My sister’s husband loves her to death does everything for her, but my sister caught him watching porno at his shop, at home. He told her that he will stop doing that but a week ago she found it in the house computer. He swore to her that it wasn’t him and that it was his friends. Last week she was on the computer it wasn’t there. She is a really good computer person so she knows how to do all those things. Why would he do that?? He has never cheated on her and is always with her except when she is at work. Why??
2007-06-27 07:42:18 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they have some porno movies at home that they watch when they want something more exciting, but the thing is he watches girls like naked and so having sex. Its mostly girls he watches
2007-06-27 08:19:36 · update #1
he is a guy,,,,,,,,,, wife my need to put out a little more................
2007-07-05 01:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by I AM BACK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u serious, what men do you know, does not watch porn? Thats like your sisters husband telling her not to watch her soaps no more, she might tell him yeah, shell never watch another soap opera again but when he's out the door, there goes general hospital. What does she honestly think is going to happen, is he going to go through the tv and touch one of these women, if he is faithful and honest and this is just something he does occasionally, let him be, why doesnt your sister sit down and watch them with her husband, there's nothing wrong with that, I do it with mine, as a matter of fact I bought my man a porno movie just the other day, Let him be, before she nags him to death, and then he'll really be cheating.
UPDATE: did u just say he watches naked girls, u mean in pornos right, what is he supposed to be watching, naked men, its a porno everyone is naked, as long as he is not obsessive in wanting to see pornos every single day twice a day, then chill, he is a man.
2007-06-27 08:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by ana c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
we all know men and how their hormones work. I don't personally understand what it is that gets them going with porn, but it just does. Without knowing more about them I would say that if there are no other problems in their relationship she has nothing to worry about. For whatever reason it is men (and some women too) get it in their head that because they are married the sex life has to change, or stop in some cases. Maybe he is just looking for more of an adventure. I personally could never be aroused by something like that, but men are simple individuals and are pleased very easily.
2007-07-05 05:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by I LOVE BEING A MOMMY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it is natural for a guy to watch porn. My husband does it with or with out me. GROW UP HUN! Most men watch porno that doesn't mean that he is actually involved, just likes to watch! Good Grief! If she came home and found him with another woman then that would be considered cheating, not for watching Porn!
2007-07-04 16:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, I can say that it can be just the rush that one gets from the images, pics, sounds if its video clips. Most men split sex from emotions. The only real prob comes into effect if he is cybering with women. Then a bond with a real person is being formed and that can be the beginning of some very serious stuff.
My personal advice for that woman is to tell her husband that she understands the rush he feels and if there are any things he'd like to live out with her she'd love to know and if she isn't comfortable with some act she is ok to with his watching it on porn as long as it doesnt cross that "cyber" line.
This will actually make him more relaxed, maybe more willing to share thoughts about it with her, and less likely for him to take the step toward cyber itself.
2007-06-27 07:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My Fiance enjoys watches Porn and I enjoy watching it with him. It can be a very stimulating experience for you Both. I know alot of women get uptight about this sort of thing and some even view it as a Virtual Affair, but it does not have to be like that. Just watch them with him...
2007-07-03 21:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you trying to say that every one who watches porn will cheat or that it makes you a bad person or that you don't love your spouse if you watch it????!!!!! that is a tad immature isn't it?
it sounds to me like the problem lies with you and your sister more than it does w/ him. I believe you two are so insecure about your selves that you think that just because he looks at another woman you think he no longer loves you. well, GOOD MORNING!!! well, I won't get in to ya'lls possible hang ups I'll just say, its not that bad of a thing, and maybe she should watch with him HEY AND MAYBE SHE SHOULD BE GLAD THAT HE WAS WATCHING WOMEN AND NOT MEN!!!! I think THAT would be MORE OF A PROBLEM!!!!!!!
2007-07-04 19:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with watching porn. I do think if you are married it is better enjoyed together or shared. Also if he lies about it or is spending time away from his family to do it then it could be a problem. Men as well as some women enjoy looking at attractive people. There is nothing wrong with it at all.
2007-07-01 14:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Theophane_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that all it means is that he is a man... Men generally have higher sex drives than women.. He must love his wife but desires variety. It keeps him faithful to the woman he loves, which is probably what he wants as well. Honestly, she probably just needs to open up a line of authentic communication and ask him why AND be prepared for the answer without trying to change it.
2007-07-03 08:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by warriorandangel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I should hope that its girls that he watches otherwise she would have bigger issues than her husband watching porn. We all have our guilty pleasures maybe this is his. Maybe he just likes to watch porn once and a while and thats it. It sounds pretty innocent, if its not an obsession that affects them on a daily basis then there shouldnt be anything to worry about.
2007-07-05 05:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that he likes something weird in the porn and he's too embrassed to ask her to try it. The varity of porn is very vass and some of the things they do in porn grosses most women out! But the husbands or boyfriend want to try it but are afraid that their wives or girlfriends are going to get weirded out and judge them for what they like. So he keeps it to himself and hides it so that their wife or girlfriend doesn't know their little dark secret.
2007-07-02 01:30:48 · answer #11 · answered by andre' w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋