might remain in tact, but I need to get over the insecurities now, so by the time my man comes to the states, I'll be ok, and he can fijnally get to know the me who wasn't standing on pins and needles. Please help if u can, thanks. Please don't say just get over it, I don't know how, so that's y i'm asking u guys.

2007-06-27 14:39:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i think i just found out my brother does drugs and when he has parties some tmes his freinds bring alcahal and he doesnt drink it but they do and one time they asked me if i wanted some and my brother said for me to go upstares and stay up there and i thnk they mite of been doing drugs to when he has parties so i told my oldest brother a few minates ago and he doesnt think its a big problam and doesnt belve me and so im gona tel my parents tomrow but my oldest brother told my brother who i think does drugs that i said some thing and now my other brother is like dont tell anyone cuz i dont and you would be lieing and that isnta good thing sowhat do i do?

2007-06-27 14:39:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-27 14:38:32 · 10 answers · asked by bluegirl5 4 in Singles & Dating

I think it would be fun to make a personl profile for my mom (w/her knowledge of course) and have men that are interested in her go through me first before metting her to get to know her. I wonder if there are any sites out there of that sort?

2007-06-27 14:28:37 · 7 answers · asked by greenangel192002 2 in Singles & Dating

we are divorced by common law i never wanted to marry her; at least not for a while unitl i was sure. She tricked me by not telling me she stopped taking birth control pills.

2007-06-27 14:22:55 · 15 answers · asked by jose l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so my mother in law hates me. I took her baby boy and we got pregnant. Then we got married and had another. This women will not stop. I feel so uncomfortable around them it makes me sick to my stomach. When we were dating they both told me to my face that they would never except me into there life, but then I got pregnant and they are acting nice. I don't get it. My hubby and I have tried talking to them but they think I seduced there son and made him get with me, Any advice?

2007-06-27 14:22:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family