ok...i really like this guy that's in my skool. his name is matthew. he's a white boy...and im a puerto rican. he hangs out with, what me and my friends consider, the popular kids. he's really cute and every now and then we have little conversations...but nothing more. everybody who knows him thinks he's a bit of an ******. but when he talks 2 me...he's very nice and polite and he acts very sweet. i noe he's a really nice guy...but he puts on an act 2 fit in. i can almost kind of sense it. like he's hiding his true personality.
like i said before...i really like him...but i think he's a bit shallow. since im hispanic...i'm not the skinniest thing around. i am pretty thick. like i have thick legs and my stomach isn't that flat...so...idk what he thinks of me. and in all honesty...i'm trying 2 lose weight this summer just to impress him. i don't wanna tell him that i like him just yet...but then again...i do want to tell him b4 it's too late. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-27 14:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by baby15julie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...me and him have had a few more conversations...and i feel like he kinda has a little crush on me...but i really can't tell. becuz with me...he's such a sweetheart and he treats me like a princess. but when it comes 2 being around his guy friends...he acts different. like he treats me just like a normal friend. idk what 2 think!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!
2007-06-30 06:39:06 · update #1
well lately...we haven't talked...but i recently sent him a message talking 2 him about what he likes 2 do so i can ask him out sumwhere
2007-07-04 14:24:35 · update #2
wont u feel better once u ask him??..i think thick girlz are wat a lot of guyz like nowadays!!..but if your not comfortable with yourself..dont change for him..do it for yourself..i dont think people should change theirselves for another person..GOOD LUCK!
2007-07-05 13:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥KiYa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound rude, but..JUST TELL HIM! You're not gonna go anywhere if you never admit to him personally. Take a chance, because if he does like you, he's probably shy too, and he'll never tell you that he likes you, unless you tell him first. I had this same fear with girls when i was in Middle School.
HOWEVER, don't approach him too fast. You know, bring up the subject of 'love', dating, or simply give a compliment, like 'i like your shirt'. If he truly feels your compliment, and he wears the shirt just for you, you're getting somewhere!
Good luck :]!
2007-06-27 21:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't do ANYTHING to impress a boy!!! If you want to loose weight do it cause you want to! Next he sounds like a jerk! If he can't be consistent with you then forget him. He shouldn't change how he acts with you when he's around his friends. Don't ask a boy out if he really likes you, he'll ask you out!!
2007-07-05 21:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sha Sha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out, it's really all you can do, and don't worry about losing a bunch of weight. Thick girls are fine, anorexic looking ones arent.
2007-06-27 21:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Brett 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him to a movie
2007-07-04 20:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously do need help. go ask your parents for it!â¥
2007-07-05 21:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by gone fishing! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋