Need Female Advice: Why Does My G/F Act Like She Could Care Less?

Question

This is going sound really stupid to some of you, but I wonder how much my g/f is interested in me.
She came by my house this morning to pick something up.
I thought she was going to call, but she caught me in a t-shirt and underwear.
When I see her in just a t-shirt and panties, it really turns me on. I can't keep my hands off of her.
She just laughed at me for catching me off guard and commented on my bed head when she was getting what she came for.
Sometimes I wonder if she has lost interest in me. I love how she looks when she first gets up b/c that's the real her and she still looks great.
She was kidding around with me so she wasn't in a bad mood, but didn't act like she wanted to touch or have any contact w/ me either.
So does she not feel turned on by me or even turned off by my appearance or am I being silly even worrying about it

Answer 1

Women are a lot different then men, remember that. You may be turned on by little things, but she probably had other things on her mind and wasn't thinking about sex. This certainly doesn't sound like she isn't attracted to you. She just wasn't in the mood. I wouldn't worry so much if I were you.

Answer 2

It does sound like you're being a little paranoid. You said she didn't try touching you even though you really get turned on when she's wearing the same thing, but did you try touching her? Maybe she's just bad about making the first move? My advice would be simply to ask her if she still finds you attractive. Tell her you love how she looks in the morning, and ask her what she likes to see on you. It might just be a simple thing that she finds you more attractive in work clothes or just your general hanging out clothes. Everyone is different and has different likes and dislikes. Like I said before, only way you'll know is to ask.

Answer 3

You're probably just being silly. If this is the only incident I wouldn't worry. Face it girls are just sexier in panties and t-shirts than guys.
Next time you should quickly ditch the t-shirt and at least hit the mouthwash. That way you can put the move on her and get the response you want.

Answer 4

Don't worry about it.. Just because she does not want to jump ur bones every second does not mean she is not attracted to you.... i think u r expecting to much, although you r turned on by the way she looks in the mourning does not mean she has to be maybe she really did think it was funny that you were off ur guard... stop worrying!

Answer 5

I think you are being silly about it. Just breath first thing in the morning sex is the last thing on our minds (of course that differs for men) with all the rest of the things that are going on for the day. If she wasn't interested you would know.

Peace

Answer 6

You may be silly. I don't think she was acting like she cared less. She just doesn't think sexual like a guy. She thinks differently than you do, don't hold it against her. Chill out and be her romantic hero.

Answer 7

OMG!!! IM GOING THREW THE SAME THING!!!.. email me and we can try to both work out our problems... i have been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 years.. and for the past 4 months.. she dosnt act like she loves me.. and exactly what u said.. when shes wearing almost nothing, i get turned on.. but when im wearing almost nothing.. she acts like ... she dosnt care... email me!..lol.. how long have you been going out with her??

Answer 8

Me and my boyfriend are the same! I always laugh at him!! :-)

He finds is quite amusing too- dont take it to heart. Us women just love to have a good laugh at you blokes wheneva we can!! Take the piss back! Thats what my boyfriend does to me!! If she takes affense to it then are you really comfortable together??
x

Answer 9

haha i wouldn't worry too much about it. some girls, me included, don't get turned on unless we're in the mood. guys on the other hand... :)

Answer 10

there is nothing to worry abt, one isnt always in the mood