my gf and i have been seperated by her parents for 3 months and thats the longest weve been apart she has abandonment issues and i just really love her i cant talk to her or see her at all so i have no contact with her for 3 months(all summer)...what do i do to keep my mind of missing her so that i dont do something stupid like hurt myself(cutting) (i have a history of cutting) plz help.....ps were both 16 years old
2007-06-29 03:05:21 · 8 answers · asked by Mi Pe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no contact for 3 months no computer no phone i cant even send her a letter
2007-06-29 03:05:55 · update #1
im not a bad guy its not because of me its because we just started having sex and they are scared for her and she has a history of cutting too but both of us have stopped cutting
2007-06-29 03:11:10 · update #2
omg thats sad but u gotta get over her
2007-06-29 03:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by boxofjoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need some counseling and so does your girlfriend.
Self mutilation is not cool....if you cut the wrong area it can be terminal, (deadly).
Also, the girls parents are most likely not only fearing for their daughters safety; but, also not wanting to see her get pregnant at such a young age.
2007-07-06 20:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by cuch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really means a lot to you, talk to her parents, even if it is just through a letter. Promise not to have sex, because sex is not that important this early in your life.
2007-07-06 21:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they keeping you seperated to protect her? Sounds like you have some issues - cutting.
2007-06-29 03:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are they keeping you apart? if you really love her, (this sounds girly) write it all down somewhere. write how much you miss her and the things you like about her. write it on the computer if it makes you feel better. but DON'T cut yourself, that's so dumb! exercise, it really clears the mind. if you're mad at yourself, work extra hard.
2007-06-29 03:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by run4fun181 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wait out the time without harming yourselves. then try to have her parents accept the relationship.
2007-07-05 12:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
develop sum new hobbies.. go out n meet new people.. do new stuff which wil get ur mind off all dis..
2007-06-29 03:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should think about another girl. I bet she got a new bf by now...
2007-07-07 01:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋