my cousin is only fifteen and she has a kid and shes been getting on my nerves i understand shes a young mother but she wont shut up or leave me alone about her kid saying if i can take care of it over the weekends while she goes partieing with her friends so what should i do?
2007-06-29 04:49:25 · 4 answers · asked by Aisa T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just say no, & leave her alone why did she have a baby if she can't take care of it
2007-06-29 04:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let your cousin make you feel guilty over this issue. Her child is her responsibility, not yours. And partying isn't as important as taking good care of your family no matter what your age is. However, if you feel up to it you might take pity on her and sit once in a while. You might find if you agree to sit 1 day every other month (or some such schedule) she'll lay off for the other times. However, I'd include your payment in the agreement.
2007-06-29 12:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Critter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt do it , the baby is her responsibility and she got herself into that mess. I would tell her that you can babysit sometimes but give her a limit like once a month for one day so that will make her have to choose when. It is sad that she has a kid at a young age but it is her responsibility.
oh btw did you receive the email i sent you back?
2007-06-29 17:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remind your cousin of the consequences of having a child at such a young age, that sould help you somewhat.
2007-06-29 11:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋