i have this girl that we went out for a little bit but then we broke up for reasons that i totally understand even though we still had like a huge attraction to each other. well time passed and we were just good friends but lately she's becoming more than a friend to me again but i dont think she feels the same way. two of my good friends told me that they think she's just taking advantage of me. idk what to do about it. i have this want for her so bad but i'm pretty sure it wont happen. what do i do?
2007-06-27 15:26:38 · 12 answers · asked by grazin08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You put on the big boy shorts and let it go. You're friends are probably right she is just using you.
2007-07-05 06:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to find out whether she really is into you or whether you're just convenient. The only way to do that is to ask her. Ask her how she feels about you. Ask her if she sees a future for the two of you. Base your decision on her answer. And don't let her wanting her so bad get in the way. Make a smart decision.
2007-07-05 15:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone knowingly take advantage of your emotion they are your feeling and you should take that seriously. Just because you like someone you still treat them with respect, they should have the courtesy to return the same. You answer the question yourself, I'm pretty sure she won't let it happen either. Cut your losses and spare your heart.
2007-06-27 16:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness, i have been in the same situation! it totally sucks! cuz like you wanna be more than friends but they dont! ugh, i would cry so much cuz i wanted him soooo bad! but best thing you could do is just be super nice and always be there for her and tell her that too, and just flirt with her a hug her, and kinda of make her want you back.. do u get what im sayin? just like make her miss you like you miss her... well good luck! hope it all work out for ya! :)
2007-07-05 15:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by soccachickk18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run you are better off letting her go. Their suspicions that you are being used must be because of some reason. I think they are just watching out for you so you don't get hurt.
2007-06-27 15:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should just let her know how you really feel about her.because what if she likes you too and you dont say anything about it...then its gonna suck because yall could have been together...!and even though your friends are your friends you dont always have to listen to them because maybe she isnt taking advantage of you..
2007-06-27 15:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by ..eMiLy..=] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and see where this goes. Remeber what made you break up, and decide if you want to go there again. If so, bring your feelings up to her. Then see where it goes.
2007-07-05 15:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go! i no it is going to seem hard but there is absolutely no point chasing after someone that used to like you but noe like you as a friend and i think she wants to keep it that way.
2007-07-05 14:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously giving you "mixed messages". It sonds to me like she enjoys the attention. I would step back and spend more time with your other fiends.
2007-07-05 14:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by ALAN P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should more than likely listen to your friends. it's good that you guys are on good terms, have some fun if you must, just dont hook back up.
2007-07-05 06:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Lyn is silly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋