We have 3 kids, just had twins 3 months ago. I've tried everything, talking to him, letters, books, counseling. He tries to make me happy with THINGS. He buys me everything. But when I ask for his time, or intamacy, or foreplay, he can't give it to me. I know he has issues, maybe I do, I don't know. I love the man, but I am very lonely because he is so closed. I don't work. Couldn't possibly support the three kids alone. I have no family or friends to turn to becuase he was always jealous or angry with something they did and I chose him. Wondering how the hell I even got here. Sick of feeling so alone. This yahoo answers sometimes feels like my only human contact besides my babies. Isn't that sad? I know you're thinking he's abusive, he's not. Just very closed and angry all the time. Try to make him open up and laugh and it pisses him off. He's around all the time, so he's not cheating, but he's never "here". Always tv and computer. Says its relaxing. Any advice?
2007-06-29
16:20:40
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shelby
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Marriage & Divorce