I love my wife as she is great with our home and business realistic about life and problems.
I love my gf because we have fun times together and always laugh.
I love another gf because we really have fun in bed together.
does this seem normal???
2007-06-29 15:38:48 · 18 answers · asked by Ric C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It seems to me that you have taken all the qualities you like out of each woman and related them to feelings of love. Love is more than business, love is more than fun times, love is most definitely more than sex. True love is loving somebody, no matter what happens. Sickness, injury, or death can't take love away. You have some true soul searching to do. The main thing is if you truly love someone than you wouldn't want to hurt them by cheating on all three women, one whom is your wife. The real thing to do now is to soul search and find out which one you want to be with and if you really feel the way you say you feel about these women, coming out and telling the truth.
2007-06-29 16:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny how you are asking if it's common to love more than one woman at a time !!! I'm pretty sure there are a lot of people both male and female that love more than one person in an intimate way . We are human !!! If you were perfect well I guess I would be bowing down to you then !!! On the other hand if you found out your wife or one of your girlfriends were in the same boat as you OUCH !!! It would probably leave you feeling lousy and worthless . So cut the ties with the girlfriends or divorce your wife !! You cannot have your cake and eat it too , well you can but Kharma will bite you in the ass !!
2007-06-29 23:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_manzana_verde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooo, it's not common. I'm sure you'd want to hear that it is. This is why it bothers the **** out of me why those wretches that may know you're already married f*** with you or that YOU go there with them...but it is normal get diseases and spread to more people that way. Does your wife even know about the other two?!
I'm sure women may wonder too if they could love more than one man...but that's why I hear between all my girlfriends that they have that ONE true love and I believe in that.
If your wife does know about the other two..then I believe she really loves you..why would you want to do that to her? I guess that's why you mention how you love HER that she is great with being realistic about life and problems. She's a strong one to put up with this.
2007-06-29 23:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by LoveSlave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think its common if your wife love another man at the same time?even some religion permits men to marry more than one woman yet the women and their children are the ones who suffers!!
you cant have it all for god sake!!!
does it seems normal???
assuming you divorce your wife and marrys your gf, in yrs to come your "gf" will turn out to be like your ex wife.
then what r u gonna do?? get more new gf's having more fun and laughter again??DOES THIS SEEM NORMAL TO YOU???
2007-06-29 22:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your wife figures out u have a gf and tells u to f@#k off. No it's not normal, nor is it normal for a married man to have a girlfriend!
2007-06-29 23:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by *Kelandra* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal for you, yes, but for other husbands that
are married , no. Marriage is sacred and you have
made it a mess, so if you ever decide to really be
faithful to your wife and take on the responsibilities
of committment, then you will not have to ask the
question is this NORMAL, with your other women.
2007-06-29 23:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its possible, but you are getting yourself into hot water. don't do that to your wife. YOU MADE A COMMITMENT!!! why would you want to hurt her like that? would it be okay for her to do it to you? how would you feel? if you can't remain "true", then you need to talk to your wife and figure things out. try spicing up the sex life and making more time for each other to do fun stuff, you know, the stuff youre finding attractive in the others and keep it to the one woman who stole your heart in the first place!
2007-06-29 22:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lynne M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooo if you can have both this women is not normal you don't love either what you love is the fact and thrill that you can get away with having two relationships and at the end one or both of them will get tired of the bullshittt and walk off and you will end up alone..Choose or Loose.. Pick one before is too late.good luck.
2007-06-29 23:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal no you, do not know what you want.
I think you need help. How are you going to deal
with the gf that want you all to her self and she will
tell your wife and you will be all a alone.
2007-06-29 23:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are human, accept it. i love so many different people other then my husband. and all for their own uniqueness and memories. i still love my ex who i haven't been with for 4 yrs.. and he still loves me. sometimes it is hard to let feelings go and focus on what is in front of you. look at me.. kettle calling the pot black. i need to heed my own advice. if your "gf" are just friends and there is no sexual strings attatched..i say no problem. but if you are having affairs on your wife, you need to step back and think of the consequences of the loss of her in your life if she ever found out.. is she worth losing for fun times in the sack and a girl who makes you laugh??
2007-06-29 23:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by sumgirlIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋