I am good-looking, smart, sweet, thoughtful, trustworthy, and understanding. The things that are holding me back are the fact that I'm unemployed at the moment, I live at home with my parents, and I am a single mother of one 11-year-old girl. But if I can look past SO MANY THINGS about people, why can't I seem to find ONE PERSON who is willing to do the same for me?? I need advice, and maybe a little pep talk... To be completely honest, I've been single since April/May, and this is the longest I've been so at once, and it's really hard!
2007-06-29 15:50:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Two months is the longest you've ever been single? I'd give it a little more time. You can't expect to find the right person overnight. I'd say work on finding a job and bettering yourself and keep your eyes open...you don't necessarily need to go out on a man hunt. Lost of times love finds you when you least expect it! :)
2007-06-29 15:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you just got divorced and have a child and no job I would suggest you not look for a relationship until you have had a year or so to start to recover and your daughter has had time to get used to her parents being divorced.
It might be a while before you get your life together and when you are freshly divorced, unemployed and living with your parents isn't a strong position to start looking.
Get a job first and an apartment, set up a routine for your daughter to see her father and then when you are feeling like a success in life you will have more to offer a man.
2007-06-29 15:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play groups for kids,
Single parents meeting at churches
School functions
Charity events, and Volunteer organizations.
2007-06-29 15:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take my hat off to you for being a single parent.
I am a single parent of 2 boys myself and its hard,but, you need to sort your self out first.
Get yourself a part time job (i packed shelves and was cleaning peoples houses) and find yourself a place to live.
If you feel better about yourself, stop looking for MR RIGHT and he will find you.
No women needs a man to find love, you have to love yourself first.
Be strong.
2007-06-29 15:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to spend some single time to spend some time with you and your daughter. You will find the one when the time is right.
2007-06-29 15:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..you cant FIND the one...the one will come out to you... you cant find that special person unless its the right time...there would be ups and downs like a rollercoster...hold on tight and the ride will go smoothly..
love is never ending...sit back and enjoy the ride...
2007-06-29 15:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by ^-^; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to wait for "the one" to find you, thats the way that true love works.
2007-06-29 15:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by esso_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
club...maby 2 am?
2007-06-29 15:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Myles M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋