If my boyfriend put his penis in my butt and didn't ejaculate in me, can the sperm still get in my vagina?HELP

Question

Hi, I am a 16 year old girl, and I am engaged to someone. My parents have picked him out for me, and we really love each other. First of all, let me clear this up, or else you might get confused....I am an Indian, so that's why I got engaged at such an early age. I'll call myself Layla and my fiance, Mohit. I love Mohit with all of my heart, and I know he loves me as much as well, maybe even more then that. I met Mohit on January 16, 2007, and since then I have never even thought about anyone else. Yesterday, on June 25, 2007, I decided that, he is my future husband, and to prove my love for him, I decided to make love with him. Now, my parents have gotten me engaged to him but they don't want me to make loe to him before marige obviously, so they don't know about this and to keep it fair, I told Mohit that I won't do the whole intercourse, I don't want to lose my virginity before marrige. Even then Mohit was doubtful about doing anything, but I assured him that I know what I'm doing.

Now, Mohit didn't have any thoughts of doing the intercourse, so he didn't buy any protection, but when we were doing stuff, we got so into it that he asked me if he could put it in my rear, and I said yes, because I thought it's ok and it won't hurt anyone, but right after doing it, Mohit asked me to check if any sperm went into my Vagina, and I did, but I think it did'nt because his penis was never in my Vagina, so I told him everything was ok...When we were done and I got dressed, I told him I have a stomach ache all of a sudden and we both got worried, so we brought Plan B, a medecine that prevents us from getting pregnant, for more info on it go to


and I had it, but we are still worried, am I pregnant?

There are loads of cosequences to it:
1) My parents would kill me.
2) His parents would kill him.
3) He could go to jail, since he's 20 and I'm only 16.
4) I would have to give up my studies.
5) And plenty more.

know what we did wrong, but I am really a ery good girl who obeys her parents, and I only did it with the one I love with all of my heart and plan to marry. If that's wrong then ok Laila and Mohit are wrong, but if you think that n the midst of this, we were right anywhere, then please help me, I'm only 16, and because of this, I can't even face my parents. We only had Anal Sex, and he ejaculated outside but I'm scared that maybe some got in me...plus we didn't have protection. Please Help. Thank you all. My msn is [e-mail], if you can help me in any way at all I'd really appreciate it, and we can talk about it there, and if you hav any questions, please don't hesitate to ask me. Thank you everyone.

Ok, so far, by the answers I got, I would like to get something stright, He did not put his penis in my Vagina, he just put it in my rear end, and so we think that maybe if any sperm went into it, I might be pregnant. I was under him facing him, and he put his penis in my rear end. And no, he didn't have condoms, we were'nt planning to do this. We did'nt do the intercourse, and no he did'nt go in me. I am planning to get a pregnancy test from CVS, but I think it's to early for that, I'm not sure, is it? I did it on June 25, 2007 and today is June 26, 2007, and I also think it's to early for any signs to show, isn't it? Please help me....

Answer 1

okay girl relax
first, i highly highly doubt you are pregnant!!!!
if you took the plan b, and got your period .. your totaly fine
if you didnt take the plan b, your still probaby fine.
a "stomach ache" after intercourse does not mean your pregnant. it could be anything so take a deep breath.
secound its way to early to tell if you would be pregnant. its a long process.. and to actually show your pregnant takes about a week or even more.
also you didnt have REAL sex.
so it totaly lowers your chance of being pregnant
and remember sperm dies once it hits oxygen
and its very very very hard to get pregnant with the sperm slightly touching your vagina. unless your totaly unlucky..
i promise your fine.

i understand your worried and scared

but also what plays a big role in getting pregnant was when u last got your period.. when did u last get it?

if you got it less than a week ago..
YOUR FINE

if u got it more than 2-3 weeks ago..
theres a higher chance u could be pregnant

BUT STILL I DOUBT IT

breatheee!

Answer 2

Don't worry , that is the worst thing you should do and that is why your stomach is hurting..I doubt that you got pregnant, but the only thing you can do is wait.. but like I said you will drive yourself crazy thinking like that. If he did not penetrate in the vaginal area you have nothing to worry about-if it got on your skin its OK you wont get pregnant.

Now being only sixteen you shouldn't be doing this anyway--but if you don't want another scare use protection..

Answer 3

Ok, honey, calm down. If he didn't ejaculate near you...or even if he ejaculated on your "rear" or back or just the bed...you're fine!! Even if he ejaculated in you you're fine!! I think you're probably making yourself sick over it, but you don't have anything to worry about!! Try not to worry yourself to death and you can take a test in 4 weeks from today. But, honey, I think you're just fine.

Answer 4

Dear, I m 25years gay bottom.I try to take my boyfriend penis but failure,Because very tite butt and i m crying to thise job. But i m interested this job. How to possible it.

Answer 5

the probability of you getting pregnant after this one the way you described it is very very low. take it easy.

Answer 6

I strongly urge you to get to a doctor ASAP.

Answer 7

Yes you can get pregnant.

Answer 8

....
you shouldnt be doing this.
you/your boyfriend can get diseases.

just....
wear a condom please, if you still decide to. =/