Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

My wife told me that she lost her virginity to me on our wedding day. Seven months later I found out that I have an STD. Come to find out, she gave it up to a family friend after getting drunk at her Bachelorette party. Now I'm going to have lifelong problems and on top of that my trust in her isn't what it was before. What should I do?

2007-06-29 03:53:49 · 40 answers · asked by Johnny Boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have a fat girl with a pretty face, or a skinny girl with an ugly face?

2007-06-29 03:52:31 · 2 answers · asked by KRYSTL 6 in Singles & Dating

Kinda tired when you are really nice and you wouldnt hurt the other one for anything in the world,,,, but being this way does have its huge disadvantage in the modern world, esspecially in love, ppl can use u for money,sex,emotional support, and you are there just like a stepping stone for them to carry on with their life without worrying a damn thing about what you think,,,,,,, Well im one of the person,, and im thinking right now that perhaps i should let experiance change me instead of being a nice guy,,,,,sometimes i do think being a player is not a bad thing after all, i mean women do want sex and all and maybe i should just let her work out her emotions instead of me trying to protect her from emotional scar and in the end feel like an idiot because its not appriciated or worse being called an a*s for being nice,,,,, What you think ? have you ever had this kinda experiance before ?

2007-06-29 03:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is married to a girl in boston and he is in the army in iraq, see he wants a divorce and to come back home but his wife wants to follow him where he goes because she doesnt want except that there over problem is she wants to stay with me when she come down. my best friend told me to tell her not come down and tell her she cant stay with me, she hasnt done anything to me and my wife so should i respect my best friend wishes and if i do how do i tell her he doesnt want her with us or should i just let her come and just stay distant?

2007-06-29 03:48:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is really crazy but here goes, my sister is a virgin and she wants me to break her in all the guys think shes hot shou ld i even consider it

2007-06-29 03:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by sslick01 1 in Family

IT IS REALLY IMPORTANT DAT I FIND HIM. HE IS BROWN SKIN AND GOES 2 GEORGIA TECH. HE IS 22 AND MAYB LIVE AT JONESBORO OR ATLANTA. he is 5'10 or 5'11. he is in LAW.I TRY EVERY SITE BUT STILL CANT FIND HIM. PLEASE HELP ME OUT CAUSE HE HAS A CHILD AND IS NOT PART OF HIS LIFE. I WANT MY BABY 2 HAVE A FATHER.PLEASE HELP IF U FIND ANY SMALL INFORMATION PLEASE GET BACK AT ME ASAP.
THANK YOU.

2007-06-29 03:47:39 · 9 answers · asked by GAWA 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I will be paying for it ourselves, our parents will probably be taking care of small things, like the flowers and cake, but most likely we'll be paying for most of it. Anyways, I know the number will vary quite a bit, but about how much should we expect to pay for everything, wedding, reception, the whole yards for a 150-200 person wedding?

2007-06-29 03:46:36 · 22 answers · asked by meg 2 in Weddings

2007-06-29 03:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is going sound really stupid to some of you, but I wonder how much my g/f is interested in me.
She came by my house this morning to pick something up.
I thought she was going to call, but she caught me in a t-shirt and underwear.
When I see her in just a t-shirt and panties, it really turns me on. I can't keep my hands off of her.
She just laughed at me for catching me off guard and commented on my bed head when she was getting what she came for.
Sometimes I wonder if she has lost interest in me. I love how she looks when she first gets up b/c that's the real her and she still looks great.
She was kidding around with me so she wasn't in a bad mood, but didn't act like she wanted to touch or have any contact w/ me either.
So does she not feel turned on by me or even turned off by my appearance or am I being silly even worrying about it

2007-06-29 03:44:41 · 15 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Singles & Dating

tierd of people asking about themselves? having girls or even guys coming up to you..am i fat? does my butt look big? is my hair nice? do you think i'm thin? do you think i'm pretty? do you think i'm popular? it gets pretty annoying. i have tons of people who are like that at my school. i want to tell them to shut up and go away, and i don't want to answer them...what should i do? becuase telling people to shut up and go away is a very hard thing for me to do. help me

2007-06-29 03:37:53 · 8 answers · asked by Paradise 1 in Friends

I have been with the same guy for 6 years he has done some time in jail and everytime it gets harder and harder we have two kids and i want him to be apart of thier lives and i would also like to have one more (with him) but he hasn't been a really good influance in my life or that great of a father he keeps telling me he will change (but past experance hasn't proven that to be true) i love him so much and am feeling bad for even thinking about giving up! and i'm scared cause I don't think i will ever find someone that will love me and accept his kids and love them the way i do!? HELP

2007-06-29 03:36:34 · 5 answers · asked by It's ME surprise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please suggest me some matter to be added with the scanned wedding card to email it to my friends.

2007-06-29 03:32:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband cheated on me. Left me in quite a financial mess. I am working my butt off. I am so frustrated. I want to get revenge for all the sh*t he has put me through emotionally and mentally. Any good suggestions? Something sophisticated that will really hurt.
I am not a bunny boiler but I would like him to just feel half as bad as I do.

2007-06-29 03:32:24 · 37 answers · asked by Laila 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm planning on having just my 2 sisters and my boyf sister in my party. I would pick one my sisters as maid of honor but i dont want to hurt the other ones feelings. I was thinking of just having them. My boyf wants his dad, his friend and my brother in the wedding too. But he wants his dad to be his best man. Does this mean I need to pick a maid of honor? I was thinking just having the 6 of them with no best man or maid of honor.

2007-06-29 03:29:04 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My exboyfriend dated me for 2 years, then dumped me for another. Now he's saying he wants me back, he never should have left me, he wants to treat me right, etc. We've talked on the phone for 3 weeks now. He cannot commit to a date, he says he will "call right back" and then never does till the next day. If I call him on his bad behavior, he simply becomes defensive and mean. I thought I loved him, but this inconsistency is killing my feelings. I know you will tell me to talk to him, but I did that in the past and he always blames me and yells if I dare to question his so-called busy schedule. Could it be that he is truly busy, SO busy that he can't call at bedtime or meet up, or would any intelligent woman with a brain feel a bit used as a rebound? I don't want to be demanding. I want to love him, I honestly do, and he has said in the past that I have a mental disorder because I want him to say what he means and mean what he says. Help.

2007-06-29 03:26:56 · 9 answers · asked by Sassie 6 in Singles & Dating

hi i want to make my frends notise im pritty i meen i think i am but they dont ?? ( help !

2007-06-29 03:25:35 · 13 answers · asked by pollypolly000 1 in Friends

To make him feel good and special!

2007-06-29 03:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you are "the other woman"? And who has been or is still a victim of "the other woman" I read something in essance magazine about this. I was just wondering....What goes on in the realtionship and why do you choose to do this? How does the husband really feel about his wife and you? Are you in love with each other? And what can we as wives and future wives do to insure that our hubbys don't step out on us?

2007-06-29 03:16:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have an Italian au pair staying with us she is 19 I am 30. It all started with her baking things for me cakes and such lik. My wife thinks its cute and is certain she has a crush on me.

Now she is well being quite provocative when my wife is out she is wearing well very little and is always getting well touchy feely with me and the eye contact is tense.

I am certain she wants to and she is hot as hell what do you think should I?

2007-06-29 03:15:56 · 20 answers · asked by Wayne Kerr 3 in Family

She has been living with her boyfriend - playing house for about a year and 1/2. They get along great except he doesn't want to have sex but once in a while. He works outside and is always tired (unless it's time to fish - lol) We they do - he promises it won't be as long before the next time. When she gets mad about it - his excuse is "he didn't know she wanted it." It isn't about cheating.... so here is my question...why would a man not want to have sex regularly - can work really do that?

2007-06-29 03:13:35 · 16 answers · asked by baseball mom 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and my 2 year anniversary is coming up next month. We both are so in love with eachother and that is somehting I know is true. We are eachother's best friend and always have a good time together. We hardly ever argue and get along great. So I'm not trying to save the relationship or make it better to deal with. I just don't want it to get to boring and like the old married couple because we are 22 years old. We love to go out and do things, but sometimes it's hard to think of stuff to do. So any advice, big or small, about things to do (going out or more personal stuff) would be great! Thanks!

2007-06-29 03:12:17 · 7 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

seven yrs ago i did betray my wife and every time an arguement comes around she still uses it against me that im the one that cheated not her....how do i get her to trust me and get past the infedelity???

2007-06-29 03:12:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Some girls pretending that they *** but they did not!

2007-06-29 03:11:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Run off, disappear, and never be heard from again??

2007-06-29 03:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 years old and never had a boyfriend. i consider myself pretty good looking, im smart, dont smoke/drink, having a good personality. i think my only downfall is im shy. what do i need to do to get a decent guy to ask me out...where do i meet them? should i be the one to always make the first move?

2007-06-29 03:07:45 · 13 answers · asked by happygirl23 1 in Singles & Dating

We are having a rockabilly themed wedding. My fiance and I both have tattoos and we want these to be a part of the theme as well. I am trying to find creative guest gifts that fit into this theme. I also would love some suggestions for decorations. The venue is outside on a beautiful historic farm.

2007-06-29 03:07:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-29 03:07:04 · 32 answers · asked by sexypornstarsexypornstar 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf and i have been seperated by her parents for 3 months and thats the longest weve been apart she has abandonment issues and i just really love her i cant talk to her or see her at all so i have no contact with her for 3 months(all summer)...what do i do to keep my mind of missing her so that i dont do something stupid like hurt myself(cutting) (i have a history of cutting) plz help.....ps were both 16 years old

2007-06-29 03:05:21 · 8 answers · asked by Mi Pe 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering if someoen will go out with a person with severe acne, or someoen that has 20 acne scars on his face but clear forehead and no pimples just scars, wich one would you go out with, they both have great personality, both are in averages body weight , 5"8......wich one would you go out with.....severe acne or someoen with no acne but 20 black spots on face?

2007-06-29 03:01:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cheated, you hate him and havent talked to him since, but were together quite a while (almost 2 yrs) and were cool with his friends and family, then one day someone calls you up and tells you he has died, would you go to the funeral?????
Just curious...not my situation...

2007-06-29 02:57:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating