I've been living with my boyfriend for like 4 yrs now but the past 10months have been a nightmare because he made friends with another gal and she started calling him late in the night and he the same then he started going to her place without me even though I wanted to. I asked him to stop flirting with her but no, he'll chat with her call her baby,pussy and tell her how much he loves her n she'll write to say how much she needs him. Like 2 months ago I met this guy he's a friend but we've become really close n in a way i feel my bf doesnt appreciate me n people r laughing at me coz of what he's doing. I think I should end my r/ship with him but am afraid to make a mistake but I feel he's really pushed me to the edge. My bf says am flirting too but when I asked with whom? he said he'd not tell me. Am confused and I need to make a decision bout him n the new guy. He is a nice person and i stayed in the hope he'll see am hurting but its not happening, am in a dilema HELP ME PLS!
2007-06-29 20:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur relationship with this guy is over. he is cheating on u and hurting u and not respecting you. you deserve sooo much better. break up, end things, move out, and move on with ur life. get ur self involved in activites and forget about this jerk.
try things out with the new guys AFTER you break up with ur bf. let ur bf go and if things were meant for u2 to be together u guys will come back together.
all i can say is good luck and lose this guy, he isnt worth the time nor the effort!
2007-06-29 20:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Siroonig 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: Girl I'm sorry for your situation. It sounds like he may be a prick if he has had someone so caring and sensitive like you to call another girl baby!! What an absolute ***...I should beat him. But there may be a misunderstanding...
You need to have a clear conversation with him and tell him what you want and ask him what he wants. Don't take indecisiveness from him, if he is not sure then maybe give him time to think about it but he cannot play games with you. If he loves you then he will commit to you. If he will not commit to you, then for your own good you must leave him and heal your heart to strengthen and prepare for a better man. Get a commitment.
2007-06-29 20:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by crewbrotha86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this jerk!!!!!
It is better to be alone and happy than to be together and miserable - which is exactly what you age.
Don't let him talk you into anything that you are uncomfortable with.
To me if he is flirting with the girl while you are his supposed "girlfriend", then apparently he doesn't think that much of ypur relationship. Once a flirt, always a flirt!!!!!!!!
2007-06-29 20:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Su-Nami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him head to head and say you chanced on some one else, this form would help with the aid of not giving him the alternative of asking him if he has a clean female chum, which he ought to lie, because of the fact he does not understand a thank you to interrupt up. positioned your emotions aside & comprehend that if he's not making a attempt to touch you at every time of the day this is because of the fact he has yet another pastime. there became a track that stated "breaking apart is the toughest factor to do". it somewhat is, especailly for youthful young ones who don't have the adulthood to shelter it. it somewhat is time so which you would be able to expirience something that all of us have long previous with the aid of. do not enable it beat you up emotionally, you probably did not something incorrect, your alluring & you have alot going for your self. Spend it gradual jointly with your girlfriends & have relaxing.
2016-10-03 07:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by lutz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately he has lost interest in you hon. You should consider moving out. And going on with you life.
I know its a sad feeling but you will feel better if keep moving along.
He has got some issues and you cannt fix them for him
he needes to want to change himself. so do you btw and that change is to leave him. this time live on your own or with your gf's but not with your bf. dont just have sex coz you think you will feel closer that way. make sure he is going love you for real this time.
2007-06-29 22:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by l33nix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes f**King this other girl leave him. if you know he says i love you to her he obviosly is using you. your an idiot for even asking a stupid ? like this, f**King moron
what are you doing living with a boyfriend FOR 4 YEARS how come there was no talk about marriage a while back. you are so easy close your legs and take time for yourself and think HARD next time you get into a relationship
2007-06-29 20:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your b/f ASAP and dont make any decisions about the other one too soon.Everyone seems nice at first , so dont take hasty decisions.
2007-06-29 20:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. you can't have a boyfriend that's talking to some other girl all night, & telling her he loves her. i'd be beating the crap out of him. forget that.
2007-06-29 20:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him jealous!
2007-06-29 20:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋