how do you ask it so you know they will tell you the truth??
i think its discusting for guys to look at it.
dont tell me just ask hiim...give me the whole dialogue
2007-06-29 16:38:23 · 21 answers · asked by Surrahh :D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH LOOKING AT PORN! Get over it you dumbass.
2007-06-29 16:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by John Java Smith 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't ask him. He might not tell you the truth. Just email him some pictures and peek at him when he doesn't know you're around and see if he keeps looking at it. You can only test him.
Actually porn is all physical. It doesn't mean he likes or loves her. He will never come in contact with them. So you don't really have to worry about him cheating on you.
Some couples I know, especially older people, understand that it is all physical so they don't care if their husband looks at it to get some pleasure out of it or get excited so he can have sex with their wife. Some couples even watch porn together for fun or just to get excited with each other.
Guys are different girls. They think about sex 70% of the time during the day. It's just the way they are, but it doesn't mean they don't love you. It's just a physical body reaction that's all.
My husband re-assures me that men usually have no deeper like or love for the women that have physically beautiful bodies. Men usually are more attracted to and love the personality of the girl more than their body for a long term relationship. Of course everyone including you would also like a good looking girl/boy friend, not an ugly one. So everyone would naturally be attracted to a good looking figure, including you, but doesn't mean anything more.
2007-06-29 16:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like most guys DO look at porn... i agree it's sickening. but umm... maybe sometime if you're watching TV & there's something about... that kind of stuff [haha] just spark up a conversation about how you think porn is disgusting. & then if he says something be like "do you watch porn??" and there you go. i guess it's hard to tell sometimes, just tell him to be honest with you. if you don't wanna go that way just straight up ask him if he does. call him or talk to him in person & just ask "do you watch porn?" and see how he reacts, you can usually tell by the reaction if he does or not.
good luck!
& don't get too mad if he does cause he's obviously with YOU because he likes YOU. =]
2007-06-29 16:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first try to get in the situation of internet. then ask if he has a myspace if he says yes say how many friends he has then cary on with that conversation.u better not b watching porn then say i am just kidding but really ur not u just said that 2 tell him u wont b mad at him if he says yes then ask him.
2007-06-29 16:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_t_iz_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We look at porn together it wouldn't bother me if he did it alone. I sometimes look at it alone. Hell Im the one who buys it so I really dont see the problem of asking him. To casually bring it up say your friend was telling you that her boyfriend wanted to to watch a flick together and how digusted she was,then just slide in " hey you dont watch that stuff do ya? Word of caution if you make it sound like you really hate it he is going to lie to you to keep from having an argument.
2007-06-29 16:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by renea2084 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ask him. You think it's disgusting. If he does it and is honest with you, you're just going to try to make him stop, so then he'll have to hide it and lie to you. Once he gets comfortable lying to you about porn, he'll get comfortable lying to you about other things and the relationship will die anyway.
So basically, until you are comfortable with yourself and your sexuality, you shouldn't ask a question in which you can't handle the answer.
2007-06-29 16:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what kind of person don't look at porn, especially a guy. there is no instructions, more less a dialogue... don't bother with it. if he is just looking at it, there is nothing wrong with it. its not like the porn looks back at him..
2007-06-29 16:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
for one... alot of guys look at porn...its not discusting....
and if you want to ask him just be like "hey can i ask you a question? and get an honest answer?"
and if he says yes be like "do you like porn"
so on and so on.
2007-06-29 16:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jesi-lyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There really isn't a big dialogue to it. You could do it in a joking manner, serious manner, or just straightfoward ask him. If he is then it's up to you if you want to deal with, get him to stop or leave him
2007-06-29 16:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him silly. Look him in the eyes. You'll see if he 's telling the truth or not. If his eyes move to the left before he answers you he's lying.
2007-06-29 16:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by purple gorilla 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just ask him its not discusting its normal... i mean seriously... guys are guys.. just ask him playingfully... Just be like hey do u look at porn.. and kinda laugh..cuz if u do thats completely normal.. then if he says yes just say eww if u think its gross
2007-06-29 16:42:09 · answer #11 · answered by ShUt ^ & dRiVe♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋