Why do i make the same mistakes over and over again? i try so hard to stay clear of things that will hurt me,but for some reason im drawn to the pain...also,this is a really hard question to categorize!
2007-06-27 23:18:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Low will power
2007-06-27 23:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, Kate. Let's generalize your query.
You're not really drawn to the pain. Nobody wants to wallow in pain all his/her life. It's just that right now, you are stumbling over and over again, doing (you were saying) the same mistakes again and again. But have you really tried dealing with it, as in, sitting down, gathering your thoughts, and thinking where this might be starting? Maybe getting in touch with your emotions would help. Remember, you don't have to stay in that situation all your life. You don't always have to hurt. Life is good and it's waiting for you.
Getting a few golden pieces of advice from your friends could also help you big time. Seek counseling (but that's already far out) but really, just dig deeper into your heart, into your emotions. Maybe after all, you have all the answers you need.
:-)
2007-06-27 23:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Trying To Help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i make the same mistakes over and over too (but not aas much anymore). its hard not to. what i do is carry a planner around and write everything i do or i need to do. then just when the same thing will happen again remind urself of those things
2007-06-27 23:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are relying on the same people and things in your life. if you keep making the same cake with the same mix and never vary the ingredients you will end up with the same result. if something continually doesnt work in your life, change it. real simple.
2007-06-27 23:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get hurt it is not your fault and you did nothing wrong. i know how you fell and if you want to talk more about this my email is nicholsont2006@yahoo.com
2007-06-27 23:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by navy girl 07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try reading Louise Hays' You can heal your life
2007-06-27 23:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the punishment maybe? you havent learned your lesson obvioulsy.............and perhaps deep down you enjoy being hurt. ............only you know
2007-06-27 23:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by thoosa22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋