2007-06-27 23:26:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lucid Dream Weaver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does she like to screw.....A LOT?
2007-06-27 23:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by ferris2001mt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that depends entirely on what things you are looking for. Someone to party your days with? A homemaker? If you are close to getting married then you should be able to see if she can fulfil everything you expected your marriage would be one day. It's all good and well to be able to get along before marriage but after kids everything changes. Priorities change, the kids take up so much time, is she the type of girl that has enough energy to include your needs in the picture or is she the lazy type who is likely to use the kids as an excuse for everything? All the little issues will matter at some point, right down to whether she keeps a clean house and cooks a meal, may not be important now but when kids come along and money is tight, will she be able to feed you all on a strict budget? and keep a smile on her face because funds are tight? Or is she the type to complain about lack of funds enough you feel the need for a second job to keep up with her. Is she high maintenance now? does she NEED the latest fashions and makeup even though she can't really afford it? Does she put the wants ahead of the needs before marriage? Does she put herself 1st? How do you see her as a mother? Does she get on well with your friends and family? Look at what's important to you THEN go through them with yourself and even talk to her if you are unsure of some things. You should also look at yourself and whether or not you can happily fulfil what she expects of you, because her ideals of marriage will be important to her too ... and that's why it's so important to really know who you are marrying, not get a year down the track to find when it comes to the nitty gritty of everyday living, you are living with a complete stranger.
Oh yes and sex WILL be important! If you are young the older you get, the more you are likely to want experiment and sex will become more than just getting off so if you can't openly discuss your sexual needs then that is going to be a problem at some stage.
2007-06-28 07:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shazela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get married you should make sure that you can live with them. You never really know someone until you live with them. There shouldn't be any indicators. If you two are at the point of marriage than all doubt and trust issues should be gone. You should never go looking for problems in a relationship!
2007-06-28 06:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Reason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad thing is you don't know someone until you live with them so make sure that they are your friend . Love can last forever but as you stay in a good marriage there are many stages of love so some good indicators are liking alot of the same things,enjoying ones company,trust and understanding. Remember no one is perfect so be able to forgive,
2007-06-28 06:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by snowflake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest indicator are the parents,the parents are an older version of the person your thinking about marring. Another is the people they surround themselves with. If you take a good long look at the two you will be able to judge what kind of person they are and will become.
2007-06-28 06:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the most important "indicator" is trust and most of all respect. If you can truly say that you have those feelings towards your potential mate, then you have the proper ingredients to have love.
Marriage takes work...everyday. If you are willing to give it your all, everyday, then you indeed can have a successful marriage. Marriage is all about not sweating the small stuff. Important in marriage, as well as life...
2007-06-28 06:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by HeatherM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many indicators to look out for, but thye best is to look out for true love which is above every other indicator. Goodluck.
2007-06-28 06:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by ebiyedinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any needle tracks on any part of the body? Any type of discharge from the genitalia? Any consistent facial or body spasms? Any head trauma?
2007-06-28 07:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by toocoolsnoopy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good indicator is their past, and how they treated others they had relationships with. are they caring, and non judge mental? can they hold a job? good work ethics. honesty, integrity, compassion, belief in god.
2007-06-28 06:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's like how long do you know each other? what are your future plans? do they match? what's your opinion about family? how many sex partners did you have prior to this relationship? what's the major medical problems in each family? how many quarrels did you have so far? how were they resolved? do you keep secrets from him?/from her? how many hours do you spend together? what are your dislikes?/ what do you fancy? do both ofyou know how to keep a house tight? i don't want to keep on i think your question can only be answered by knowing yourself get to know your partner very well then you know when it's time to plan your wedding..
2007-06-28 06:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are they wanted for murder?
Is her nickname the blackwidow?
does he have to use illegal drugs to get out of bed in morning?
Can you only visit only on weekends in the visitors room?
2007-06-28 07:04:38 · answer #11 · answered by Fugitive Peices 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋