Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

I am only 15 and iw ant a baby bad.its not my boyfrind but its my parents,they sy wait til im 16 and after ym party and they said that if i have a baby our family will open a designer baby shop in paris.

2007-06-27 19:19:28 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is money simply the best idea? have any other suggestions.

2007-06-27 19:18:38 · 16 answers · asked by lady_capulet28 1 in Weddings

So i'm thinking my godbro likes me and i'm very much with my boyfriend. is that weird? i know it's not blood relations but its still my godBROTHER. he's like family tho... ack!

2007-06-27 19:17:20 · 8 answers · asked by Rach 2 in Singles & Dating

Can cook drive the car,own business,need female round about same age

2007-06-27 19:16:38 · 7 answers · asked by greengrass58 2 in Friends

2007-06-27 19:15:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my mom has several mental problmes which are up for dibs as to diagnosis. she has been diagnosed bi polar depressed drug addict etc.. in the past but i dont think theyve hit the nail on the head. one thing she IS is insanely jealous/ crazy about her husband. she gets in these moods where if he does not answer his phone she blows up and goes completley nuts calls up her adult children ( me included) and starts complaining and screaming that she just ' Knows" he is out screwing whores behind her back. i treid to tell her there could be any reason he didnt asnwer and not to jump to conclusions shes being paranoid and she blew up at me. how do i deal with her when shes liek this without me having to get abused too? ( like todya she screamed at me , and none of her kids like to tlak to her when she is in one of these moods )

2007-06-27 19:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-27 19:08:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a good provider(house, car etc...) and he thinks I am being very ungrateful.I told him that I AM very grateful for all that he had provided but I am lacking the emotional connections with him.We are like housemates and I can't see myself living like this for the rest of my life.We've been married for 30+ years.

I have mentioned my 'problems' about 3 years ago and many times since, but he is always saying that I should be grateful and that he is happy living this way.I told him that as long as one party is not happy,there is a problem!

So I suggested counseling and was told to go alone since it's MY problem.I only want this emotional void to be filled.He is so distant and aloof.I am so tired of having to initiate everything that I give up, so no sex (it's the result not the cause),no touching,no talking,no nothing.. so sad!

Should I just stay and be grateful for all that he is able to provide and be deprived emotionally? Does going for counseling alone help?

2007-06-27 19:04:15 · 24 answers · asked by Montana Skye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and shes only 14 and i found out she actually did with a guy she only knew for 2 days she i get over her? and how should i treat her now.

2007-06-27 19:03:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and he assumes a lot of stuff about me and it drives me mad. He assumes that some day I'll get married and have kids of my own.. And when I said I never wanted to, he said "Well, you're not gay, and you don't want to be alone" He has no idea... And because he assumes I'm straight, he's way too overprotective of me and always afraid of me getting a boyfriend. It really bothers me. Why do you think he'd assume this?

2007-06-27 19:02:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy Im interested in and I talk all the time, but only online. We live bit of a distance away from each other, and are busy so we never hang out in person. However, I get the impression he likes me, but I'm not sure. And since I dont see him in person much, I can't judge by body language or touching and things like that.

What do guys do to let you know they like you using only text?

2007-06-27 19:02:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 19:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by snowygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would a guy pursue a girl for 10 weeks if he was just after sex?? We have done nothing...not even a kiss ( no we are not 12...actually both 25) i want to take my time cause i like him and i dont know if maybe he likes me too, i mean after all this time and no prize! What do you think???

2007-06-27 18:57:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 3 years now and I love it at times and then I hate it. We've tried to work on our problems, but it seems that we're always getting into it about the same stuff. It's good when it's good, but bad when it's bad. I love my wife to death, but I just don't think that it's going to work out in the long run. Should I continue trying or just let it go?

2007-06-27 18:57:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My g/f of 5 years has been displaying these signs, tell me if she is cheating or what you think.. I am suspcious of her cheating on me with my old enemy, who knows we are together

1. Hides and deletes text messages and calls
2. VERY protective of her phone
3. Still mentions facts about this one guy as if she's talking to him. Yet she says, "He told me a while ago"
4. Admits sometimes, "I had sex with him 3 times in a row..." with a smile and then says she's kidding.
5. Her messages and times between sent and received don't add up. She's deleting a few them, yet she says she's not hiding anything.
6. Been going out A LOT while Im on night work. Says she is with her friend, but ALWAYS conveniently leaving when I call.
7. Always going to the bathroom with her phone
8. Physically fighting me when I see her phone "light up" She will wrestle and punch me so I don't get it

2007-06-27 18:56:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 30 and I came to us 3 yrs ago my wife is us citizen, I have some problem with my wife, my wife parents are living with us and i'm not happy about that she don't want to get independent and also she don't want me to don't see my family which they're living in another state I haven't seen them since I came here i don't know what should I do can I use the law?

2007-06-27 18:55:12 · 7 answers · asked by john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you marry this man

2007-06-27 18:54:35 · 7 answers · asked by rebecca e 1 in Singles & Dating

BE A MAN AND GET TOO KNOW YOUR SUN
I HAVE ALWAY WANT TO KNOW YOU
THE HELL WITH MY MOM IT'S ABOUT ME
DO THE RIGHT THING AND SEE ME

2007-06-27 18:54:08 · 2 answers · asked by RANDY W 1 in Family

Why waste time getting married if you already have doubts that it may not work?

2007-06-27 18:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by Briana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked my little bro for help w/ a chore, he did it w/out a problem and then when i`m just about to go to sleep he comes smashing through my door and starts making demands. so i try to take it up w/ dad he comes up w/ something that i did wrong to cover up for what eric did and get me in trouble. (it happens all the time) he is always saying im doing something wrong it seems. I know he loves me and just wants me to be a better man... but now i dnt feel like i can talk to him about anything...

2007-06-27 18:50:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-27 18:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by shygirl 2 in Family

Do people always love their parents no matter how their partner treat them? Do you think your parents did a good job to raise you up?

2007-06-27 18:46:08 · 19 answers · asked by Lebron Yao 1 in Family

the guy i like has an abusive wife. we are ' JUST FRINEDS" casue niether of us wants to be a cheater. although we both like each other and have admitted so. anwyys he emailed me yesutrday and i wrote him back and sent him a link about abuse and told him his wife fits several of the crieteria of abuse and that i m just trying to help out of concern & care and that i am just bein a freind and i hope he is not offended cuase i felt like he was reaching out to me by telling me some of the abusive behaviors hes had to endure. i aslo sent him a child support calcuator becuase he was concenred on how much he would have to pay if he dumped her and im in a legal class and we are learning how to calculate the paymetns online at the courts web site. today he didnt write back. do u think i've scared him off, or am i reading too much into it?

2007-06-27 18:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

WHEN I WAS YOUNG MY MOTHER GOT ME LOADED AND LET MY FATHER ABUSE ME. SHE IGNORES ME NOW BECAUSE SHE SAYS SHE FEELS GUILTY. I AM A WRECK, DESPONDENT AND FEEL AS THOUGH I SUFFERED THE WORST ABUSE AND ALOT OF IT IS HER FAULT. ITS AS THOUGH SHE HAS NO APATHY OR CONCERN. MY BROTHER AND SHE JET SET AND PRETEND THAT I DO NOT EXIST. I FEEL LIKE MY BROTHER HAS BRAIN WASHED HER SO HE CAN HAVE ALL OF HER MONEY.
CAN I SUE HER AND HOW?

2007-06-27 18:42:04 · 6 answers · asked by MOTHER ALWAYS GAVE ME DRUGS 1 in Family

I am in a verbally/emotionally abusive marriage for 13 years(physical by choking me 3x in the past over 4 yrs. ago). We have a daughter 7 and a son that's 5. We are 34. he is very verbally and mentally abusive from calling me horrible names, that he doesn't need me, I'm worthless and sorry( b/c I was layed off over a yr. ago and have not yet obtained a job. It's a tough economy in Michigan), fat *****(I'm not fat and if I was he still has no right), lazy(our place is immaculate). Well I am just at a lost. I have left 3 times and returned hoping things could change to no avail. In counseling now but I don't think he takes it seriously. He works in the evening so I miss paying singing gigs all the time b/c he refused to work in the morning. I feel like I'm wasting away trying to be the perfect housewife for a man who treats me like ****. I don't hardly do anything for me to keep up with his demands. He's only nice sometimes. He says he's not forcing me to stay here. What to do?

2007-06-27 18:41:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My question is for a nother friend. She is married to a soldier, he was deployed and after his return she found out that he was engaged with a nother women. Why do men do this to a faithfull women? Why do men cheat and why soldiers of hornor do such a thing?

2007-06-27 18:40:53 · 5 answers · asked by lonley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know, I know... don't do it, right? Bro's before hoe's. Thing is, she's totally chill about everything, and the more the days wear on, I see him being a jerk to everyone, including her, and everyone just takes it. Although she likes me enough to hang out with me most weeks (without him), I haven't really told her I fell for her. Besides, she does like the kid a lot... although they've only dated about 6 months. The other morning, we were all together, and looking at her, just... seeing her that morning... made it easier to breathe. It feels right.

Make the move... or, end up like that guy in "Love Actually"... who spills his guts and ends up... walking alone on some unfamiliar street?

2007-06-27 18:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 18:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family

Ladies, I often wonder if you know where this is?
Only some men know weher the erogenous zone on a womn is. However, how many women know where a man's is?

2007-06-27 18:37:55 · 11 answers · asked by Humbal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so all this happened about a month ago but i still feel hurt and i want to know if I really did do something bad. i really liked this girl and she goes to my school yet she only talked to me on the internet. there i found out we had a lot in common. a lot. and i started to like her but at school she would never talk to me! its like she tried to distance herself from me but sure enough, she would talk to me online. this went on for about a month and we talked about 2-3 times every week online but never at school. very frustrating so finally one time when we were talking online, i asked her why she wouldnt talk to me at school. i said that i was fine with it if she was shy and online was the only way she was comfortable talking to me but i would rather she talk to me in person. i said that it was ok to be shy and that she didnt need to be around me. then she stopped talking to me altogether and I heard from her friends that she was really mad at me and thought I was a

2007-06-27 18:37:39 · 32 answers · asked by Ratchet 3 in Singles & Dating