What are the possible reasons that a straight, single man would NOT want to hook-up with a woman that he used to work with and knows, has always had chemistry with-has openly flirted with and has been having very erotic cyber sex conversations with for a year? Hmmm, I'm very, very puzzled... Also, is there anything this woman can say to him or do to convince him that their sexual chemistry would best be spent in the sheets, not only online? FYI, I am about 99.99% certain he's single. I am a few years older than he is and recently divorced (2 years), so I sometimes wonder if perhaps he's intimidated by the fact I'm older and maybe more experienced than he is... Suggestions? Anyone had this same experience? Advice? Thanks in advance!
2007-06-29 14:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by Doogie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you guys have developed a Friendship and neither one of you guys wants to Break that Bond. Also you guys have had Cyber Sex and Probably a Little Nervous about Living up to each others expectations. My suggestion FYI is instead of having Cyber Sex try having a Non-Sexual Conversation & express you feelings & desires. Don't be shy and don't take no for an answer. Giter Done!!!!!!.
2007-07-07 14:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by joe_white742 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes the game and the pursuit but does not want the relationship. It is very safe for him right now because he is not in a relationship with you but is still having the fun. If there is this much going on between you but nothing physical, I would say he is in a relationship. I would tell him what you have said, that it has been fun on-line but that you are ready to put his words into action. Try to set up a time to get together and see how he reacts. If he stops texting you I think you will have your answer, otherwise you may just have yourself a date!
Good luck!
2007-06-29 14:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Colleen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come right out and TELL him what you want!!! if you have already been intimate (kinda) you shouldn't have a problem telling him you WANT it for real!!! ask him if he's married, ask him if he's gay, ask him to be honest. because you need to know if your wasting your time!! there are some guy's that just like to mind f*ck people, and have no regard for their feelings..... good luck; from the sound of you, he's either gay or stupid......
2007-06-29 14:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by b.douglaswyatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the online sex ruined the chase for him
2007-07-05 12:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's found a new love
2007-07-07 14:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
????
2007-07-07 11:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋