Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

2007-06-29 14:37:27 · 1 answers · asked by kierajanee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 14:36:57 · 33 answers · asked by hillybilly135 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the possible reasons that a straight, single man would NOT want to hook-up with a woman that he used to work with and knows, has always had chemistry with-has openly flirted with and has been having very erotic cyber sex conversations with for a year? Hmmm, I'm very, very puzzled... Also, is there anything this woman can say to him or do to convince him that their sexual chemistry would best be spent in the sheets, not only online? FYI, I am about 99.99% certain he's single. I am a few years older than he is and recently divorced (2 years), so I sometimes wonder if perhaps he's intimidated by the fact I'm older and maybe more experienced than he is... Suggestions? Anyone had this same experience? Advice? Thanks in advance!

2007-06-29 14:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by Doogie 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok so there is this guy who has a really big crush on me. and he told me last night how he feels and last night he kept talking sexual to me. and saying all this stuff and was talking crap about my boyfriend. and here is the other part i have a boyfriend. and i love him very much. we plan to get married. i just want to stay friends with this other guy. and i even tell him i have a boyfriend. and he doesn't get it. and i don't understand why! and ever sense yesturday when we talked on the phone he keeps calling. and i don't know how i can get him to just be my friend and not talk sexual or dirty to me. i love my boyfriend and i don't want this other guy to mess things up.
SO please anything will help. but don't give me a silly answer.

2007-06-29 14:35:27 · 23 answers · asked by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 14:35:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i tell him and tell him about this evil women, but he wont believe me. all he says is SHUT UP you making me really mad. he wont listen i cant tell him nothing why why

2007-06-29 14:34:00 · 7 answers · asked by Bewbies 2 in Friends

But, she is having a hard time with it. She lays in bed, unmovable. She can't deal with it. Advice?

2007-06-29 14:30:54 · 21 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 14:27:34 · 17 answers · asked by FREE L 1 in Singles & Dating

He told me he wanted to surprise me for my birthday coming up next weekend and asked me if I would like to go to a motel.
I cannot help but feel it is for his benefit and not mine.
Is this supposed to be fun? Do most men want to take their girlfriends to a motel for their birthday? I cannot imagine what the point is supposed to be. I figure why spend the money?
Tell me what your opinion is.

2007-06-29 14:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy and he really likes me, we have only hung out twice but he calls me alot and stuff, and we text each other all the time. Well we hung out again and he told me we were going to the mall but we ended up going to his friends house. Which is fine i guess it was alittle unexpected but whatever. Anyway they were in his friends swimming pool and my guy didnt even tell me to bring a bathing suit but it was fine. His friends were alright, they were friendly but they didnt really say much to me so it was kinda of awkward with me just standing there while they were all swimming. I had to leave after like 15 minutes cause i had to take care of my brother and my guy was like well mabe we can hang out again this week. Well he hasent called me in 4 days and im thinking i maybe did something wrong? Maybe his friends said im a weirdo or something or idk its just seems odd he wouldnt call back. He has not called me for a few days before but idk just seems strange.

2007-06-29 14:24:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok durring the school year no boys asked me out. But a couple monthes before school ended we went to Arkensas top visit family. We were there for a while so my mom just enrolled me into that school. The first day I was there 3 boys asked me out and the second 2 boys asked me out and the third 3 boys asked me out. and the whole time i was there they were hanging all over me. Then when i came back to wyoming no one asked me out. I don't think i have anything wrong with my personality cause i have tons of friends that would take a bullet for me. What could be the cause of all this?

2007-06-29 14:21:44 · 5 answers · asked by ~♥~lover~♥~ 3 in Singles & Dating

We all have things that matter or are important to us, what makes the important and meaningful things in your life, just that?

2007-06-29 14:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by T agent 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you people think of things like one-night stands and so on? Do you find it repulsive? Are friends with benefits good or bad? Who thinks girls who are 16 and under are too young to have sex? Personally, I think 16 is way too young to be having sex. (16 is the age of consent in NZ btw). You may think you're mature, and even look physically mature, but your mind just isn't ready to deal with something big like this. Having sex is quite a big deal, especially if it'll influence the rest of your life, say, you got pregnant and spend the next year at home and working instead of going overseas or going to university.

What do you think? Would be nice to include your own experiences and any other opinions. Thanks, looking forward to reading your comments! :)

2007-06-29 14:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by Unefemme 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I got into a discussion about love being equal between the two people in a relationship. He believes that in any relationship one person is always more in love than the other. Do you guys think this is true or not. With your answer include if you're married, single etc..... and for how long. We're both curious to see what others think.

Thanks :)

2007-06-29 14:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by Christine 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 and he's 19. We been together for 1 year. We're extrememly close, and make out ALOT, just not to the extent of having sex. Theres no pressure from him...but I just dunno if I am ready for sex and all of its consequence. Physically, I want to, but there's always that dreaded first time (we're both virgins). I mean right now, we're at the stage of innocence and fun, and with sex, we'll be at different stage. We both love each other very much, and old enough to do it, but...I don't know if we are maturely enough. I don't know. I am very scared because...sex is something that will happen eventually...but I am prepared. My mom is of an entirely different generation (shes 54) and different culture, so she doesn't even know of all the drugs/preventions. So, more than advices, please tell me tips for the first time. Thank you.

2007-06-29 14:14:10 · 18 answers · asked by yqnlc 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 14:09:56 · 29 answers · asked by Jo-Mandi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 14:07:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 14:04:36 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Singles & Dating

like all of my guy friends are obsessed with video games and they talk about it all the time and its so annoying. How do you get them to change the subject? It just makes me want to scream.

2007-06-29 13:55:05 · 35 answers · asked by cutesy_kittys_roxy 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys im getting married in november 2007, in the carribean and im doing the planning myself when it comes to the colors, etc. Any nice ideas would b very helpful.... Thanx

2007-06-29 13:54:34 · 14 answers · asked by Ms.J 1 in Weddings

2007-06-29 13:53:09 · 21 answers · asked by Happy 3 in Friends

I get insanely jealous when my bf talks about his ex. It bothers me because even though he says she treated him like crap, he loved her a lot when they dated and the relationship mattered to him. It bothers me that he talks about her fondly. I know he is over her because it was several years ago that they broke up and he is really into me in every way. At the same time, I am driving myself crazy being jealous over her. He talked about his sexual past with her too and it makes me sick to think about him being with anyone else but me, especially someone that he also had strong feelings for. I feel like I am constantly competing with his past and I always wonder about how I compare to the ex that he loved. I always worry about being better and I feel like I will never know for sure. He really matters to me a lot and I am very much in love. How can I deal with this type of jealousy? How can I make myself feel better, while at the same time nurturing the relationship that I have?

2007-06-29 13:52:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a friend emailed you saying they were having financial problems and needed 80 thousand dollars. If they asked you to mail one dollar and forward this on to everyon in their address book, and ask them to do the same. And so on down the line. Hoping it would reach 80 thousands people or at least enough people willing to help out. Would you send your friend the one dollar and forward the email to everyone in your address book and ask them to do the same?

2007-06-29 13:51:28 · 7 answers · asked by vault 5 in Friends

help meh plz! kuz i still lub him

2007-06-29 13:50:33 · 22 answers · asked by ~ redwood 2 tha fullest ~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 13:50:03 · 36 answers · asked by Jo-Mandi 1 in Singles & Dating

im 18/m. ive seen this girl for about 5 months. weve both been pretty happy until recently. a few weeks ago, she was saying that she would like to see me more on just the weekends because she is often very tired and wants to spend time with her family before she leaves to college. she also lives an hour away and works about 20 minutes away from me so it can be a hassle to see each other sometimes. However she wanted to talk everynight over the phone and text. i had no problem with it and thought it was a reasonable request. we were fine again.

a week ago she left to DC on a program which put her on a busy schedule (often the night would end around midnight). she would stay up late partying everynight till about 5. she called me twice, talked 2 me for 15 min total. this upset me a little.

when she came in town(i had to call her to find out she was in town) she says how she cant see me because she wants to spend time with her new friends. i was very upset. should i be?

2007-06-29 13:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by yahooanswers23 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married almost 4 years and known my wife 7 years. I was head over heals when we first met. Our relationship was pretty good until our daughter was born, two years ago. We both work full-time or more. Since our daughter was born we only have sex about once month to once every 3 or 4 months. I do most all cooking, laundry and cleaning, fix everything around the house, take care of our pets. We seldom ever do anything fun together as just the two of us, always some excuse. I am all about hygene, I shower daily. She showers just once every 3 or 4 days which she never used to be this bad, but I find it gross. I've made remarks about this and she just gets mad at me for "keeping track." I find it hard to initiate sex, because of the showering thing & the fact that I do everything else. She hardly ever initiates the sex. I have a fairly high sex drive and am becoming very frustrated. We become very short with one another too. She complains that I don't do nice things for her.

2007-06-29 13:46:40 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee's cousin has made her a bridesmaid in her wedding. In fact, all of the bridesmaids are cousins of the bride. Our wedding will take place next August and my fiancee feels bad because she has already chosen her bridesmaids and NONE of them are family. They consist of friends who were there for her at some point throughout the good and bad times of our relationship. She says she would like her family to have SOMEthing to do at our wedding but she feels as though they don't really belong in the bridal party. Also adding fuel to the fire, is the fact that 2 of her 3 brothers will most likely be groomsmen. In my personal opinion, she shouldn't feel bad because these chicks don't even know my first name but I do understand why she feels bad.

So what do you think is the remedy to this situation? Should my fiancee feed bad? Is there something they could do at the wedding that will make everyone happy?

2007-06-29 13:41:27 · 17 answers · asked by SeekingTheTruth 1 in Weddings

i feel like he doesn't care that i have been hurt,and i do not feel like he has my best interest at heart..does he care?

2007-06-29 13:41:11 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

2007-06-29 13:41:08 · 4 answers · asked by violatordepeche 3 in Weddings