I have this friend that i haven't talked for a while, ever since he asked me to go out with him but everytime that we plan to go out to the movies or just to see each other something always happen or sometimes i just forget. so he haven't called me and i don't want to call him either i want to wait until he calls me, cuz iam thinking hes mad. so i really don't know what to do. any ideas
2007-06-27 09:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call him because it was ur fault that u 4 got and stuff so he not gona call u.. u have to call him
2007-06-27 09:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously want to talk to this said friend, so call him. If he's mad, try to diffuse the situation as best you can. Things aren't going to get resolved until one of you takes the initiative. Be brave and pick up the darn phone already!
2007-06-27 09:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe if he isn't calling he is waiting for you to call him i mean what are u going to lose if u call him and if u don't ull wish you did so it's like hello pick up the phone and call he might be sitting by it now! and maybe he is interested in you and maybe if he isn't asking u to hang out he might consider the fact that u might not be interested in him just because u guys made plans and either one of u had planned on not keeping them...
2007-06-27 09:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is where you need to put your pride and shyness away.
Do you really want to continue with thois friendship?
Do you like this person as a friend or as a boyfriend?
You need to make up your mind and have a heart to heart chat with this fella. Put aside your pride or shyness and deal with the situation face to face. Get it out of your system and continue with your life. Don't let little things interfere with your relationship regardless if it is just a friendship.
2007-06-27 09:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by jessejamesthegreat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thank you should talk to him on a serious level. Tell him what you thank and how you feel.Tell him that you have felt uncomfortable since you last spoke to each other. And that you hope he understands that you really just want to be friends and that you don't want to do anything that would jeopardise your friendship.
2007-06-27 09:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by lcherriesr@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were the one to flake on him for the other dates or meetings/ hang outs then you should call him and politley ask if he would like to do something with you ie movies, ice cream, anything really. see if he goes for it, if he does chances are he still likes you :)
good luck if you need anyother advice e mail me
2007-06-27 09:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Strawberrieswild 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably thinking that this relationship isn't going to work so he is trying to "forget" about you. Well sorta. So just IM him say you are really truly sorry and that you want to get back together!
2007-06-27 09:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sammy, Dear just call him or knock on his door and be honest. Stuff happens and you don"t want to miss out !
2007-06-27 09:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and talk to him if you are interested in him he is probably mad but if you wait he might get Father away from you
2007-06-27 09:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call him and talk it out because if he is mad and you wait he may just get more mad because you havent called
2007-06-27 09:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋