I am writting a book and I need the imput of women only.?

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I am writting a book and I need the imput of women only.?
I am writing a book call "GODs gift to man, the truth about what women want and what men think." and I need you girls to tell me honestly what you want. what you need and your experiences with men.

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i know it has been done already but I want to take a new look at it and make it more intresting for men to read. Most of those books are written in a way that most men can't understand. It will kinda be like the dummies guide to dating

Answer 1

My main concern is maturity. He may be charming and all but when it comes to acting his age and he lacks in that area..I'd throw him out and quick. A man who has communication skills both both speaking and listening is a plus. A man who knows what he wants in life and has dreams and goals. A man who will stay faithful til the end no matter what. I know that sounds too good to be true..but that's what women truly want.

Answer 2

I think it's important to acknowledge that every girl needs something different. There is no universal panacea. When a girl gets a nice guy, she wants a bad boy. When she has a bad boy, she complains about it to her friends and wants to meet a nice guy. There is nothing that will ever make us all totally happy.

I've been wanting to write an article called "The Unperfect Relationship" for years. Because I wanted people to know that there ARE no perfect men or women out there. Relationships take a LOT of effort for the rest of their lives.

My experiences with men are that although none are perfect, there are men out there who are perfect enough for me, but that doesn't mean that I'm perfect enough for them.

Good luck with your book!

Answer 3

Listening skills would be a good start.
But really what women need in men starts as toddlers that would be a Mom's job.
Since this is for "Dummies" (grow men) for them to please just be honest and get a phone number they are really going to call.
FYI if a guy is reading this kind of book he is basically a good guy the ones that need the info will not read this 'how to ' book.

Answer 4

Heh heh heh.

I once met a man who was secure in his own skin, strong of character, confident of his beliefs, not into all the game playing...

And I married him. Over the past ten years, he has become my best friend. That doesn't mean I expect him to act like my girlfriends or that I treat him the same as I do my gals...he's a man, dang it!!! It means that at the end of the day, when all is said and done, I can't think of a single soul I'd rather be with.

You do know, of course, that a lot of women SAY they want certain things and then get mad when they get them? They call manly confidence "arrogance," they call concern or wanting to help fix things "controlling," they say they want a man who can express himself honestly, but then call him a chauvinist pig when he expresses something they don't like.

Answer 5

A guy that is nice and polite. Will hold my hand in public and not care what other people think. Will show affection towards me even if his friends are around. A guy that is sensitive enough to listen to me vent about anything and tell me his opinion but tough enough to protect me at the same time!!! A guy that gives compliments just for the hell of it. Even if I look like crap. Who will take care of me when I'm not feeling good. Who wants to go out with me in public with my friends. A guy that doesn't just worry about himself all the time. To make me laugh, feel save, make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world!! Before we go to bed to just sit there and talk and talk about everything and anything, just because we can.

I hope this helps, good luck!

Answer 6

Well it is more so simple then men expect to hear, or know yet fail to see and refuse to comprehend..simplicity!
Maybe we seem complicated maybe we act on our emotions maybe with think with our heart and sometimes lose our minds..maybe it is as easy as one two and three being treated with respect and acknowledge the thoughts and work women put into our relationships with and out of the kindness of our hearts...Maybe everyone takes a womens worth and kindness as weakness...

Answer 7

What I want?

Just to be loved and accepted just as I am.
Finding and holding a love close to my heart and letting him know everyday that I need him and want him in my life, through unspoken words or deeds
To have children by this said man, who is my husband, and feel the kind of love for them that my parents had for me and my siblings
To have my in laws leave me and my children alone, if we do not wish to be near them, we should not be FORCED into spending time with people who act like they don't have time for us.
I want to be able to raise my children the way that I want, without the pressure of an in law telling me that I should do this or that with my child. Raise your own and leave mine alone!
That is all that I can think of for the moment.

Answer 8

What I want (and have, usually) is a guy who can show me that he appreciates me for who I am. When I'm being silly, I want him to be silly with me. When I'm in a bad/sad mood, I want him to say something like, "I know you had a sucky day. Come here and let me hug you, and tell me about it if you want." And when I'm mad but I keep saying everything's fine, I need him to instinctively know that indeed it is NOT fine, and try to help me work out whatever's going on.

Answer 9

women want men to treat them like everytime they meet is like the first time and the man is always on his good behavior and trying to impress and be all concerned and friendly.
so many men get the girl and then they relax and take everything for granted and do not mind their p's and q's.

Answer 10

women want R-E-S-P-E-C-T, love, a non cheating husband,someone to listen to them, a balanced relationship,A thank you once in a while, a complement every once in a while say stuff like how great she is at something or what makes her special, last but not least a night out a picnic suprising them giving her the hug first