REALLY PARANOIDDD ?

Question

okay me and this guy met on a cruise. we had a thing, and weve been in contact for 10 months now. in 2 months..i happen to be going to college near where he lives, and he knows this. about two months ago we were on the phone with eachother and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..meaning lets keep in touch and i thought he meant then when i get there to college hed want a relationship with me.


im just really paranoid, and i get scared, what happens if he gets a gf..do you think he would? what would it mean if he does?

Answer 1

Sorry to be harsh - but why do you keep asking the same question over and over again?

If you're still unsure about things at this point - then just let things happen as they happen. A LOT can happen in the next couple of months...

Like - what if YOU get a b/f before then?

Answer 2

It's alright to be paranoid. Don't worry. When he says let's keep this long distance thing going, he might be talking to you as a girlfriend or just a friend friend. I always hate when this happens in relationships: they don't know if they're going out or not and there is miscommunication. You must ask him if you two are going out: that's it. It's not a hard question. Reassure him that it would be great if you two were but would understand if he's not ready for that kind of thing and will still love it when you're close and you can be friends. Being friends with someone is sometimes better than being in a relationship with someone.

Answer 3

He took the initiative to say "Lets keep this long distance relationship going", so obviously he's interested. Don't doubt him, there are actually some nice guys out there, believe it or not!! He is taking his time to make things work with you, he won't look at another girl!!

Answer 4

well if he's keeping constant contact with u, then i highly doubt he has a gf or will try to get one, besides u, so there is rly no point in being paranoid.....