We just got into a fight, he tells me that he will say it when he feels like it. What should I do? I don't want to be wit if he says that or even thinks that when b4 he use to say it alot to me. Does he not like me anymore?
2007-06-29 04:40:44 · 27 answers · asked by :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-06-29 04:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Scooby Doo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you can't force a horse to drink water, you can only lead it to the water source. He probably has his own reasons for not wanting to say it anymore....but fighting him about it is not gonna solve anything. I hate to say it but it is possible that he doesn't feel the same way. But then again, he could simply be going through a patch in his life. You need to find a different approach to it. More over, you can tell best if a person loves you by what he does and not by whether or not he says the words.
2007-06-29 11:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by LadyScorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people toss the word "love" around as if it has no value. Hearing it from someone who obviously gives it some weight means much more than it does hearing it from someone who uses the word 40 times a day. He's not feeling it right now -- look for the reason why he's not feeling it right now. When the problem is fixed, he'll say it again and it will mean a lot because you know he MEANS it.
2007-06-29 11:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be tough for a guy to say it even when he wants to and feels it. It doesn't mean he has fallen out of love with you. If you just got into a fight he may still be mad at you so let it blow over.
2007-06-29 11:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the way you spell I would assume you are about 10 years old. That being the case you are too young to worry about love and life. By the way.... you cannot force someone to say "I LOVE YOU". The more it is said, the less meaning it has. If he loves you, he will tell you when the moment is right.
2007-06-29 11:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by carswoody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? I'd consider dumping him. He is obviously inconsiderate of your feelings. What you see is probably what you get. If he won't say it now, he likely never will unless you make him, and you don't want a guy that has to be made to express his love for you. Sounds to me like he doesn't take your relationship seriously. Tell him how you feel. If you don't like what he says, then let him go. You can do better. Good luck!
2007-06-29 11:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not just talk to him? "You used to say you loved me all the time, but now I notice you don't say it anymore. Have your feelings about me changed?"
2007-06-29 11:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try explaining your feelings to him, calmly, tell him that you just want him to listen to you and not respond.
then refrain from telling him that you love him.
bide your time and see what happens, continue with your relationship as if nothing had happened, he'll soon tell you how he feels, and if he doesn't, then at least you're not putting your feelings out there to be stepped on.
you'll be fine chick x
2007-06-29 11:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Missfit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure him.Allow him to take his time!
When I argue with mine he does the same for a few days.
The men that say it hard(I love you) are the ones to feel it.
He might think you are desperate and push you away
2007-06-29 11:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by AlinutaUK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being extremely immature ... but i dont think you are reacting in the best way by arguing about it, because that is exactly what he wants... he likes seeing you being all needy over him. Dont do it, you're better than that! Dump him and tell him its because you can EASILY find someone that adores you and will tell you it everyday without prompting! See how he likes those apples :)
2007-06-29 11:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by peachesandcream 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋