My boyfriend and i broke up. Help me get over him, please?

Question

I am sick of crying, i am not angry anymore but still hurt. i just need some ways to get over him.

thanks

Answer 1

Find something that gives your joy...something you can lose yourself in.

Some people turn to volunteer work when a relationship ends....something to take your mind off being hurt.

Answer 2

This can be a very difficult time but at the same time a very exiting time of self awareness & self discover. Are you sad because it did not work with him or are you sad because you think there is something wrong with you? I need a lot more information then you gave me to really help. However I am sure you will find another bf when you are ready, I am also sure that will be soon. Most guys are dogs, if you are just looking for a bf, you will get one fast. if you are looking for a true mate for life, then you will need to go out on a lot of dates, and get to know who they really are. Try not to limit yourself to the good looking ones, besides being superficial, they typically know it, and have wondering eyes. because they know they can do better then you, not that you are not a perfect 10!!! That is just they way hot guys think. So what to do look at? what went wrong this time and try not to do that again. Look to the heart and soul of a person, not there looks. Don’t look at the color of there skin, but the how giving and kind they are. Don’t look at the muscles on there body, but how intelligent they are. Don’t look at what type of car they drive, but do they make you happy or laugh. If you go about this the right way, you will probably be happy this looser dumped you. A relationship takes a lot of great communication and caring more for the other person more then yourself, but you must love your self first, before some one else can love you.

Answer 3

It's ok. I know how you feel. Guys ,I allowed myself to like that i really truly didn't have feelings for, I still got hurt.I used to question myself if I was really pretty. I used to cry in my room at night thinking I was the only one but I'm not. Time heals all wounds like stated above. It will be alright. you'll find that special someone and before you know it you'll be back in love. Don't allow your self to close up and go into a shell. I tried it. It sometimes leads o depression. Don't make another guy pay for another guys mistakes. Keep your head up you will get thur this. Remember God loves you and he will always be there for you.

Answer 4

if u listen 2 r&b you will here a song called irraplaceable its a song that says that u wont cry over a man cause u can find someone else in a day or 2 its a good song and mayb if u go hang out with some friends u can find a new guy 2 times cuter than just go out with him

Answer 5

First off I wanna say sorry and I know things suck right now. I was in a 3 year relationship before and then it ended. Everyone says this but its true...things will get better. I seriously thought my life was over like you feel like everything sucks...but that will all go away...promise. It does take time though. Go out with your friends and do things that you love to do. Try not to analyze things and worry about the past...look towards your future and just have fun.

Answer 6

I know this is going to sound cornball but they say the first cut is the deepest. Future breakups never seem to hurt as much as the early ones. Only time will heal the pain of this, but in the meantime, the best thing you can do is to stay busy and avoid moping around too much. Spend your time with friends but don't fall into the old "rebound" guy too quick!

Answer 7

I not sure that you will ever be truly over him. Because part of him will always be with you. . IT will make you stronger. It will make you wiser. Time is the best medicine. keep your self busy with other friend or hobbies. Just take one day at a time. And keep putting your feet down one step in front of the other. You might be surprised what you see when you look back at what you have become. Good luck.

Answer 8

The best advise I can give you is to either try and work something out with him or move on. Girl there is millions
and millions of hot boys out there in the world.This might
be the first boy you broke up with but sister .......Trust me
it wont be the last. Who is to say that this break up was not good??? You might have lost a bad man to get a better man.
And alway remember.....................................................

What Dont Kill You Will Make You Stronger
The Best of luck to you

Answer 9

Sweetie- i wish it was that easy. Just take comfort in knowing we have all been there.

I know right now, it feels like the end of the world. Its hurts so so bad and you think youll never find love again. It will take time.. maybe alot of time.. but trust me.. you will.

In the meantime.. just hang out with good friends, start new hobbies youve always wanted to try... and just try to keep your mind off it.

Seriously.. your not alone. Ive been so heartbroken for years it was crazy.... and im so so happy now.

Answer 10

When I am sad...... I bake something.

Just now I have had to put on some chicken and baked potatoes 'cause I read your words. I think I will have peas and gravy with htem.. and a nice glass of red wine and toast to the LaughingTXlady's good health and future happiness.

*blows a kiss*

Put those emotions to canvas so you get something useful out of it.... you deserve better treatment.

Answer 11

I am so sorry you are hurting. I have been there. Nothing really helps other than dating others (but not getting sexually involved). Do not sit home and dwell on it. It takes time but you will be OK and you will love again. This time it will be twice as sweet.

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