he buys me whatever i want and is super respectful and nice to me... but i dont feel the same for him. He's a great guy and he has a good job and is very faithful and respectful, but i try to give him chances but im never satisfied. I often find myself talking to other guys and flirting with bad boys... (im not a hoe i swear) i've never cheated on him but i dont want to keep lieing to myself and to him about the way i really feel... what should i do????? PLEASE HELP ME.....
2007-06-29 01:53:49 · 11 answers · asked by ââ¬Â¢ÃÅ¡*Crystal*Úââ¬Â¢ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest about how you feel about him. Tell him now and don't wait any longer because it will just be harder.
If you care about him you will let him go so he can find the right person for him and you will be free to do the same.
2007-06-29 01:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by TheSafetyMan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why you can't feel any attraction for him is because he is doing all the wrong things like buying you stuff and being too nice. Women are not attracted to wusses. Hence you saying you find bad boys appealing.
I am not saying he needs to turn bad but he needs to act more cocky & funny when he is around you and not give you everything you want. He can pull it off without being a bad boy.
Maybe try and start a small argument with him to see if he will give it back to you and create some good tension? It is really hard to do though because a guy should know how to keep a girl interested. You shouldn't have to explain it to him. If he can't make you feel it then I am sorry he has lost you!
2007-06-29 09:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Tintin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel the same way about him as he does you, then you need to tell him. He sounds like a great guy who does deserve the truth. It is better to let him know your feelings now than to keep lieing to him. If you aren't happy, then you should not be with him. All it is going to do is get deeper along the way and you will end up tearing him apart when you decide to tell him if you wait. Just do it now and get it over with.
2007-06-29 09:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him.....by allowing him to buy you things that makes you a user if you don't care about him like you should. Chances are you might end up with someone that is not so good and you will be wishing you were back with someone that is nice and respectful to you. Good luck.
2007-06-29 08:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lynnae_1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont love him you have to let him go. If you cant do that maybe you do love him but your not letting yourself belive that. You have to make up your mind and then go for it. If you allow him to keep being with you and he thinks you feel the same way about him as you does for you.... you are going to hurt him in the end.
2007-06-29 08:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bubba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him how you fee. Don't keep leading him on or accepting his gifts if you don't feel the same for him. Let him go so he can find someone who loves him back.
2007-06-29 08:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by tender loving dyke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love him, then you don't love him. Give him back the stuff he bought for you, dump him, and move on. You will be doing yourself AND him a favor. Stop wasting both of your time. It is the right thing to do.
2007-06-29 08:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you really feel itz not good to lead him on tell him you want to be best friends with him instead because he may feel sad and upset but he will feel ok if it is best friends and not just friends if u no what i mean
2007-06-29 08:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your true feelings it's only fair maybe you can end up aleast friends, but not if you keep using him because it will eventually come out.
2007-06-29 08:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to find out if he is your man...
2007-06-29 08:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋