my boyfriend and i just broke up because he thought that i was cheating on him which i wasn't. but he went through my Sidekick and found pictures of my and my bestfriend (which is a boy) when we were on vacation. and he flipped out.....HELP ME!!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-06-27 09:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by Love Karma™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not the Sidekick that ruined your relationship, it's the immaturity of your ex! You don't go through someones things without their permission and then get made when you find something you don't like!
Sorry, but it sounds like he was looking for an excuse!
2007-06-27 11:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by kimandryan2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a phone won't ruin a relationship, it's insecurities that he has with himself.He went through your phone was a sign that he didn't trust you or he was looking for a reason to break it off with you.On the next relationship you have, try introducing your best friend to him and just set back and see what his reaction is.Maybe your bestfriend and you could double date to show your new boyfriend(relationship partner) that your buddy is nothing more than just a friend, who happens to be a guy.Stay away from the guy's who will try and come between you and your buddies, they're nothing but trouble.As for the other loser he may have had somebody on the side or someone in mind, the guilty dog always barks first.I hope I've helped.
2007-06-27 09:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jesse G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a sidekick and yes, it did bring tons of problems. And the reason for this, is because you cant keep in touch with so many people with tmail, IM, texting, and everything else without having to actually call them. You can send a IM and the other person could respond right away or even minutes later. But for me, my BF got over it. I just stopped being on the SK at all times.
2007-06-27 09:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by SnowWhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity ruins a relationship, not a phone. If that is all he has to go on, then consider it his loss and move on. He obviously has issues if he can't trust you.
However, if you were hanging all over this guy, sitting on his lap, being flirty with him in the photos, then he has reason to maybe question the situation.
In the future, introduce your bfs to your best friend so they know there's no threat. Try and double, if you can.
Good luck.
2007-06-27 09:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Yogi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
soccer>video games>sidekick>gf/bf
My gf thought my kicker was getting in between us. But it was actually just giving me something to do because it was already over between us. She thought that it was the kicker's fault.
And she always thought i was aiming and texting other girls. And?
You should just tell ur bf the guy is your friend and that's it. And your sidekick is more important than he is so live with it.
2007-06-27 09:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by mitchellinho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
phones don't end relationships. insecurity ends relationships. the phone just confirmed what your already insecure boyfriend feared.
he has trust issues and there is nothing you can do to change that. i'm assuming your BF knows about your best friend so i'm assuming your pictures were questionable. and if he didn't know about your best friend, then you sound like you're playing games.
either way, you're screwed.
2007-06-27 09:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go on vacation with other men in the future if you are in a relationship with another man.
2007-06-27 09:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think properly, choose wisely. if u think your boyfriend is worth sacrifices, let loose your sidekick. however you should explain properly to him (both of them) the situation. anyways, dont let the situation get best out of you. you decide.
2007-06-28 14:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by miv farizzet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could, yes. There is a part of the traditional marriage ceremony that ask you to VOW "...and forsaking all others..." and the question is, which person is more important to you, your friend or the person you want a relationship with ... are you will to forsake all others?
2007-06-27 09:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey just go on and move to something else you dnt' need him hes too stupid for you hes changed and do things when hes married and leave you for sure or just live off you go on find someoone knew.
2007-06-30 16:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋