luckily so far i dont have the problem, but one of my friends. but men easliy forget about themselfs putting weight out especially the big beer bellys
2007-06-27 14:45:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because some men are shallow
2007-06-27 14:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Men like to have a nice looking women by there side to show off to their friends. It's a pride thing for some men. Now those men with the beer belly should remember that women often feel the same way and want a man by their side that they can be proud of. It's not so much of a weight issue but a health issue and it's something you hear all the time but it is so true although you can be heavy and still healthy and look neat.
2007-06-27 14:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men believe they should be married to their ideal woman as far as shape is concerned! We women have a lot to put up with...not least of all trying to stay young and sexy to please our men!!!! Such sexism. It can't be helped, but there it is........however I am pleased to report that there are men who will love you always no matter what shape you are.
True, men do forget about their weight gain, and still expect you to find them sexy and attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so it is said and no matter what shape, colour, creed, etc we all are it's what is under the skin and good/bad looks that counts.
Are women forever to be expected to be sexy, slim little dolly birds? And put up with slovenly men who don't care what they look like or how they behave? I am NOT saying all of this applies to men or women...just the few selfish ones out there who are so vain it's impossible to suit their needs.OOOOH sorry...makes my blood boil sometimes.
If we were meant to be perfect, eyelash batting, giggly little simpletons God would have made us all that way. I for one, thank heaven I am not made that way and could never be "so vain", as the song goes!
Thank goodnes for differences and long may it last!
2007-06-30 05:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some men, not all men have a notion that a woman HAS to look a certain way in order to be considered sexy. All I know is if my husband ever complained about my looks or my weight he'd be on the floor searching for his teeth.
Oh..and sweet p you just made me laugh out loud.
2007-06-27 14:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by DelinquentGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called double standards.Many men not all complain but then they fail to realise that the problem is not with the lady but with themselves.
I'm a guy and my wife gained 35kg after giving me three daughters. She's still the same person I married though and I'm grateful for that.
2007-06-27 15:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Selena B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in there mind
They believe that when you put weight on that you no longer want to look good for them.
Some men think that we are testing them to see if they really do have true love.
Remember most men need to have visual stimulation so when you change they take it as you are taking yourself away from their visual. Most men get over it after they have had time to adjust to new visuals
So I guess it all up to the man himself.
2007-06-27 14:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by bkamissrike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men marry hoping thir wives will never change. Women marry hoping their men will change. haha...But it's true!
Men want their wives to stay as sexy as she was when he met her. Unfair to say the least, since they gain weight and get old, too.
I know a man who's wife gained about 100 lbs since their wedding 3 years ago,.... and she is still gaining. He's embarrassed to be in public with her, because he really cares about what people think of him. (No, this is not me...it's my ex husband's new wife).
2007-06-27 19:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do that, as I myself have seen quite a few full figured ladies I really liked. For me, outward appearence isn't as important as what's on the inside. And I myself am not exactly a string bean either. LOL:)
2007-06-27 15:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't have a problem with a little poundage but hey when its stones its time to exercise, no beer belly for me i haven't drank for nearly four years.
2007-06-27 15:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by gameface_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't complain. They are doing it on behalf of the bathroom scales. They are sent back to the manufacturers for not reading what they want them to read by women.
2007-06-27 17:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want that" mold look" to impress thier friends.Look at T.V.how many woman are over weight compeared to men.Woman are to allways look good and men are to bring home the big pay check. I don't thinks it's right but that's the world.
2007-06-27 14:53:50 · answer #11 · answered by noteworthy5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋