Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

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2007-06-29 05:24:56 · 41 answers · asked by indrakeerthi 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if your love show these tendencies? Do you find it attractive or unattractive? Have you asked him to change? I'm curious how this affects your relationship with him?

2007-06-29 05:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-29 05:24:20 · 7 answers · asked by nikki w 1 in Friends

What does it mean when you are at a guy's house (don't know him that well) and it's like a studio and the only thing he has separating his toilet is one of those japanese rice paper screens, and he goes pee so of course I can hear it and he keeps talking to me while he is peeing?

PS I'm a female.

2007-06-29 05:23:35 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just need someone that tries harder. Hes a great guy to be around but he has no job, car in shop and smoke erbs all day. I just cant do it anymore. Please help.

2007-06-29 05:05:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this Guy"Friend" i have known for my whole life! And we have been dating for the last week.I know he loves me and he has text me and said it but why woun't he say it in person??

2007-06-29 05:00:22 · 42 answers · asked by ღ̣♥ E && A ♥ღ̣ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 04:59:27 · 44 answers · asked by Serengetti 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 04:49:40 · 22 answers · asked by jam m 2 in Singles & Dating

my cousin is only fifteen and she has a kid and shes been getting on my nerves i understand shes a young mother but she wont shut up or leave me alone about her kid saying if i can take care of it over the weekends while she goes partieing with her friends so what should i do?

2007-06-29 04:49:25 · 4 answers · asked by Aisa T 1 in Family

I've decided I make a terrible girlfriend. I've just recently returned to the dating scene after a long, long hiatus. I'm not used to having a boyfriend.

Here's the thing, with everything that's been going on in my own life the past couple weeks, I forgot my boyfriend's birthday was Tuesday. It was a big one too. He just turned 40. I only remembered it as I was coming in to work this morning.

Does anyone have any suggestions of things I could do this weekend that would completely make up for me being a complete idiot?

2007-06-29 04:49:06 · 3 answers · asked by Erin 7 in Singles & Dating

i am single

2007-06-29 04:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by ☼emmababy☼ 4 in Friends

Okay my best friends parents divorced; and her dad has horrible anger problems. One time she told me she said whatever to her dad and he freaked out when they got in the car he slapped her pulled her hair cussed at her and said "I hate you ,you are a mistake I wish you were dead." Thats not right! she cryed so hard talkin about it. i dont know what to do. She said he is a really nice guy until he gets mad. I think she scared because she loves him and she doesnt want him in trouble. one of her friends said they were going to report it if she didnt b/c just one thing could set him off and that could be the end.. what do i do? She doest have to go over there ... but until she goes to court she does. please someone help me. there has been more times then this.. but she wants time to think of what to do...

2007-06-29 04:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by emily w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that when ever we have sex with a girl they always cover up after, I mean we know what they look like and we seen them before, during, and after? Us guys just get up stil naked and we are not shy! DO you girls still cover up after??

2007-06-29 04:43:14 · 4 answers · asked by mickey_112404 4 in Singles & Dating

I asked a online company to see me for an appointment
to measure me and make a wedding dress for me.

They have a very good reputation on ebay (nearly 99%
positive feedback) and a professional website. When I spoke with
them on the phone they were courteous and very helpful.

They were nice at the appointment, flexible with the time
and date, did'nt complain when I was late and so on.

Having completed my wedding dress on time, they sent
it to me in secure packaging. But it is an inch too big on both
sides, also two inches too long.

Their prices are competitive because they don't have a shop...I have
to say the dress is lovely but when I told them it was too big and too
long they said it had been made to the measurements provided, and
would not pay for alterations.

They went on to say that if, and only if it was their genuine mistake they
would pay for alterations, even though their policy states they do not pay
for alterations.

Is it fair for them to ask me to pay for alterations, or am I being unreasonable...
I know a bridal store would have charged
me much much more for the dress I would have had to wait longer, also charge me for
alterations, so I feel bad asking them to do more for me.

I want my dress to be perfect, but don't want to pay for alterations
(or rather my fiance does'nt!!). And I don't want to dis this company, who are a husband
and wife team and seem really good. Weddings are SOOOOO stressful!!

So what can I do?

2007-06-29 04:43:09 · 56 answers · asked by Rachel_Louise33 2 in Weddings

Ok i have a bit of a problem, i am bi-curious and my boyf has alwaysliked the idea of a threesome. At first, iwas like"no way!!" but now i know that our relationship is strong and it could withstand anything(weve been thru alot lately), i would actually quite like to try new things. My problem is that how do you go about organising it? see my quandry is that if you do it with a mate-will it be too weird, where as if you do it with sum1 you know vaguely, well, that has it obvious faults... what do you
reckon? please dont answer just to preach at me cos i have thouroughly thought this thru , i want suggestions only! cheers x

2007-06-29 04:43:05 · 31 answers · asked by gemba253 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my fiance have been engaged for about a year and a few months and its just not working out it doesn't feel the same anymore i do love him i am just confused right now nd don't know what to do please help

2007-06-29 04:41:57 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Singles & Dating

We just got into a fight, he tells me that he will say it when he feels like it. What should I do? I don't want to be wit if he says that or even thinks that when b4 he use to say it alot to me. Does he not like me anymore?

2007-06-29 04:40:44 · 27 answers · asked by :) 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help! My soon to be ex and I are trying to get divorced without lawyers (amicably). We have to children and I have the kids about 70% of the time. We make the same amount of money, married for 5+ years, live in California. He currently gives me $850 a month. I do not get anything more. He kept the house (I signed it off to him). He said I shouldn't claim BOTH children on taxes but my argument is that I raise the kids majority of the time plus he is a home owner and benefits from that. He also said that I shouldn't be asking for alimony or his retirement (which is fine because I have my own 401k) Question: I really don't want to use lawyers ($$$), can anyone clearly state what I AM eligible for? Am I ripping him off or visa versa? THANK YOU THANK YOU!

2007-06-29 04:37:15 · 7 answers · asked by Aunt Andy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you date a guy who chews tobacco, on the condition he didn't do so in your presence? i know chicks think it's nasty, but i play hockey and can't smoke, so i need to get my fix somehow.

-slave to the nicotine

2007-06-29 04:37:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine wants to have 150 people at her wedding, but has to pay it herself so there really isn't much money. She's disappointed, I'm making her be realistic and not so sentimental about it all, but nonetheless - When you really want to have wedding with 150 people involved, then what would you do to chop costs down to bare minimum? She's making her own wedding gown, and there are several people willing to make things.

What are some inexpensive ideas you've seen done that help make a low-budget wedding not look cheap? Anything that we should avoid doing, that seem way too tacky?

Thank you!

2007-06-29 04:36:06 · 22 answers · asked by dryta_ld 2 in Weddings

what should i do to get a new scooty from my parents

2007-06-29 04:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Here are two senerios: the guy who instantly clicked and the physical side was amazing..but the emotional side was awful. Then you have the guy that the emotional side is good, stable and loving but the physical side is not so stellar. What is more important to have long term? And why can't you have both?

2007-06-29 04:31:00 · 17 answers · asked by nifer_101 1 in Singles & Dating

I have trouble distinguishing friendship from interest. Ive almost hooked up with 3 of my friends when drunk

but last friday a friend of mine was like this:
after hugging me she held on to my forearms and just looks up at me and stares
texts me continuously
came 2 hours to visit me at work

on saturday she:
asked me to go to a party/dance with her
asked me to go to the bathroom with her
held my hand when we walked to the car

is coming 2 hrs to visit me at work again today

but she:
didnt want me to drive her home last sat
stayed with a guy friend because she was drunk and couldnt drive home
even tho shes visiting me we havent talked all week except monday and yesterday

do these signs entail wanting a kiss/relationship or just really close friendship?

2007-06-29 04:30:23 · 8 answers · asked by jcjunkact 4 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to a friend who in the same breath as telling me that he was paying off his (very nice) house (among other purchases), told me that I should consider moving into a smaller place (I rent a 2 bedroom) as it is more than I can afford/need. (I can afford it, btw, within a strict budget.) I just found that so hurtful!!

2007-06-29 04:30:06 · 27 answers · asked by rhiannon2797 3 in Friends

2007-06-29 04:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i just had a baby together and right now we're staying together. However, I've started developing a guilty conscience on how we're living in sin, so i started praying to God about the matter. I approached my boyfriend about it and we've previously talked about marriage even before the baby(unplanned pregnancy) and he's wanting to wait to get married. I told him that our lease is up in Nov. and before moving in together again I want us to do what's right in God's eyes and have his blessing w/ in the marriage arrangement. I expressed it to him just like this. So i told him that either we get married before moving in together again or we're going to have live separately and we can get married until he's ready. He's doesnt seem too fond of that idea because i sense that he has a bad attitude around me(making me feel very uncomfortable around him)and he's been kind of distant emotionally. I love him very much but i love God even more. What do you think?

2007-06-29 04:08:46 · 8 answers · asked by Rona 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is a person and a very banal woman. She has brought Jesus Christ into our lives, and for that I am moderately grateful.

I feel that Jesus has given me permission to see this Koren temptress, so that is why I have gone ahead with this relationship. I make her into a better woman, and it's something I'm proud of.

I know that I can't make my wife an Asian, or I can't make her lose 5 inches off of her height, but are there other things I can tell her to act more Korean? Without letting her in on my secret pact with Jesus Christ?

2007-06-29 04:08:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My biological father walked out on my mother and I when I was 3 years old. He is trying to contact me after all these years. This man has been in and out of prison and I am not sure if I can let him walk back into my life like he didn't hurt me. Anyone who has been in this kind of sitution please give me some advise.

2007-06-29 04:02:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-29 03:59:54 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i can't let go, and neither can my ex. we talk contstantly via email and txt.. and have for about the 4 years since he got married. we meet occassionally and things happen, my family hates him but i love him and can't live without him.. now what? my husband is the best, and he loves me..but i don't feel the passion for him that i feel for my ex.

2007-06-29 03:56:29 · 22 answers · asked by sumgirlIN 2 in Marriage & Divorce