i don't really want to but he's being very cold with me whenever I try and put it off. I don't understand why he wants some, its not as though he's never seen me naked before, so why does he want a picture. am I being stupid, should I just give in?
2007-06-29 21:09:39 · 25 answers · asked by lydia d 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I don't think you should do it if you really don't want to if he truly loved you he would respect that.
2007-06-29 21:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you're uncomfortable then don't do it---never do anything you're uncomfortable with (and the fact that he is mad about it is more of a reason not to do it-who is he to get mad)
my fiance and I have a special e-mail address set up that we don't tell our friends or family about...I take pics of myself for him when ever I feel like being sexy and I send them to him at that address...I also send him dirty notes...and then later I let him know that there's something new at his special e-mail...I change the password often so he stays on his toes and that way I can block him out if I ever think he'll use the pics against me - which he never would, I just have trust issues
this special e-mail address has really helped our love-life but I still say if you're not comfortable DON'T DO IT
2007-06-29 21:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!! I know so many girls from High school who got a horrible reputation that way. here's how it goes, you're with your boyfriend, everything is going well, so you give him some dirty pics. Next thing you know, you're broken up and the whole football team knows what you look like naked, not to mention possibly the whole perverse internet community.
2007-06-29 21:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by math q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a senior in high school, my boyfriend who had just started his first year in college asked for some nude pics of me. I also resisted, and he wheedled, cajoled, and eventually started getting kind of rude with me about it. His attitude was, "What's the big deal?"
Well, years later, long after we broke up, when a simple photo can end up being posted all over MySpace, I am *so glad* I never gave him the pic!
Don't do it. He wants a nude pic? Strip a Barbie doll and take a picture of that and send it to him!
2007-06-29 21:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being stupid- you're listening to your instincts and that's a good thing. Your bf probably wants to show off those pictures to his buddies. is that really what you want? don't ever take pictures or video of something if you don't want it ALL OVER the internet. even though you trust him now, do you really want him to have those dirty pictures if or when you ever break up? I wouldn't do it!
2007-06-29 21:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not send him photo's like that over the phone/internet...nor give him polaroids. If he's getting cold about it, then he's up to something, probably wanting to put them on the internet or show others. I think if you do this, your picture will end up in places besides just his hands! Be smart about this!
2007-06-29 21:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by rakkabye girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants some because he thinks your hot and wants to see you naked at anytime he wants too. Also it probly is a turn on for him to get pics of you on the phone and you would be fulfilling a fantasy of his by doing it. Don't do it though just because he is cold to you, make him earn it. Start by sending semi nude ones and see how he acts towards you. Who know, you might make him a better lover towards you be turning him on while he is away. Good Luck.
2007-06-29 21:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
never give in to some thing you do not want to do if he wants them so bad it is probably for a nefarious reason question his motives inwardly but do not let on that you are aware that he wants these "pics" just so he could show them off and brag about his "control" over you this sounds like the first stone in the fondation of a controling dominant and sexually deviant mind cuidado
2007-06-29 21:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump a guy who would ask me to send a naked picture of myself to him.
2007-06-29 21:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
KEEP the LAW in mind. If your under 18, it could mean prison for BOTH of you. Possession, creation, and distribution.
Also, there are A LOT of 'my ex girlfriend' pics on the web. I don't see any VALID reason for this. He sounds like a tosser, so toss him.
2007-06-29 21:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.TwoCrows 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should, if he cant respect your wishes then hes not a very good boyfriend. And if you two ever break up just think about what he could do with those pictures, they could ruin you.
2007-06-29 21:13:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋