we have offically been together for a month but we've been seeing eachother for 5 months. he says he loves me but we dont spen much time together cause he lives in nj and i live in ny. we text eachother all day and talk sometimes. we dont fight and have no problems other than the distance. so things seem great at the moment but i have met some one else and before i cheat on him i want to end it but dont know what to say when he asks me why. any suggestions without sounding cruel?
2007-06-27 09:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i were u i would just tell him the straight out truth.. Tell him that you cant deal with the distance and that you have met someone and would like to start dating him. He should understand. If not then its his loss.
2007-06-27 09:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by eeyore81283 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hunny- yeahh, you hav a problem! I think your head is saying one thing but your heart is saying another, i dont believe in long-distance relationships, so i would just tell this guy that lives in NJ you cant date him anymore here are some good [not excuses] reasons why
1.You found someone else and ur sry
2.Your parents said no more dating him
3. You dont see eachother quite as much
4.you feel your love for him has broken =[
5. You just dont feel chemistry ne more
Hope this helps!
2007-06-27 09:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Happy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean! When your breaking up with him, you should say, Your really nice and sweet. But we never get to see each other. And this whole long distance thing just isn't working out for me. I hope we can stay friends. I know it sounds like any other breakup! But its not to cruel! But if you kinda want him to know that I don't realy like him anymore. Like not at all then you should try saying, I just don't see us going anywere anymore! And I kinda found someone else. We can still take tho. And I still like you as a friend.
2007-06-28 17:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by -♥- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire you for admitting your feeling for someone else and before doing anything about it you are going to end your relationship with your current parent that in its self its great. I would just be honest that the distance is a very big issue and that you have feelings for someone else to me honesty is the best policy.
2007-06-27 09:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by winner2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you have a hard time dealing with the distance between the two of you and that you think its best that you end the relationship.
2007-06-27 09:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by priceless_beauty69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that the distance is a difficult thing for you to overcome, and as hard as you have tried, it's just not working out. Assure him that you care for him, but you need someone that can be there for you when you need them, not miles and miles away. Surely he would understand... of course his feelings will be hurt, but he should understand.
2007-06-27 09:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jenitelya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him with the distance between you and him, it is best that you end the relationship.
2007-06-27 09:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your already cheated on him when you said you met someone else other than that guy in nj....you are a slut.
2007-06-27 09:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenny, Just be honest long distance relationships do not work !The sooner you do it the easier it will be !
2007-06-27 09:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him its not working out 4u ..... let him know that its not about him and u dont want to do nethng tat u would regret or that would hurt him and it would be best if u split up. dont say lets just b friends b/c guys apparnetly hate that...good luck
2007-06-27 09:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by LOV 4 EVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋