Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

He works at a hospital between 8 and 12 hours a day which leaves me home alone all that time unless I am working. When he gets home from work he gives me a kiss then he head right into the computer room to play World Of Warcraft the only time he comes out is to get a drink or to eat supper then hes back in there until sometimes 11 at night. When I ask him to come out and sit with me he gets upset. This has been going on for almost a month now. Even when we both have the day off which rarely happens he is playing the game all day and leaves me in the living room to watch tv. What can I do to make him spend more time with me. I get really lonely when hes working all day and then comes home to play the computer. I spend more time with my cats then him. Please help me

2007-06-29 15:46:25 · 18 answers · asked by AngelEyes24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i m 16 n my sis is 11... we sleep in different rooms but we usually talk at nite wen we dun feel sleepy n once like tt we were talking and she asked if she could see my penis? i dun reali mind coz i m a nudist in my room but is it olrite to show my 11 yr old sis?

2007-06-29 15:45:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please give me some ideas
(open for either sex to reply)

2007-06-29 15:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by sweet_nikkiboo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl that i have been dating since september of 06 and i have known her since the fourth grade and we're both curently going into eighth grade. she is really controlling and has a bad temper. she says she is in love with me but i don't know if i feel the same way about her. we recently had a talk and i told her that i needed some time to think about things and she started saying things like "i will do anything to get you back" , and stuff like that. i haven't talked to her for a couple of weeks and i am woundering if i should call her or not or if i should break up with her. i have thought about breaking up with her before but never did. I'm just so confused! please help!

2007-06-29 15:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by player-in-need 1 in Singles & Dating

Gosh! 3 kids and 21 yrs merried and found out my has a boy friend! she said hi is just a friend!! what to do??

2007-06-29 15:41:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am a 16 year old girl, and I am engaged to someone. My parents have picked him out for me, and we really love each other. First of all, let me clear this up, or else you might get confused....I am an Indian, so that's why I got engaged at such an early age. I'll call myself Layla and my fiance, Mohit. I love Mohit with all of my heart, and I know he loves me as much as well, maybe even more then that. I met Mohit on January 16, 2007, and since then I have never even thought about anyone else. Yesterday, on June 25, 2007, I decided that, he is my future husband, and to prove my love for him, I decided to make love with him. Now, my parents have gotten me engaged to him but they don't want me to make loe to him before marige obviously, so they don't know about this and to keep it fair, I told Mohit that I won't do the whole intercourse, I don't want to lose my virginity before marrige. Even then Mohit was doubtful about doing anything, but I assured him that I know what I'm doing.

2007-06-29 15:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my crush and me are pretty good friends and hang out 1 on 1 pretty often. Today we went to a movie followed by dinner. At dinner, she scooted her feet on top of mine and sort of pushed down and wiggled them around. I responded accordingly and then she got up to get a drink. When she returned she just sat down and I rubbed my foot against hers and she was like, "Was that your foot?". I nodded. "Are you playing footsies?". I nodded again. She just laughed and sort of moved her feet away. This isn't the first time she's done something like this. Like I'll bump her completely on accident and she'll be like, "Are you aware that your leg just touched mine?". I don't think she's the type that plays games... but what the heck is going on here?

2007-06-29 15:40:25 · 16 answers · asked by K.M. 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband work full time and i work full time.. he thinks because he is the bread winner and makes more money then i do he doesn't have to help around the house.. I am doing it all the lawn, garbage. kids everything.. I just don't think it's fair, he said most marriage are like this.. so tell me ? is this fair?

2007-06-29 15:40:07 · 19 answers · asked by gonecrzy70 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my wife as she is great with our home and business realistic about life and problems.
I love my gf because we have fun times together and always laugh.
I love another gf because we really have fun in bed together.
does this seem normal???

2007-06-29 15:38:48 · 18 answers · asked by Ric C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

really like 2 women and want us all to share love

2007-06-29 15:35:17 · 6 answers · asked by brainbox 4 in Singles & Dating

what's ur dream date? keep it clean please and thank you!

2007-06-29 15:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 15:27:35 · 8 answers · asked by brainbox 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i just figured out my bf was using me i cant help but want to punch him (hes my ex now)

2007-06-29 15:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by nicole s 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 15:18:12 · 20 answers · asked by MEMO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She says that but she is as fit as they come and believe me other Guys do stare. So, should she tell me the truth and should I spill the beans about my past.

2007-06-29 15:16:59 · 23 answers · asked by Redmonk 6 in Marriage & Divorce

First off all, I've been with my bf for 3 years. On tuesday, it was my 30th birthday, and I wanted to make love. My bf says he's too tired from a long day at work. The next day, Weds, I wanted to make love again....but my bf says again, he's too tired. So, today, we made plans to see each other after I get off work. While I was at work, my bf called me around 5:30, saying that he's going over to his brother's house to go for a riding on a bike. I said, "oh, so you're too tired to have sex with me, but you're not too tired for going to riding" He got mad and said that I was wrong to say that to him. Was I wrong for saying that to him? Or is there something going on???

I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm giving up. I really do love him with all of my heart. I'm tired of making the moves on him. He doesn't make the moves. I think from now on, I'm not going to make the move, or I'll just say... "I'm too tired"

What do you think??

2007-06-29 15:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by Kim W 3 in Singles & Dating

I am living with my mom and step-dad because I am a single parent with three little ones and I cant afford to live on my own. I am taking my ex to court to pay more to no avail yet. Well, everytime my kids go to stay with there dad, I look forward to desperately needed relaxation and writing. The thing is thats when my mom goes on a crusade to get me to work on all the things I need to work on. I do need to work on some things but I also need to have some downtime. I am always exhausted from caring for 3 kids and the drama of the court case. AS SOON as the kids leave she has a to do list for me and that in itself stresses me out. Am I being selfish because she seems to think so. How can I better handle this. I am so stressed out I am shaky (theres a million other things going on too).

2007-06-29 15:14:09 · 17 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family

i was looking thru her text not that big of a deal. she starting tripping not hard but enough to irrate me.

2007-06-29 15:13:45 · 18 answers · asked by Mr.Gifford 3 in Singles & Dating

I will be getting married in a year...I'm 34 so you wouldn't think this would be an issue! My father LOATHES my step-father- I am not afraid of a scene, but I want desperately for him (dad) to feel comfortable. My step-father is oblivious that my father doesn't like him (long story)...aside from seating them apart- which will happen! any other suggestions? (My reception is going to be outside, but the space isn't huge....any advice would be appreciated!!

2007-06-29 15:12:54 · 23 answers · asked by jmd72inva 6 in Weddings

we all were having a few drinks and everyone was having a good time until my husb co-workers were taliking about porn, since at my husb job they also sell satellite dish. anyway they were teasing my husb for accidently scrolling through the porn that didnt upset me what upset me was that one of the girls that he works with told him" ws it hard porn or soft porn" and my husb responds it was "soft for me" and wll everyone laughed so after we all went home I told him that was not right he apologized to me, but I cannot help thinking that if they ll speak that way infront me how do they talk at work I didnt like the fact that the girl had such freedom to speak 2 him in that way can someone please give me some advice please?

2007-06-29 15:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 15:05:06 · 9 answers · asked by EllieMae 1 in Weddings

2007-06-29 14:59:58 · 14 answers · asked by cdf0 1 in Family

if there is a guy who is in great shape compared to a guy in ok shape...will he get more girls then the one in a ok shape

2007-06-29 14:54:22 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately ive been feeling like im losing him.but i love him so much and weve been through so much together that i just dont want to lose him.it seems like weve been fight more now days and yes i start it but like i ask him a question and he answers but theres a flaw in the answer and i go balistic i cant help it. hes in California.and im here in hawaii.hes there to visit but since he went there.something just changed..yea maybe its my fault for feeling this way and my fault for making the arguments and stuff.but i dont know.i can never make him happy it seems he says i do make him happy and i mean everything to him.but he never calls.i do. he never e-mails me ido..and he reads my e-mails but dont respond and e-mail other girls..he says they dont mean anything to him..its like he doesnt think about me and what im feeling..or what hes doing could hurt me in some way.what do i do..i dont want to lose him..how do i make him understand how i feel?and if theres anything else you want to add in

2007-06-29 14:53:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he met the girl on the internet and before you know it , he brings her to live in my home. it has not been a month since he met her. we live in brooklyn n.y and the girl lives in texas. the thing is, my uncles name is on the lease, but both of us are paying the rent.

2007-06-29 14:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by kaj029 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Let me know what you think! It only cost me $99 - I was thrilled to find a good one for so cheap! I wanted a simple dress yet one that is still beautiful at the same time. I want to look great and I need some honest opinions on the dress from people who aren't going to worry about my feelings. Thanks guys!

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Yes, that is me in all those pictures. And I had to hold the back of the dress because it needs to be taken in at the top... that's why I'm standing like that!

2007-06-29 14:50:12 · 37 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2 in Weddings

Where is a cheap but kid friendly city to live?

2007-06-29 14:44:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met a girl in a bar, and we hit it off pretty well. We were discussing some Internet stuff, including Myspace, and she gave me her email address. I didn't ask for the phone # (and she didn't offer it yet). What are peoples' thoughts on interest from a girl by getting the email address? Is this the 21st century version of getting the phone #?

2007-06-29 14:43:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friends little sister [13] had her boyfriend over at her house all alone [also 13] and well...they looked at their parts...is it just me or they a little too young?

2007-06-29 14:40:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-29 14:39:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships