i feel like im losing him...?

Question

lately ive been feeling like im losing him.but i love him so much and weve been through so much together that i just dont want to lose him.it seems like weve been fight more now days and yes i start it but like i ask him a question and he answers but theres a flaw in the answer and i go balistic i cant help it. hes in California.and im here in hawaii.hes there to visit but since he went there.something just changed..yea maybe its my fault for feeling this way and my fault for making the arguments and stuff.but i dont know.i can never make him happy it seems he says i do make him happy and i mean everything to him.but he never calls.i do. he never e-mails me ido..and he reads my e-mails but dont respond and e-mail other girls..he says they dont mean anything to him..its like he doesnt think about me and what im feeling..or what hes doing could hurt me in some way.what do i do..i dont want to lose him..how do i make him understand how i feel?and if theres anything else you want to add in

Answer 1

You can't make him love you.Move on and find someone that lives closer and will care about you the way you dersirve to be cared for.

Answer 2

I am going to make reference to two sayings. The first one is "actions speak louder than words".The second one is" absence makes the heart grow fonder". Both apply to your situation and boyfriend..Although you love him very much, his actions is saying that he does not feel the same about you any more.While you seem to want to take the blame for everything, I sense that it is in essence a desperate effort to keep him.Taking the fault, even if true, will not make him stay.In addition, you are in different states.Under normal circumstances,this might not be a major issue where love exists.However, in your case, absence has not made his heart fonder He clearly has other girls he is interested in. He is not going to understand your pain or feelings anymore.As much as it saddens me to say it, I will suggest you let him go.Do not put yourself in a position where he can now use or abuse you.You deserve a man who wants just you and no one else .After the intensity of the pain eases,you will agree with me .In the interim,please let me know how things are working for you and if I can be of further assistance to you.

Answer 3

The more you push, the more he is going to pull back. If he has other girlfriends then you are better off without him.
Go fishing girl - theres more fish in the sea and you will love again

Answer 4

You need to talk to him about this. No one on Yahoo Answers are going to be able to tell you what to do. Only your boyfriend will know the answer or not and he is the best one to talk to anyways.

Answer 5

Who???