Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

I luv a guy 4m d time he was single (This i had not told anybody), now my best frnd & that guy r together. I tried to 4get him but I cant, so I tried to avoid him, but b-coz he is my best frnds B.F. he is always wid us. How do I remove his thoughts, my feelings from my mind widout telling anybody. Plz. help me I dont want to come between my bst frnd & d person whom i luv. I dont want to hurt any1. plz., plz, giv me some good advice or solution.

2007-06-27 10:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He isn't working because he " can't find a job. " I have noticed that his hygiene is getting bad, he showers every few days but usually only because I ask him to. I cook, I clean, I do it all and when I ask him to do something simple like rinse his dirty glass out before he puts it in the dishwasher, he gets an attitude. He says I nag him too much but I don't feel that I nag nearly enough. He also wonders why I don't want to have sex with him well, this ISN'T the man that I married. He's changed for the worse. I can't have sex with him when I am apalled by his laziness. What should I do?

2007-06-27 10:56:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I cant stand my wife going out with her girl friends until 3am dressed to pull.
she spend hours getting ready for going out with her mates, and comes in at 3am.
I cant help it I get so para that she has been chatting up other blokes etc. I get so jelous but cant control it as it feels like a threat to our relationship.
Whenever we go anywhere she does not put as much effort into getting dulled up why??? it makes me feel as if im not as important as her mates.
she says she loves me more than anything and we have 2 children and that she wants nobody else but waiting up until 3am wondering what is happening is making me stress what can i do to stop these feelings as I know it is not fair on her.

2007-06-27 10:53:59 · 21 answers · asked by adam b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can have sex all the time but my husband doesnt want to. We have it like everyother day but sometimes every two days, but I feel that its never enough and want more. Why?

2007-06-27 10:53:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

side and my dads side. My dads side are close, but i only talk to my one cousin. Can I only invite my aunts and uncles and not my cousins? or do I have to invite my cousins? Each of my aunts and uncles have the average of 4 kids, pluse there siblings. Would it be fair if i only invite my one cousin an not the rest?

2007-06-27 10:52:35 · 8 answers · asked by lrios1229 1 in Weddings

2007-06-27 10:50:45 · 3 answers · asked by In Love<3 2 in Singles & Dating

We are currently separated. The title and registration both are in my name.

2007-06-27 10:48:33 · 14 answers · asked by redneckangel82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 10:46:38 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

always make sucha big fuss on spelling? I mean if it's your question you can spell it however you want. most words that people put arn't hard to figure out so if you understand the word leave a polite message answering the question not telling them to take an english class or something because maybe they were in a hurry or they didn't feel like typing out the whole word...ya know? it's just stop making such a big deal out of this. do you agree or disagree. why? thanks for answers.

2007-06-27 10:44:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl that was supposed to be his friend or so I thought from what he told me.
But he recently told me that she asked him out on a date and he *supposedly* told her "no, cause I'm in love".
After he told me that, he said that he really does love me and never has or will cheat on me cause he loves me.
anyway, I know who this girl is, but she dont know me and to top it off she knew he was already with me and that we have a daughter together.
we have been together for about 7 years btw.
should I do anything or should I just leave it be?

2007-06-27 10:36:36 · 24 answers · asked by preggo&luvinit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i realy like her dress im nowhere near getting married ive just always been curiouse does anyone know what kinf of lace she has and is there a name for the lacey stuff on her neckline and whats the silhuette and what color is the silk in the bottom of her dress

if anyone knows please tell me and please dont bother if your going to say negative things


thanks in advanced

2007-06-27 10:35:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And should I spring for insurance?

2007-06-27 10:32:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I hate to burden you guys, but I really need prayer, for everything. Please pray for me, let me tell you what happened tonight.
Tonight my dad got mad at me because I told him to go to bed. He fell asleep at the kitchen table, because of his emphasima, and it is not good for him to sleep like that I told him to go to bed. So I said "daddy go to bed" like 3 times. He jumped on me, told me to get the f... out of his face, house, sight. He told me that I was hateful and disrespectful and talked to him like a dog. He told me to go to bed, he counted to five I think, and when I did not move he jumped up, came over to me and began to push me, telling me to get the gd out of his house, face, life and so on. He said I was in his face being so hateful and rude talking to him like a dog and so on.

2007-06-27 10:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by teenhelp911 2 in Family

I am writting a book and I need the imput of women only.?
I am writing a book call "GODs gift to man, the truth about what women want and what men think." and I need you girls to tell me honestly what you want. what you need and your experiences with men.

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i know it has been done already but I want to take a new look at it and make it more intresting for men to read. Most of those books are written in a way that most men can't understand. It will kinda be like the dummies guide to dating

2007-06-27 10:23:06 · 17 answers · asked by Mitchell 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-27 10:15:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

random shirtless guys and a strap-on penis device under his bed. Should i be concerned? I'm petrified he might be interested in someone else. What should i think? Help!

2007-06-27 10:14:41 · 21 answers · asked by sickofhierarchy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my friend and this guy are wanting to date. My friend is 15 and the guy is 18. They want to see each other but alot of ppl say its illegal. I know the guy she wants to see, hes a pretty nice guy and i know that he is serious when it come to relationships and he wants this to work even though she is 15. I also have a friend thats 20 and is seeing a 16yo and nothing happened to them. What is the laws on this and what is the way that they can see each other without getting in trouble? They have known each other for awhile and have a really good connection and everything just points to them being a great couple.

2007-06-27 10:14:31 · 13 answers · asked by guy_of_normalcy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 10:11:57 · 2 answers · asked by LOVELYSEX 1 in Singles & Dating

he knows i like him but i dont know if he does, even though he always looks at me and his friends do too. is that a sign that he does. well anyways, i want him to ask me out, im eye flirting with him and all that, i talk to his friends and they always tell me that he wants you but im not sure if they're lying or not. so what should i do to attract him? should i make the first move? but im scared that he will reject me? any advices?

2007-06-27 10:09:48 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 10:09:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a cuush a guy named jacob,ok i went to school today(i am in 6th grade trying to get into 8th grade) and i was talkin to this girl behind me and jacobs friend told him i wanted to be his GF! And he started not to talk to me but he said yea!!And then his friend was making up all this stuff and i passed him a note that said u suck and he read it and told jacob that i told him to pass the note to jacob and he was sad/mad.And i told him i passed it to his friend and then after school we were headed out of class and his best friend asked me if i wrote this note to jacob or his friend.I said his friend and i asked him if he realy liked me and i told him to tell him that i do like him,and that if he likes me to say it to my face to.
i will add note after tomorrow
ps im 12 GOOD ANSWERS PLEASE

2007-06-27 10:07:14 · 19 answers · asked by dancer4life 2 in Singles & Dating

How Can I Make A Guy Love Me Who Is Far From Me And He Doesnt Care About Me

2007-06-27 10:05:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have chose an "enchanted forest" theme for our wedding but we need help with ideas. I'm a creative person and could easy make things if not able to find them somewhere. I'd greatly appreciate any ideas you have. Thanks!!!

2007-06-27 10:05:27 · 14 answers · asked by jessica_01020 1 in Weddings

S%@T, I can't think of any. Help me out here! ! !

I'm trying to help a friend who is getting divorced and I can't think of a way to encourage her.

2007-06-27 10:02:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 09:59:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for almost 4 years and we have been togerther for 10 years this is my thing he don't trust me we get into fights about nothing(phone bill, someone hit my car, etc) that just are a few thing and I am so tried of it .We don't have any kids together but I am just so tried I would love to come home with some peace sometimes. I know everyone have fights but it's about the simple things, he question everything I do like what time I got off from work, to did I take a bath when I got off from work and there other things, I care for him but i just tried of the fights, and I just want to leave.

2007-06-27 09:57:12 · 18 answers · asked by Lady J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-27 09:56:38 · 22 answers · asked by foxy.ladies 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

on girls: chocolate, fruity, or floral
on guys:strong musky, or light and fresh cologne

just wonderin :D
thanks

2007-06-27 09:54:13 · 26 answers · asked by brunette_beauty 2 in Singles & Dating

thing to do when sad and alone and you really miss delilah but you wont see her again until september and you really miss her and want to stop crying and need to do something. what is your favorite thing to do?

2007-06-27 09:51:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband of thirty years has always been negative about my family and friends. He is constantly saying negatives about anyone that I associate with. He does not even like me going to visit my elderly mother. He says very hurtful things about my friends and sisters. He even thinks that the Doctor that I go to is useless and stupid. I have quit asking family to visit because I do not want to hear all the negative remarks after they leave. It seems that he only wants me to associate with his family and stay away from everyone else. I do not understand this behavior. I don't see any reason for him to feel threatened by others. Is there something that I can do to alleviate this problem?

2007-06-27 09:49:19 · 26 answers · asked by Freedom 7 in Marriage & Divorce