My g/f of 5 years has been displaying these signs, tell me if she is cheating or what you think.. I am suspcious of her cheating on me with my old enemy, who knows we are together
1. Hides and deletes text messages and calls
2. VERY protective of her phone
3. Still mentions facts about this one guy as if she's talking to him. Yet she says, "He told me a while ago"
4. Admits sometimes, "I had sex with him 3 times in a row..." with a smile and then says she's kidding.
5. Her messages and times between sent and received don't add up. She's deleting a few them, yet she says she's not hiding anything.
6. Been going out A LOT while Im on night work. Says she is with her friend, but ALWAYS conveniently leaving when I call.
7. Always going to the bathroom with her phone
8. Physically fighting me when I see her phone "light up" She will wrestle and punch me so I don't get it
2007-06-27 18:56:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You already know the answer Sherlock. Follow her next time when she thinks you're working nights and see where she's going. Phone her when you get there and see if she tells you she's someplace else. You're being made a fool of !
2007-06-27 19:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, it sounds like she is cheating on you or if not something isn't right. She is throwing it in your face for a reason. Have you point blank just asked her? If so, and she says no, present these issues to her and let her know how you feel. Please do this if you still want to be with her. If not, break it off with her and really let go. She seems like she is trying to get revenge, doesn't care and is acting out and/or doesn't respect you. It's like she is trying to hurt you on purpose as if she has an ax to grind with you. Seems like some unresolved issues in the relationship. Also, for her to be with your enemy, is off-limits and he could be influencing her by telling her things about you. Also, I would investigate to get to the bottom of this for your own sanity.
2007-06-28 02:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by new life abundant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your right to be suspicious. Is there another reason she could be acting the way she is? Do you have a b/day coming up she might be planning for? But if she "teases" about having sex w/ someone else while you 2 are comitted to each other, I would think about getting out of it now because I can't see much of a future between you 2...Sorry
2007-06-28 02:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mona 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, she is cheating on you. Or at the very least having a serious flirtation with this other guy (which in my eyes is cheating anyways).
Honestly at this point there's really only one thing you can do, you either talk it out or dump her. But honestly, don't let that keep happening because you're heading for very very crappy time if you don't do anything about it.
2007-06-28 02:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by cookiz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it, but havent u heard that if a relationship has no trust, it wont work. Id end it now, save yourself the pain of finding out if she is in the future.
Also maybe its you paying less attention to her and she is doin it to get attention from you whether it be negative or not.
Just ask her straight out, if she has nothin to hide she should let u read her msg if u ask.
Good Luck
2007-06-28 02:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Five yrs. is a long time. I feel she is cheating on you. I don't know if you were thinking of getting married to her? You may want to reconsider. If she's showing no commitment now, can you image what your marriage is going to be like? I don't think is right for anyone to play with the others emotion. Dump her fast.
2007-06-28 02:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rafa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah...she definitely has something to hide. I'd wait to accuse and confront her until you have definite proof of her cheating. Until then just lay low and see where it takes you. In the meantime, you should start thinking about detaching yourself emotionally from her.
2007-06-28 02:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think we need to call a spade a spade here. If she isn't cheating I believe you deserve an explanation about her erratic behaviour.
2007-06-28 02:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by jtgot1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know who cares if she's cheating or not. This is an immature person who's not worth your time. Move on, you'll never find happiness with this person.
2007-06-28 02:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that there is something going on. I can not tell you it is cheating but if that is what you think then why do you stay with her. It all is about trust and without that you have nothing. go with your heart.
2007-06-28 02:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋