Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

surely i need her, tell me safe ways to have sex with her.which i must do any way!

2007-06-29 02:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what it is, but ever since I've never had a boyfriend. And when I was 19, only the ugly guys ( or I mean guys who weren't my type) came after me. What do you think it is?

I don't think it's my personality? could it be? I'm not mean to anyone? At least not on purpose.

Would you like me or think I was cute if I was in your class?

-Asian (filipino)
-dark hair and eyes
-5'2
-slim

etc.

I'm just an ordinary pacific islander person or asian, whatever. So what do you think? I know that most of it may deal with the person's personality, but.....

just on the physical aspects of me. Would you date me? If at all ?

2007-06-29 02:02:58 · 16 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband came home the other day saying he does not want to be married anymore, ( I had no idea anything was wrong) we are trying to work on things and I realize I was not "honoring" him the way the Bible says and I'm trying to change. But he still says he does not feel love for me anymore, I'm praying like crazy the love will return(we both are) but does anyone have any tips or advice. He wants me sexually but he just does not have "Love" in his heart for me anymore. Any help is appreciated.

2007-06-29 01:56:49 · 15 answers · asked by p_a_m_i_e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he buys me whatever i want and is super respectful and nice to me... but i dont feel the same for him. He's a great guy and he has a good job and is very faithful and respectful, but i try to give him chances but im never satisfied. I often find myself talking to other guys and flirting with bad boys... (im not a hoe i swear) i've never cheated on him but i dont want to keep lieing to myself and to him about the way i really feel... what should i do????? PLEASE HELP ME.....

2007-06-29 01:53:49 · 11 answers · asked by •˚*Crystal*˚• 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 01:50:35 · 26 answers · asked by Barbara M 1 in Weddings

That it's sexy when women paint their toenails.

2007-06-29 01:47:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To make a long story short.. Approximately four years ago I divorced my husband when our son was just a few months old.. He has a horrible anger management problem, he is a stoner, and was verbally abusive and extremely controlling.. Therefore I left him.. Our divorce was aweful.. We have joint custody with me having primary custody and my son lives with me in NY and the ex lives in FL. I get crap for child support and he hates me horribly for leaving... After about 3 years of being divorced.. and my stupidity , thinking he changed and for the sake of our son.. decided to try the relationship again. Things have been good for about a year now and have gotten myself pregnant again with his child. Well the last time he came to visit, long distance, he said some horrible things, i got upset and he left without saying goodbye.. He's still very abusive and I have not been returning his calls.. He is already threatening again to take the kids from me? Do I call a lawyer, be pro-active?

2007-06-29 01:45:40 · 22 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 01:42:59 · 15 answers · asked by lillyleaper 2 in Singles & Dating

We are collegues one year now and the last 7 months we have romantic relationships. But he is seeing another woman one and a half year now and they are living together. I am in love and he says he is too. i 'm waiting for him to take a decision as he has already promised me.should I wait for him to decide or is this delay already an answer that he is not feeling the same?

2007-06-29 01:42:08 · 10 answers · asked by Thanos S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I met this girl last week at a party....(we were sober)...we talked danced...kissed..and talked some more all night until 6 in the morning....we even passed out together on the floor. So then this past tuesday comes along we have been talking a bit not much tho and she asks to go out so we go on our first date. Dates over were in front of her house we kiss for a while, she tells me she had fun with me.....she leaves and i said call me? and she said of course.....so Wednesday and Thursday come along I called her once each day and sent 2 texts just seeing what was up with her.....no replies. Its now friday, im throwing a party and she said she would be coming but yet I havent talked to her in 2 whole days and shes the only guest I really want to see there. She also works 2 jobs so i dont know if shes just real real tired and cant talk at all. But its been 2 whole days and no answer. And I kno shes gotten my messages but yet she hasn't replied back. So whats going on with this girl?

2007-06-29 01:40:43 · 13 answers · asked by datdude1415 1 in Singles & Dating

Please read the question I've posted before this, just so you'll have a clearer picture on my situation..
This guy Johnny,as you may already know,he took (my kinda ex boyfriend)Nathan's number from my cell and called him to make things right.Johnny knew about the 11 times I've tried calling Nathan and he didn't answer, so Johnny decided to call him using his cell instead.
He explained the whole situation,emphasizing that he kissed me only cuz he wanted Nathan to feel the jealousy I felt.
And after that, Nathan called me and said rudely, "You and your hottie can go making out anywhere..Just don't call me ever again!"
But what right does he have when he was with another girl at the mall, being all intimate with her, then shouting at me for doing the same.. I mean, I wouldn't have done it if I wasn't so jealous, or if Johnny hadn't gotten that idea in my head in the first place..Should I just forget about Nathan? I'm having mixed feelings abt Johnny and Nathan right now..Help me pls?

2007-06-29 01:36:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I have been together for 3 years in July and he has been promising to marry me since the birth of my son. We were residing at his mother's house and when he got aggravated he sent us back to my mother's but he always wanted us him.... well thats what he told us. Whenever something comes up about a car we get put to the this side. Now since we reside together and have 2 children, he keep sayin he wants his own place but he wants to get married still. I don't know what else to do I do everything that I possibly can and it seems as if he still not happy..... What do I do any suggestions?

2007-06-29 01:35:01 · 5 answers · asked by Latisa H 3 in Family

I am hiring a personal trainer, getting braces, and getting this lazer thing where they lazer off my birthmarks. I want to ask this girl out after I lose my weight and all this happens. But how do I do it? What do you girls like if being asked out. What should I say. And I know be myself.

2007-06-29 01:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 01:28:45 · 22 answers · asked by sassy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

marriage and settlling down she is a bit on the silly side, and got pregnant and had an abortion, and has been through a rough time. why does she believe all the crap they say, she has been let down eough as it is
she says to me i wont be lonely anymore i have a man, i feel a bit angry how she has been treated to be honest she only wanted a bit of love why on earth do men lie

2007-06-29 01:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by hairy armpits 2 in Singles & Dating

im 18 and male. what are some great places to pick up girls aside from clubs or bars? what are some surefire approaches to get a girls number? what are surefire ways to tell when a girl is flirting with you?

2007-06-29 01:28:31 · 1 answers · asked by yahooanswers23 1 in Singles & Dating

Poisonous gossip, naysayers, negative comments about him,
advice that you should you leave him, would you put up with that indefinitely or would you give the people saying these things about your lifetime-love, a good strong right hook or a mouthful ?

2007-06-29 01:26:57 · 10 answers · asked by Latin Techie 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-29 01:21:32 · 18 answers · asked by paraordinate 2 in Weddings

it's hard to define what sort of relationship this is. some say that you have mutual feelings for each other but you're not really committed to each other or you're not really officially can be called a couple. so what is this?

2007-06-29 01:19:14 · 3 answers · asked by the lioness 4 in Singles & Dating

Is there a way to prevent spouse from getting retirement money during a divorce? Can it be rolled over into someone elses name or to another account to secure it?

2007-06-29 01:17:16 · 8 answers · asked by DT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the girl i like in the supermarket. well iwas going to ask her out today and because we got seperated breaks and stuff i never got a chance till the end of the shift then when it came to the end of shift i didnt ask her coz my 2 bosses were in the same room as her and i kinda bottled it was i right to not ask infront of my bosses and wait till sunday toa sk or should i have asked her there and then

2007-06-29 01:15:47 · 18 answers · asked by GG 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend. At our very core, we share an intimate connection and core values that are what I believe make a marriage and friendship endure. BUT LATELY, we can't seem to get along. The stress of buying a house together, how much I travel for work, planning a vacation, even the simplest things seem to erupt into arguments that leaves him questioning whether we approach the world too differently to be together. We are six years apart and so in different stages of our life and career. We share the same long-term goals and even want the same things from day-to-day life, but somehow we are both unhappy. Neither one of us wants to give up on the relationship. He has asked my parents to marry me, bought the engagement ring. But what do I do? Do I walk away from something I know is worth so much and rare in this world, just so that life can be easier today? And also, the fights have led to us saying so many things we don't mean. How do we heal the hurt we've caused?

2007-06-29 01:15:25 · 14 answers · asked by lauraliz 1 in Singles & Dating

My MIL is nearly an invalid, my FIL has just had a hernia operation and is bi-polar but won't take medication. I have been married for 24 yrs and I have never felt that I was ever good enough for MIL's son and our children have been virtually ignored. I got over this 10yrs ago. I told my husband 10yrs ago that I would not look after his parents if they ever needed carers. I told him 2 nights ago the same thing. I told him I was being honest and could not cope with caring for them. I just can't do it, I'm just not that sort of person. So his sisters told him we had to look after them this weekend. I blasted his sister for not asking me and then told her that I couldn't do it at all, after this weekend. I thought being honest my husband would understand, but he just thinks I should care for them as they are family. We have had a huge argument with me losing it and screaming at him that I just can't cope with being a carer. I feel his loyalty to his parents always comes before me.

2007-06-29 01:08:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-29 01:06:53 · 10 answers · asked by carol r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just broke up with my girlfriend about 14hrs ago , read my other questions , she has joined a dating site in this time and has been emailing other people , she used my hotmail account to set it up and it has made me feel sick , read my other question to get a better understanding about whats happened between us , how can she be so quick to do something like this its heartbreaking , help me , i need words of wisdom ?

2007-06-29 00:58:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not live near my friend, so when I/we stay with them (or them with us) we always go everywhere together and the little girls parents are always around to keep her in check. I think she has come to see me more as someone to play with than someone who can tell her what to do, and I think she will try to play me up if she gets bored. Please give me lots of tips to keep her occupied, and tips on making sure she listens to me if I need to tell her to do something. She has a strong personality, and I'm not sure she will be happy about being told what to do by me after all these years! I want her to have fun, but I also need tips on changing the dynamic between us without confrontation.

2007-06-29 00:57:10 · 9 answers · asked by Copper 4 in Friends

our neighbor have 21 yrs old son and he is friend with my 12 yrs old brother.my brother like the guy either and spend hes free time with him.do u think its normal?

2007-06-29 00:54:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this one girl.

2007-06-29 00:52:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married for 5 years and we ahve a 3 year old son. I recently found out that im 5 weeks pregnant and when i told him he wanted an abortion straight away. i refused as i had another abortion for him less than a year ago. It seems the pill doesnt work well for me because i tried it twice and it keeps failing me. I had a pregnancy scare 3 days ago and it was only then that he started to come around. I was thrilled and looking forward to the birth but this morning he said all financial responsibilty ends up on his shoulders. I dont think this is fair because i work and i pay the bills and take care of the groceries. all he has to do is pay the rent. he then said im useless. i dont know why he wants to make me feel worthless. he is not violent but verbally abusive and i cant take anymore of this because of the baby. Please tell me what to do because he is making me resent him so much.

2007-06-29 00:48:23 · 30 answers · asked by milly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I married(arranged) to a girl before two months.First two months we were very happy. I never got a bit doubt on her. She used to take care of me a lot. She was very happy and very close to me in all situations. But one day i saw her chatting with a guy on net and i found that he was her X-boy friend. I got to know that before marriage they behaved like wife and husband by looking at their mails and chats. This chat is continuing after marriage also. I saw in a chat, which they did after marriage that he asking her to come out to have fun and she said she will try to come with out knowing to me. She was telling him that she cannot forget him,she missing him. After all this i couldn't control and complained to her parents and i told them that i cant be with a girl like this. Now my wife and her parents begging me not to do like this. And even my wife begging me now that she never contact him again. Can i trust her? Plz advice me. I am unable to concentrate on a'thng. What to do ??

2007-06-29 00:43:32 · 19 answers · asked by black s 1 in Marriage & Divorce