2007-06-27 19:08:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no because next time she'll think of another excuse.
2007-06-27 19:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've wanted to cheat before for the same reason, but never did! She's probably doing the same thing I did, looking for something she wasn't getting out of the marriage-attention. There's really no excuse to cheat though, she should have come to you first & ask you to spend more time w/ her & since I don't know the whole story, I can't really say. But I have another saying to add to the others "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on ME" As far as can you trust her? She must really work on proving this to you if you decide to give her another chance! Maybe while she's working on that, you could work on spending more time w/ her.
Sometimes the importance of things can be measured by the time you're willing to give. If you don't have a lot of time, maybe try to make the time you do have really special!!! Best of luck to you whatever you decide!!!!
2007-06-27 19:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically your relationship with her was not strong enough that's why all this thing has happened. If the love part between both of you were that much strong enough then this senerio has no place at all. I don't know the mistake was on who's part but somewhere both of you are responsible enough for this. If you really and very truly love your wife then see by giving her a one chance, otherwise be apart there is no point in carrying this relationship anymore.
-> Because doubt has a no medicine or treatement. It never go from root.
2007-06-27 20:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true that you don't have any time for her then that's your fault. Maybe you are the one who is cheating??? What do you do with all your spare time???????If you don't have time for her or don't want any time for her then let her go, because she wont stop now that she was so desperate for attention and you couldn't even see it so she found it...Get a clue Dude. make up your mind, don't mentally abuse her anymore......You already show the signs of mental abuse by the way you posted your question, you already put her at fault. Read your question where it says, " just because she says", if your smart you will see what I am talking about.
2007-06-27 21:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by krisaylalynnays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat...always a cheat! Sorry about that, I feel that's just the way it is. Does she have family members that have cheated also? I have read an article on cheating spouses that it runs in the family...I know this first hand! Good Luck my friend.
2007-06-28 04:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Get Even Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said you had no time for her and if it is true then she should have told you about it. But without telling going for somebody else is cheating. If it was regular then there is no excuse other than leaving her or if you have love for her, give her a chance to mend her ways.
2007-06-27 19:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by rajan l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of things. One, if your wife is remorseful of her act then it means she really wants to work things out with you. Forgive her but also make the effort to address her concerns. Do not judge her by this one act, allow her to make up for it. Keep forgiving her until you can, there is grace that comes with genuine forgiveness that the forgiven party will ultimately feel.
2007-06-27 19:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by jayp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I was married 16 years and the big thing was him spending no time with the family but I didnt cheat, I tried talking I tried making things different and in the end it didnt work, but in the end I still didnt use it as an execuse to cheat.... and thats all that is....and she has already violated your marriage and wouldnt trust her....
2007-06-27 22:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not a very good reason for a Wife to cheat on a Husband.
2007-06-27 19:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think only U can answer that. if she felt U had no time 4 her she should have came 2 U she should have spelled it out,if she didn't then she is wrong. But Love s Love and follow UR heart but, never be her fool.
2007-06-27 19:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really no good reason, she is basically putting all of the blame on u, and taking none of the responsibility for her choices. to trust her again she has to tell u that she understands that what she did hurt u, but she is not doing that. she is putting it all on u, the innocent party. i would not be able to trust her again, she is not taking any of the responsibility for her doings.
2007-06-28 00:04:09 · answer #11 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋