2007-06-27 08:56:24 · 15 answers · asked by julie j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real question here is "can I forgive him for what he did to me?" If the answer is yes, then you should let him know what he can do to repair the damage that has been done. It will take time before you will trust him again(if ever). If your answer is no, move on. In time, the pain will pass and you will find love again.
2007-06-27 11:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by 55JD55 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luv?
Love is not a complicated emotion- you can not make it happen, it just does. Sometimes you love people differently.
IN my opinion the only real and true unconditonal love is felt between a mother child.
Sounds like you are in lust-
Get rid of the cheater- You need to get a man who appreciates you.
2007-06-27 16:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by CC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him, or if you two have an open relationship, then talk to him about it.
The once a cheater always a cheater thing is a load of crap, so don't buy into that. Communication is the key to everything, sometimes it's better to move on, and sometimes it's better to fix your particular relationship, it all depends on your relationship, and what you feel is the best thing to do for yourself.
My ex cheated on me, and we stayed together for 2 years after she had cheated, we eventually parted ways but it wasn't because of her cheating, talk and decide what is best for you.
2007-06-27 16:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Eilrama B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't really matter if you love him "HE'S CHEATING" That means he does NOT love you girl...it will heart only for a little while but you have to leave his cheating ***...once this happens trust is broken and your relationship will never be healthy. There is a good man out there for you who will not cheat on you and you will never find him if you stay with this guy. You don't realise it right now but he's not good for you and you need to worry about yourself!
2007-06-27 16:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by chesney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As hard as it seems, the two of you need to break up and let go. He's already run over you once, and he'll do it again. The only way to keep yourself from hurting further and perhaps even teaching him a lesson is to end it.
2007-06-27 16:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by redheader1993 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with him - he is obviously not a very good person, and you deserve better. No matter how much you love him, he obviously does not love you back enough if he is cheating on you like this, and there is nothing worse than being in a relationship with someone who does not love you back - you just end up hating yourself and getting hurt.
2007-06-27 16:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that really hurts, it's not fair that your bf is doing that, but girl if you know he's doing this, why are you still there? you unfortunatley deserve to be treated this way if you allow it to happen time after time..... you are training your self to be weak and be disrespected, this is unacceptable as a woman... you will learn a very hurtful lesson by accepting behavior like this sorry, good luck!
2007-06-27 16:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry for that but how do he behave when he is with you do he show love and care for u ?
can you try to be sure that he is cheating on you ? may be is not but if u sure let him know how you feel about that and he should stop. repeat 3 time .and if still let him know that u will look for some body else .
2007-06-27 16:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by kombora 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with him and move on with your life, If you love someone you'll make them accountable of what they did, says it in the bible. How can someone learn not to do something if you dont show them what is acceptable. Breaking up with him may hurt you in the process, but everyone can move on and it might even good for the next girl who comes along, might not cheat on her because he saw that outcome of what you did when he cheated, that is if you break up with him.
2007-06-27 16:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by ---REBA--- 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow it depends if you still love him tell him that and ask him if he wants you actually give him a choice you or her and if he picks you keep a good eye on him and give him plenty of attention and make sure you know why he cheated on you. But if he picks her just say your loss hope you go to LLEH
2007-06-27 16:02:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋