I'm 30 and I came to us 3 yrs ago my wife is us citizen, I have some problem with my wife, my wife parents are living with us and i'm not happy about that she don't want to get independent and also she don't want me to don't see my family which they're living in another state I haven't seen them since I came here i don't know what should I do can I use the law?
2007-06-27 18:55:12 · 7 answers · asked by john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife parents they don't work here and we need to pay their expense and I have green card.
2007-06-27 19:03:35 · update #1
My parents are passed away and I have brother and sister.
2007-06-27 19:08:32 · update #2
Have you told your Wife how u feel...? If you ahven't sit your wife down tell your wife how you feel about the whole situation of your In-Laws Living with you..
Tell your wife its time your Parents move out of our house & find their own place to live. So that we could be independent live together as Husband & wife.
As for you not allowed to see your own family Your wife has no right to say you can't see ya family thats your family thats your blood thats gave life to YOU!
from
Normimah Minen 29yrs.
Married 5 Half Years.
Mum of 2
4yr old Daughter Jazmina Binti Danial
2yr old Son Azhar Bin Danial.
2007-06-27 19:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you got married, does you have any idea that you're marrying your wife in package deal?
If yes, your in-laws are not the source of your real problem.
If no, can you live with your wife's family? When you marry your wife, her family are your family too.
Talk to your wife, tell her what's on your mind. And probably you can settle compromise agreement with her.
It is not the issue of what is mine or what is yours but what is ours.
2007-06-27 20:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ray Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET YOUR CITIZENSHIP - you are HERE, go do whatever you NEED to do, NOW. You've been here 3 years, what's the hang up?? I'm really sorry, but I'm one of those "nasty" born and raised in the USA, that firmly believes you NEED to follow our laws FIRST, THEN you can bask in the splendors of what this country has to offer you - like personal FREEDOM!!
2007-06-27 19:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what way do you wish to use the law? Are you a US citizen? Who's supporting the folks living in this residence?
2007-06-27 19:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to go such an extend but I think both of you need to really talk it over this family matter. Just put it clearly to her that as she has her family with her, so it should be fair that you have your family here as well. Good luck.
2007-06-27 19:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask your wife if they will leave the house :)
2007-06-27 18:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep it simple..........
I married you not your family!!!!!!!
Good Luck
2007-06-27 19:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋