random shirtless guys and a strap-on penis device under his bed. Should i be concerned? I'm petrified he might be interested in someone else. What should i think? Help!
2007-06-27 10:14:41 · 21 answers · asked by sickofhierarchy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Petrified is a legitimate feeling, i would be too. And sorry to say but I think the 6years is running dry.
2007-07-05 06:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerned as he may have interests outside of your relationship. Talk with him. Tell him that you would like ot know where he sees your relationship going and ask honestly about the pictures - Is he gay, bi or inknown? 6 years is a long time and you need to ask yourseld what you want from the relationship as well. All could be fine and you can both remain happy together or he may be trying to love some sort of double life and you and he both deserve better than that.
2007-07-05 08:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by geminijeanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would be concerned, I would not ask any questions, I would just move in. I would not ask questions because in my mind there is nothing he would be able to tell me about the strap on penis; what would he say Oh its not mine, yeah right, petrified I would not be, I think you need to end the relationship.
2007-06-27 10:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront him about this, because this is very serious. You and this man have been together 6 years you deserve honesty. I personally would be shocked, mad, and confused. What is he doing with gay porno to begin with? Is he bisexual? I am assuming you thought he was heterosexual right? Finding these items can mean a lot of things, girl you are really calm to have this issue going on in your life and for that i commend you. But for God's sake please talk to this man and try to find out what is really going on. And no matter what answer he gives you, practice safe sex, or no sex! Because these days there are lots of guys who are on what's called the down low! And that means they have sexual relations with other men secretly and still have girlfriends, or wives at home. This is a very scary behavior, and it is very common in our society, and it affects all races, and ages. Be careful and talk to him a.s.a.p. this is a very serious issue! Good luck and God bless you both.....
2007-07-04 13:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sha T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is Gay!!!! Gay men make great friends... leave the relationship alone, and go shopping with him...You may just like him better as a friend than as a boyfriend. The fact you guys have been together so long, suggest the friendship is solid. Don't throw that part away, but seriously...he is gay.
2007-07-05 07:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlie you are in big trouble i will say that. First you need to get tested just in case because if you have been together that long I know you aren't using condoms. I really think he is into other men or just Bisexual. If you found a pic of him and another man that means he has had the chance to cheat.
2007-07-05 06:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by smd131313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be concern, talk to him about the things you found. Girlfriend it sound like your boyfriend is coming out of the closet. Good Luck
2007-07-04 16:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a girl & the same thing happened to her. Her b/f had a boyfriend on the side. I would say he is gay/bi and probably has a someone else. She just confronted him and he admitted it.
2007-07-05 09:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by JeNNa_NiCoLe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your hair short. And during sex wear a strap on and talk with a falsetto bass voice.
2007-06-27 10:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a reason to come out of the closet. Obviously he is GAY/BISEXUAL Dont ignore the blatant signs you'll hurt yes but it will be more hurtful when he puts you to sit down to have the "TALK"
2007-07-05 04:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by sexylovelet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋