I am only 15 and iw ant a baby bad.its not my boyfrind but its my parents,they sy wait til im 16 and after ym party and they said that if i have a baby our family will open a designer baby shop in paris.
2007-06-27 19:19:28 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not the best idea hun
2007-06-27 19:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're correct, You are ONLY 15 years old. Being 15 years old is too young to really now what you what out of life. Life is so much more than being 15. You have no idea. When you're 16 you might not remember what you were thinking at 15. Don't worry about what your family can give you especially the idea of opening up a store in Paris. The most importnat thing you can do for yourself is complete school, think and plan about your future life. If you have a baby in your teens, you will be giving up most of your life then the rest of your life will be playing catch up. Take heed means warning! Don't have a baby until your finacncially, mentally and most important independently prepared. Don't believe in pipe dreams.
The truth may hurt but it's the truth.
2007-06-27 19:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Freedom Rules!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...wow...at 16? keep in mind that having a baby isn't exactly peaches and cream. a baby is not a material possession. A baby is a human being. There's a lot you would have to sacrifice for your child. You're too young to take on such a responsibility. You are fully aware of the responsibilities, correct? Because on the real, raising a child isn't fun....nor is it easy. I would suggest you enjoy being a kid yourself and not worry about having a baby. When the time is right, you'll have one. Right now is just WAY too early. Too many kids having kids these days...you may think that I'm being cold and cruel and mean and all, but actually I'm doing you a favor. My mom had me when she was 17....she doesn't regret having me...she just regrets having me so young. Everything in your life is put on hold and that child comes first and all. Finish school and all first, and then take it from there. You have to be ready to provide for your child and all. And at 16, that's just way too young. Real talk.
2007-06-27 19:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by ii_battle_override_ii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What parent bribes a child to have a baby with the promise of opening a baby shop in Paris?? I think you might be reading something into this and you're definitely reading the wrong message.
You are too young to even be thinking about reproducing. Do you have any idea of how much responsibility you'll be taking on or are your Baby Boutique Parents going to do all the work?
Finish growing up. Graduate...go to college...tell the boyfriend to take a hike...buy yourself a Cabbage Patch Kid. Just don't get pregnant. You've got way too much life ahead of you to be confined to Parenthood!!
2007-06-27 19:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you for real? what kind of parents would let you have a baby before you are grown up. Your brain is not mature enough to be an adult until you are 20. Is this just a dream to have a shop in Paris?
Strange family. What is ym party?
I just went back and saw your other question. You're dreamin'.
2007-06-27 19:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 and married when I had my first child. It was hard to take care of the child, with two parents, at such a young age. I felt that I lost so many opportunities in my younger years because of not having a sitter, my child being ill, trying to provide for my child, not going to college until I was much older, etc.. Then, because I was too young to have married, I ended up divorced. It became even harder then. When that child cried, I was the only one there to jump up and take care of her. I barely received any financial help, and the ex made my life pure hel# for 18 years. I cried almost every day. As much as Ioved my child, I realized that I had sacrificed soooo much by having her when I was too young. I was older, and a much better mother to my second child.
My point is that you need to reconsider having a child until after you have received your education, and established yourself into a career. That way, no matter what happens, you will never have to worry about anyone else taking care of you. Life is so unsure now days.
Good luck with whatever decision you make. Take care!
2007-06-27 19:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait if I were you, it seems to me that at 16 you can't be able to support yourself on your own and having a baby is a lot of work especially by yourself. Do you really want to have to lean on your parents for a large portion of your life? Plus babies take up a lot of time so you wouldn't be able to get out much at all. I think you should wait at least until your 20 because then you could really supply the best life for your child and you would know a lot more about parenting but its your life. good luck
2007-06-27 19:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Leah P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you are living in a fantasy world. You are too young to have a baby. Get an education, grow up a bit more and then see if you want one. I waited until I was completely independent before I decided to have one. This way I know I can take care of my child with or without help from others.
2007-06-27 19:24:48 · answer #8 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my stepsister had a baby at 16. the boyfriend took responsibility but his family was against the relationship. she stayed with them for a while cos my stepmum wouldn't let her in. but after a while, her boyfriend's family threw her out of the house and she's now staying with her grandparents and 2 younger brothers, who are very very naughty
my stepmum and dad don't earn much so they can't give her money and besides, her baby is her responsibility. her grandparents don't earn much either and they work very hard to try to make ends meet. the baby is now 6 months old and my stepsis isn't schooling. she cant get a job because she has no education. her boyfriend's salary is taken away by his mum. her baby has no milk and no clothes. i don't know how she survives
she made a stupid mistake and an innocent baby has to suffer
2007-06-30 20:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by hannie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noo you dont want a baby it will ruin you body and life instead of going out with your friends you have a bay to stay with and if you have a baby it will give u strech marks that wont come off this might sound old school but wait till you are married or older like ( 100 ) jk maybe around 20 21
2007-06-27 19:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by ambee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're really serious, then you're totally selfish. Why would you even THINK about bringing an innocent child into this world. You're extremely immature to even want a baby at such a young age, so you would definetly not make a good mother.
2007-06-27 19:29:04 · answer #11 · answered by drama_queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋